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-enter the logic of Islamic women's dress- they have a point, it's just a question of what kind of society you want, and they want one where you don't look at someone else's woman's body.
Ok this is my take on this subject. I gave up. Yes thats correct, I gave up on this. Men are going to be men, it doesnt matter if we cover up from head to toe, wear boxes, potato sacks or anything of the sort. If they see something they are attracted to, just like as women we do as well, they are going to look. I have said "Dont make it obvious" and "My eyes are up here" all of my adolescent and adult life and finally I just gave up.
If a man has class he is not going to blatently do that anyway, if the guy is tacky and classless no matter what you say or do, short of bonking him one, is going to change the way he may or may not react to female anatomy.
And I am ever so sick of the "well if she didnt dress like that" line. I used to buy into that. Covered everything all the time (not to extremes) because I was made to be ashamed of my "shape" by others comments, reactions, etc... it doesnt stop the same ignorant classless people from staring or making comments.
I really don' think they notice it unless your staring at there chest....& the girls love the attention.
Only if he is very careful but again he will be ''caught'' one day :-)
I used to think that there were guys who didn't look. I have a few colleagues whom I've never seen looking. But then it happened a few times that I was walking out of the room and then forgot something and unexpectedly turned around and he was staring at my legs (I had a skirt on not a short one though). And that happened a few times. It's not bad when they look at us but It makes me really uncomfortable when they stare at my chest.
So, guys if you would like to look that's fine but don't stare (unless someone wants you to stare). And if you can't help not starring, at least make it unnoticeable, especially at work or in some other formal settings.
<Sigh> Don't try to understand them... just love them for the crazy wild creatures that they are.
Here is a tip... look and make a mental image before you start talking to them. Then look in their eyes when you're talking but bring that mental image back into the front of you mind. That way you don't have to look away from their eyes...
It's ok sad eyes, I've heard some men prefer flatter chested girls. There's all kinds of attractions I guess.
Oh dont get me wrong, I do like being flat chested most of the time just because I can get away with certain clothes that bigger chested women cannot. But despite that little fact I DO see the appeal in a larger chest, hehe.
I read [or heard] somewhere that they can easily tell when you're looking at em, even though you don't directly stare at em, you know?
That's why I try so hard to not stare, but I do sometimes take a glance at their chest.
They notice every time right?
What I don't get. Is if they don't want guys looking, then why wear outfits that promote em, you know?
Not sure where im going with this, just wanted to say it.
thoughts?
enjoy.
<Sigh> Don't try to understand them... just love them for the crazy wild creatures that they are.
Here is a tip... look and make a mental image before you start talking to them. Then look in their eyes when you're talking but bring that mental image back into the front of you mind. That way you don't have to look away from their eyes...
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