Confused. Please advise...

[Hayuhi]

Re: Confused. Please advise...

Salutations to all. I am somewhat new here. Have posted practically nothing but have browsed/ read topics of interest.

I have a silly dilemma I need clarification on. All responses are greatly appreciated. I think male member's insights would be most helpful.

I have been working for my current employer for the past year and a half (almost). We are in one of the nice commercial buildings in downtown Glendale. There happen to be lot of young Armenian boys and girls in our building. We see each other in hallways, bathrooms, and the underground parking area and exchange daily greetings and pleasantries. All nice and sweet and so on...

But (and this is a big Haykakan BUT), there is this one guy who is driving me nuts. He acts so aloof and nonchalant whenever we are in the confines of the elevator. He does not greet me, he is careful not to hold my gaze for too long ad he outright dismisses the fact that I exist and am taking up space on this planet. It is irritating. The irritating part is that he does other things that totally negate his dismissal of me. He goes out of his way to park his car next to mine... his car is too big and too expensive to be parked where I park my smaller car. But every morning he comes a bit earlier just so he can have that exact spot.

He makes sure to “run” into me no matter how early or how late I take lunch ( I have tested this for months). And he has recently made friends with certain coworkers of mine. So now he has made a point of getting on the elevator with all of us.,greets all of them and TOTALLY ignores me. But there is this tension in the air. It unnerving...

I cannot have this situation hanging out there in the universe unresolved. I need some kind of resolution. Believe me, I can tell when someone is plain ignoring me as opposed to what this dude is doing. So what should I do?

Without going into details, I would like to assure you guys that I am not interested in having any kind of relationship with him. I just want him to acknowledge me or just cut out this stupid act.

Inch eq kartsum? Am I the one who is off my rocker?

Thoughts please...

If i were you, i would completely ignore him...just like anonymouse sad. I think he's doing all this for a reason.. maybe he likes you