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Hi, I would like to ask for Armenian people's opinions, perhaps specific with Armenian people in Canada, but well all of you can share your opinion since I love to hear from as much people as I can.
Well here the story goes, I am asian gay boy(24 y/o) and I have an Armenian bf who was born and raised in Canada. He is 20 y/o and still lives with his parents. We went out for about two months. Everything was great and perfect. He was the best bf I ever had, like seriously I thought I was lucky to find the one. On one Monday, we were going to meet but he didn't know the exact time his research will be done, he called me said ok i'm going to the research prolly half an hour to an hour. he called me again later but I didn't wake up yet since I went to bed at like five the night before. So I said you can go see the doctor now we dont' have to meet today. He said ok.
Then later I woke up went to see doctor, he called me saying ok he's at the doctor (different one). I asked him if we are going to meet today. He said no, it's his brother birthday. Everything seemed fine. I said well we can make it tomorrow or the day after.
Two hours later, he called me and asked me where I am. I said I'm outside. He asked me to be home so he will come to meet me at my place in an hour. I was like what's going on, you said it's your brother bday. I didn't even finish my sentence. I heard his mom screamed from the back saying "YOU ARE NOT GOING ANYWHERE, TAKE YOUR CLOTHES AND GO TO YOUR ROOM". He said gonna call me back. He called me back like two mins later saying "Baby, I'm sorry I can't do this anymore" I said "what do you mean" he said "I can't do us anymore my parents found out. So he was grounded. I still met for a talk about what's going on. and I wonder if he could manage to meet me then how come he can't manage to meet me later. He said he cared about me, he cried right when he saw me. He said he wanted me this and that but his family is more important. I said well can we be friends and stuff. He said if his dad finds out again then he will be kicked out. He said he wanted to be friends and then we agreed. But his action from that day was not the same as he said. I could feel the different in him. He has changed perhaps by his parents. I am hurt. I still can't get over him. Wanna know how he has been doing and stuff. Still wanna talk to him. All he said was sorry to put you through all this.
So I wonder how Armenian thinks of gay people, perhaps specific to gay children. Is it embarrassing? I don't think he can change, he said he likes both girl and guy, but I know all my heart he likes guys so much. Like I never saw him look at girl but guy. So, just in your opinion, what do you think about this situation? I felt so bad for him, yet I don't wanna lose him (like I said, I found the one i was looking for). Am I selfish that I still want him? I don't care if it's just a friend hanging out no sex or something. I just wanna see him, talk to him sometimes hug him and help him with everything. I can't cut him off my life forever. It is so sad. And I was surprised how he could still hang out with his friends and stuff, even went to Britney Spears concert. I was surprised since he can go out with his friends, but how come he didn't include me in there. Like I used to hang out with his friends before and it's fine. I know he is a really good guy. He said he doesn't wanna lie to his parents anymore. So please give me your opinion, it's been three weeks now, but I am still depressed and sad. I missed him a lot, been crying alot. Thank you guys
Well here the story goes, I am asian gay boy(24 y/o) and I have an Armenian bf who was born and raised in Canada. He is 20 y/o and still lives with his parents. We went out for about two months. Everything was great and perfect. He was the best bf I ever had, like seriously I thought I was lucky to find the one. On one Monday, we were going to meet but he didn't know the exact time his research will be done, he called me said ok i'm going to the research prolly half an hour to an hour. he called me again later but I didn't wake up yet since I went to bed at like five the night before. So I said you can go see the doctor now we dont' have to meet today. He said ok.
Then later I woke up went to see doctor, he called me saying ok he's at the doctor (different one). I asked him if we are going to meet today. He said no, it's his brother birthday. Everything seemed fine. I said well we can make it tomorrow or the day after.
Two hours later, he called me and asked me where I am. I said I'm outside. He asked me to be home so he will come to meet me at my place in an hour. I was like what's going on, you said it's your brother bday. I didn't even finish my sentence. I heard his mom screamed from the back saying "YOU ARE NOT GOING ANYWHERE, TAKE YOUR CLOTHES AND GO TO YOUR ROOM". He said gonna call me back. He called me back like two mins later saying "Baby, I'm sorry I can't do this anymore" I said "what do you mean" he said "I can't do us anymore my parents found out. So he was grounded. I still met for a talk about what's going on. and I wonder if he could manage to meet me then how come he can't manage to meet me later. He said he cared about me, he cried right when he saw me. He said he wanted me this and that but his family is more important. I said well can we be friends and stuff. He said if his dad finds out again then he will be kicked out. He said he wanted to be friends and then we agreed. But his action from that day was not the same as he said. I could feel the different in him. He has changed perhaps by his parents. I am hurt. I still can't get over him. Wanna know how he has been doing and stuff. Still wanna talk to him. All he said was sorry to put you through all this.
So I wonder how Armenian thinks of gay people, perhaps specific to gay children. Is it embarrassing? I don't think he can change, he said he likes both girl and guy, but I know all my heart he likes guys so much. Like I never saw him look at girl but guy. So, just in your opinion, what do you think about this situation? I felt so bad for him, yet I don't wanna lose him (like I said, I found the one i was looking for). Am I selfish that I still want him? I don't care if it's just a friend hanging out no sex or something. I just wanna see him, talk to him sometimes hug him and help him with everything. I can't cut him off my life forever. It is so sad. And I was surprised how he could still hang out with his friends and stuff, even went to Britney Spears concert. I was surprised since he can go out with his friends, but how come he didn't include me in there. Like I used to hang out with his friends before and it's fine. I know he is a really good guy. He said he doesn't wanna lie to his parents anymore. So please give me your opinion, it's been three weeks now, but I am still depressed and sad. I missed him a lot, been crying alot. Thank you guys
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