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Darorinag
02-22-2004, 07:42 PM
ok, so I'm reading D.H Lawrence's Sons and Lovers, am actually almost halfway through, and am wondering if anyone else has read it, and what you think about it, etc.

I have a seminar presentation on it for my European and British Novel course on March 1, and what I'm going to be presenting on is - the implications of the novel's title, i.e. Sons and Lovers.

I must say that the title does sound pretty uhhh sick at first, and I think it is a bit sick.. I think, and remember that I haven't read the entire book yet, that there is an incestuous relationship (not necessarily sex..) between Paul and his mother, or so it seems (I'm at a chapter called "Paul Launches Into Life")..

So here are the most relevant quotations that I found:

“They thought awhile. He was sensible all the time of having her opposite him. Suddenly their eyes met, and she smiled to him, a rare, intimate smile, beautiful with brightness and love. Then each looked out of the window.” – p. 117

“The sixteen slow miles of railway journey passed. The mother and son walked down Station Street, feeling the excitement of lovers having an adventure together.” – p. 118

“Paul hated her for not being prouder with this common little man [Mr. Jordan], and he loved her face, clear of the veil.” – p. 120

“She looked at him with her bright blue eyes full of love and joy.” – p. 121

“All the morning long she thought of Paul.” – p. 127

“It was almost as if it were her own life.” – p. 140

“The two shared lives.” – p. 142

“His mother, to whom he became more and more significant, […]” – p. 148

“Suddenly she appeared in the inner doorway, rather shyly.”
“‘Well,’ she asked, quite shy, […]’”
“You are a fine little woman, to go jaunting out with!” – p. 151

“And again his heart hurt with love, seeing her hand, used with work, holding the little bunch of flowers he gave her. She was perfectly happy.” – p. 153

Notice all the cliché phrases that are "reserved" for lovers.
And notice the use of flower imagery, which, I think, is very significant (sexuality?).. I don't know, but I want to argue that there is an incestuous relationship going on, perhaps subconsciously, on a highly metaphorical level.

It almost seems like there is an Oedipal complex thing going on there, especially when she talks about how William (her oldest son) no longer sends her money, etc., because he has a girl now and he spends the money on her.. so maybe it portrays the separation of the son from the mother, and the replacement of that bond with another woman.

And also, Mrs Morel (Paul's mom) doesn't have a good relationship with her husband (he gets drunk all the time, sometimes beats her up, etc.), and maybe she replaces him with Paul later on..

What do you think?

Anyone has read the book? And what do you think about the book overall? I think it's great, so far. :D

Anonymouse
02-22-2004, 08:16 PM
I haven't read the book but it doesn't look like something I'd be interested in reading.

fstkhnan
02-22-2004, 09:05 PM
Originally posted by Anonymouse I haven't read the book but it doesn't look like something I'd be interested in reading.

damn, ur just up-front about everything....

Darorinag
02-22-2004, 09:16 PM
Originally posted by Anonymouse I haven't read the book but it doesn't look like something I'd be interested in reading.
Well, good for you then. They say ignorance is bliss, and well, they might be right about that, after all... :D

Why dost thou reply wh'n ya 'ave nothin' to say, my lad? :D

sleuth
02-23-2004, 03:35 AM
Originally posted by fstkhnan damn, ur just up-front about everything....

i wonder where is your tennis racquet?....where is your tennis coach?:confused: ..how come u didn't bring them into this.....::very confuse::

can you rape Anon with your tennis racquet?:D

Darorinag
02-23-2004, 04:49 AM
:eek: :confused: :confused:

loseyourname
02-23-2004, 09:32 AM
I read it a couple years back. There is never any incest. What happens is that Paul is hung up from his childhood need to defend his mother from his father and develops and idealization of her that he is subliminally in love with and can't let go of. This prevents him from being successful in his other relationships and he ends up destroying what could have been a beautiful life with a wonderful girl by being overly critical of her. He comes to resent the way she replaces his mother and he grows to be very mean toward her. It is a very long book, but well worth reading.

fstkhnan
02-23-2004, 10:17 AM
Originally posted by sleuth i wonder where is your tennis racquet?....where is your tennis coach?:confused: ..how come u didn't bring them into this.....::very confuse::

can you rape Anon with your tennis racquet?:D

if u want me to, Of course I could .....lol.....I could do anything with my tennis racquets......

loseyourname
02-23-2004, 10:22 AM
Please keep this on topic, guys. Take this tennis nonsense to a tennis thread or PM one another. This is not the place.

fstkhnan
02-23-2004, 10:29 AM
sowwy!

Darorinag
02-23-2004, 12:02 PM
Originally posted by loseyourname I read it a couple years back. There is never any incest. What happens is that Paul is hung up from his childhood need to defend his mother from his father and develops and idealization of her that he is subliminally in love with and can't let go of. This prevents him from being successful in his other relationships and he ends up destroying what could have been a beautiful life with a wonderful girl by being overly critical of her. He comes to resent the way she replaces his mother and he grows to be very mean toward her. It is a very long book, but well worth reading.
Hmm, well, actually, I didn't mean sexually oriented incest. I just meant relationship-wise... The mother-son relationship between Mrs Morel and Paul wasn't a normal one, don't you think? :confused: I guess there's a lot of Freud in there, but the thing is that it's an anachronism... so we can't really interpret it on the bases that he used Freudian theory.

Btw, did you notice the scene with the swing? :D Such sexual imagery!!! :eek: