Problem with music.

[Jenny]

Well I have to admit I used to listen to that kind of music too. I was in perfect control till i had a down period. It' s really addictive..

Anyways don't know all the bands but he's fave is cradle of filth. Their video scared the xxxx out of me. I mean they're like the king of satan. Anyways he also likes rammstein something like that they're german.

It's okay to listen to manson but this is way violent. what got me scared even more is that he started a band. He's 15 for crying out loud how did he do that? He and his band even bought a 500$ drumset within 5 months. His school is already packed with satanist.

Okay this is hard but i'm admitting it, I'm the one who introduced him to this type. He used to like pop bands which was really pathetic and i needed some1 to share the music with. Perfect fit huh? Anyway I feel guilty....

[whitelotus]

lollllllllllllll vampire xxxx haha

again, what bands is he listening to ?

[PASAMONSTER]

if he starts wearing a trench coat and talking funny

or at any time you notice he just isn't your brother anymore but some guy names BEAELAZABUB give him two barrells

one in the head one in the heart, to be safe incase he is into the vampire xxxx.

[Hogg]

I say don't worry. I was 9 years old when I was listening to xxxx that promoted violence, drug use, and xxxxin' every girl in sight and I don't have the urge to do any of that now. Fine, you got me on the girl part. I don't know what kind of mentality your brother has. Anyone who will behave a certain way from listening to music was probably going to do the same thing eventually without the music.

[felizitation]

Originally posted by whitelotus jenny, what are some of these bands names ?

Maybe something like:
"RSBIHWLD"



or to be more explicit:
"RELIGIOUS SISTER BURN IN HELL WITH LADY DIANA"

[whitelotus]

jenny, what are some of these bands names ?

is it satanic bands ? or just music that is not christian in general ?

[felizitation]

Originally posted by spiral Just leave the kid alone damnit!

It's what i'm doing though ...

[spiral]

Just leave the kid alone damnit!

[felizitation]

Originally posted by Jenny He is quite religious, I know that he's not totaly into it. I'm just afraid that the music will change him.

Talk to him about the music. I mean, discussion, not objections against the whole messages of the music he's listenning to. Make him talk about what he's thinking about the lyrics.
Coz listenning to music is more often passive. He may appreciate a lot the music and maybe he has never cared about the lyrics.
Discussions would transform this passivity into an activity and so, a critical sense.

Music at this age is more a means of rebellion, in order to be different. It does go well with the puberty, when everyone tries to find out an identity.

I think if you go against this music, he'll go against you, and then discussions would be very hard. Sollicitate his critical sense.

[PASAMONSTER]

nahhhhhh

music preferences change over time especially at that age. Just don't let him get too deep into it, like attending rituals and gatherings.