Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

[Mos]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

She was born and educated in the UK but her parents were born in Armenia and the family spoke their own language at home. So I guess somewhere in between...

That explains a lot.

[London]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

Was she assimilated Armenian or recent immigrant from Armenia?

She was born and educated in the UK but her parents were born in Armenia and the family spoke their own language at home. So I guess somewhere in between...

[Mos]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

I agree with you 100%; whichever man eventually gets to marry you will be truly blessed

I'm not Armenian (I'm British) but I once dated an Armenian girl. She made it very clear to me that we could not have full s*x and I could not, ahem, pleasure her, other than by getting married. Unfortunately there were some differences between us and we split up. If we'd had s*x I think the emotional involvement would have been even greater and so it would have been more upsetting for both of us, and of course it would have made it a lot harder for her to date or marry an Armenian man.

Some people here have said that the hymen is just a piece of skin, it does not matter and it can be broken by riding a bicycle or doing gymnastics as a child. And it can be re-created by a doctor or taken by a rapist. Of course, they are right. I don't think a girl gains any respect or nobility simply by having the physical sign of virginity, she gets it by being pure, which means not having s*x or being pleasured by a man before marriage or pleasuring herself.

Others have said that it is a double standard if men can do things before marriage that women can't. This is also true. But do we really want men and women to be the same? In many ways, women are much better than men. One of their many forms of superiority is that they have greater self control and are capable of much bigger sacrifices. With my ex there were many times she was very aroused and badly wanted to have s*x or an org**m but she was strong and resisted because she wanted these things to happen first with her eventual husband. It was very hard for me but I went along with that, so actually by being strong she made me stronger and purer as well, which is typical of how women help us men to be better people than we would otherwise be

Was she assimilated Armenian or recent immigrant from Armenia?

[Hyreniq]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

She didn't leave me for financial reasons, and she was no gold-digger

Some how you've answered my question.

[London]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

I guess you weren't rich enough for her. I'm joking but in most cases this is right

She didn't leave me for financial reasons, and she was no gold-digger

[London]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

But the big reason women have to show more self control is they face far more negative consequences than men. It is not because somehow they are morally, spiritually, or physically superior.

That's true for full-on s*x. But women are also better at suppressing their s*xual urged generally. For instance my ex never pleasured herself (she found the idea of women doing that kind of thing rather disgusting) or allowed me to do so for her, whereas she would happily pleasure me (and was very good at it )

[Hyreniq]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

With my ex there were many times she was very aroused and badly wanted to have s*x or an org**m but she was strong and resisted because she wanted these things to happen first with her eventual husband.

I guess you weren't rich enough for her. I'm joking but in most cases this is right

[Sip]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

In many ways, women are much better than men. One of their many forms of superiority is that they have greater self control and are capable of much bigger sacrifices.

I don't think there is any biological thing here ... what you are saying is a result of learned behaviors. But the big reason women have to show more self control is they face far more negative consequences than men. It is not because somehow they are morally, spiritually, or physically superior.

[London]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

If people love each other they can have sex, that is their problem actually. But girls think! if your boy love you so much why doesn`t he want to marry you and have sex after marriage?
I want only one man and partner to be in my life. Nobody`s gonna kill me if I have sex before marriage because that`s my life, but I really don`t want! And I am sure that I`ll be very happy with my husband in future, of coz he`ll be too!
But some armenian men should also think using their brains, not othere parts of body! Sometimes they make poor girls, who loves them with all their heart, have sex with them and afterwards they go away! (if you goo awaayy...)))

I agree with you 100%; whichever man eventually gets to marry you will be truly blessed

I'm not Armenian (I'm British) but I once dated an Armenian girl. She made it very clear to me that we could not have full s*x and I could not, ahem, pleasure her, other than by getting married. Unfortunately there were some differences between us and we split up. If we'd had s*x I think the emotional involvement would have been even greater and so it would have been more upsetting for both of us, and of course it would have made it a lot harder for her to date or marry an Armenian man.

Some people here have said that the hymen is just a piece of skin, it does not matter and it can be broken by riding a bicycle or doing gymnastics as a child. And it can be re-created by a doctor or taken by a rapist. Of course, they are right. I don't think a girl gains any respect or nobility simply by having the physical sign of virginity, she gets it by being pure, which means not having s*x or being pleasured by a man before marriage or pleasuring herself.

Others have said that it is a double standard if men can do things before marriage that women can't. This is also true. But do we really want men and women to be the same? In many ways, women are much better than men. One of their many forms of superiority is that they have greater self control and are capable of much bigger sacrifices. With my ex there were many times she was very aroused and badly wanted to have s*x or an org**m but she was strong and resisted because she wanted these things to happen first with her eventual husband. It was very hard for me but I went along with that, so actually by being strong she made me stronger and purer as well, which is typical of how women help us men to be better people than we would otherwise be

[retro]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

If you're asking whether you can impress her with money and material possession then the answer is yes.

Women are predatory animals.