Guys making the first move

[SagGal]

Guys ask out girls.

That is how it's usually done, but I feel sorry for the guys sometimes because they have to make the first move. There are girls who ask out guys, but lets face it, mostly it is guys asking out girls. Do any guys think that it is not fair that they are the ones who supposedly have to ask out girls and not the other way around? Is there a guy in her who wishes it would be the other way around? How did that even become the way it is? Easier on the girls........but yea, you get the point.:)

[Anonymouse]

Hey, don't feel sorry for me, I rarely get rejected and when I do, I'm drunk.

[dstyle]

I don't get rejected either, alas I don't really try.

See anon I'm trying to use the caps.

[Hogg]

I'm sure it I'd get more action if it was more balanced. I'm the type to never make a move and hope something comes my way. Kind of like some fish I learned about in marine bio. who open up their mouth and just wait for food to sink into it...except I'm a lot pickier.

[PASAMONSTER]

i'd make the first move for the not so serious relationships, like bar and club hookups, for one night stand purposes.

but when it comes to a girl that i really love i get stuck i dont know why?

[spiral]

so if you see a girl in a bar or club-you automatically place them in the one-night-stand category?

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by Hogg I'm sure it I'd get more action if it was more balanced. I'm the type to never make a move and hope something comes my way. Kind of like some fish I learned about in marine bio. who open up their mouth and just wait for food to sink into it...except I'm a lot pickier.

Hahahaha that was funny cousin.

[SagGal]

PASA, you sort of reminded me of something.
Sometimes guys just walk up to a girl and say things like, "Hey babe wassup?" and just begin to hit on her and etc. Other times, the same guy will come up to another girl and will act all shy and.......NORMAL.
I don't get it. Do guys just sometimes want to hook up with girls for some fun and then just dump them?~> Bad Side
Some guys are just so shy and when they ask out girls, their voices are trembling.~> Good/Sad Side.
I'm confusing myself now:confused:

btw. any of you guys ever been asked out by girls or have any girls here ever asked out guys?

[Darorinag]

Yeah, I wish it were the other way around.

And yes, I have been asked out by a girl before... :o

[Darorinag]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Hahahaha that was funny cousin.
Is Hogg your cousin?? :confused:

[anileve]

Originally posted by SagGal Do guys just sometimes want to hook up with girls for some fun and then just dump them?~> Bad Side

Yes, we call that puberty.

Originally posted by SagGal Some guys are just so shy and when they ask out girls, their voices are trembling.~> Good/Sad Side.


Yes, we call that romantic puberty.

[loseyourname]

This is where Dan has us one-upped. He doesn't need to worry about prescribed gender roles.

[PASAMONSTER]

I asked girls out, but sadly to say that girls never asked me out.

I guess its my demeanor and my scary face!!!


ahhh dang man everytime i come to this love forum, I get depressed!

[Hogg]

Originally posted by Darorinag Is Hogg your cousin?? :confused:

Yep.

[jilbagh]

i've been asked out by girls, and it's less agonizing of asking her out or for her #... i've noticed it gets to the heads of some of the LA girls, and this was proved last weekend on my trip to Texas.
:D

so ya...why not? it's mutual. after all you women did fight for equal rights :D