Punishing our kids!

[PASAMONSTER]

OK let me ask a question?

How many of you talking about this topic have actually been beat?

LOL I have!!!

and I mean with objects, not hands.

[xBaron Dants]

Originally posted by PASAMONSTER OK let me ask a question?

How many of you talking about this topic have actually been beat?

LOL I have!!!

and I mean with objects, not hands.

Never...not by parents, nor anybody else.

[PASAMONSTER]

baron
sometimes its good to take a beating
it thickeness the hide

[patlajan]

Originally posted by PASAMONSTER OK let me ask a question?

How many of you talking about this topic have actually been beat?

LOL I have!!!

and I mean with objects, not hands.

OK that's one vote against corporal punishment. Especialy objects geeez....That is why I went into a whole explanation of how the punishment should fit the crime.

[xBaron Dants]

Originally posted by PASAMONSTER baron
sometimes its good to take a beating
it thickeness the hide

To each his own. I'd rather be TALKING with people.

[violette829]

Pasa...u r scaring the forumers browsing in my thread..STOP IT!

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

Because haves chunem kartam bolorit gratsnere, piti avelatsnem hetevialle: My mom bit the hell out of me when I was yuonger, I grew up really nice girl ! Dont imagine she was abusing me
but a sometime bitting gains respect towards your parents! today's kids do not have any respect from their parents because parents never tried to teach them about it. If you slap once your kid for disrespect then afterwards he/she will not repeat his/her actions. Once in a while the kids need to be bit when they are respect-less towards their parents! Otherwise we will hear stories
that young adults use drugs do this and that.....
Everything comes from the family, their values that kids had been tought and whatever they saw from their parents. (whatever I wrote doesnt accord to child abuse, please dont start writing opinions about it, because I dont relate to that at all)

thank you
Happy New year

[jahannam]

Originally posted by SexyAries I've learned that as much as you tell your kids or neaces and nephews that something is wrong or hit them even beat them they are still going to do what they want to do. Goes in one ear and out the other (my mom usto say that to me all them time). I have a nephew and i have cousines who have kids that Im close to from the ages of 10 months to 19 years. As much as i have tried telling them DON'T and STOP and BE this way or DO it that way, they will always choose the oppistite of what i say. So now I have gone to the point of saying ok if you want to do drugs or other things at least let me be there let me help and show you the right way, this way if i tell them only doing it once is enough just to get the expierence of taking a drug, or doing something differently or acting a certain way (so on and so forth) they will listen, why tell them DON'T if they are going to do it anyway, you would rather be there to help them in their choices. We were all children once we know how it is to be stubborn and do it our way. My parents never controlled me or punished me or even told me how to be or act, my dad has beat the living xxxx out of me for stupid stupid reasons but he is my dad and i love him regardless. True, i think if they had been a little less leanient and more abrasive i would have been a little less of a trouble maker and "xxxxxy" but i like who i am and i think i am who i am becaue of the way i was raised and i will raise my children to think for themselves to come to me with anything they want and i will help them with their choices i wont tell them what to choose.

You live your OWN life and you live it once, you have plenty of time to be dead!

"My parents never controlled me or punished me or even told me how to be or act"????
you DO realize why you're a messed up HEROIN and COCAINE addict then...right?


"i like who i am" ??
don't lie.
we can tell whether or not you like how you've turned out.
but I know it's cooler to SAY that you accept yourself ...
come on, just be a good girl and tell me that you'd hate your kids to be coc addicts like yourself.

So now I have gone to the point of saying ok if you want to do drugs or other things at least let me be there let me help and show you the right way, this way if i tell them only doing it once is enough just to get the expierence of taking a drug,
can you people believe that??
megha asdoudzo
and the fact that she's not ashamed of thinking that way and announcing it to people makes it even worse..
look woman, I don't mean to be mean, but it's people like you who are having kids that are corrupting our world.


As much as i have tried telling them DON'T and STOP and BE this way or DO it that way, they will always choose the oppistite of what i say.
that only means you're a kinda late.
they've passed that certain age when you were supposed to teach em whats right and whats wrong.

so basically, yeah... either change this "airhead" mentality of yours, or don't have kids.

[jahannam]

Originally posted by PASAMONSTER baron
sometimes its good to take a beating
it thickeness the hide

it smells like "Figh Club" in here

[SexyAries]

First off, who are you to judge me?

Secondly, I have been cleaned up for awhile now and i plan to stay that way, I also said True, i think if they had been a little less leanient and more abrasive i would have been a little less of a trouble maker and "xxxxxy" and you are extremely right i dont like who i am, I LOVE who i am!

Third, No see thats what your whole life is based upon being mean to people, so don't lie!!! you know you are being mean and you love doing it! As for people like me corrupting our children thats a flock of xxxx! i raise my kids how i feel is right and you raise yours how you feel is right but if my kids end up being "not like i was" and your kids do, (if i ever find out, or see you) i will say I TOLD YOU SO!

And last but not least, how the hell would you know if i have tried before or havn't? Don't always assume your way through life! I have tried when they were young, thus the whole thing about
As much as i HAVE tried telling them Don't and Stop and Be this way or Do it that way, they will always choose the oppistite of what i say It didnt work, so i tried it differently and, OMG what do you know, it worked.