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  • Mos
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    Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

    Originally posted by hrai View Post
    Mos, where'd you get that figure from? I have more than that at my house for New Year's!
    was in wiki: ^ a b c "Country-of-birth data, 2001". Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development. Retrieved 2008-09-14.

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  • hrai
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    Originally posted by Mos View Post
    UK though has a rather small Armenian population (e.g. only 589 Armenia-born people in UK). You come across Armenians often? So what happened to your ex, did she marry eventually? Of course, if she desired to have an Armenian family, she would have to marry an Armenian...
    Mos, where'd you get that figure from? I have more than that at my house for New Year's!

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  • London
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    Originally posted by Mos View Post
    Well yes, Armenian culture is very family oriented and our traditions help keep our society in a better shape. Sometimes I wish our traditions were even more stricter.

    Well, any Armenian women that actually wants to have an Armenian family will be looking for another Armenian to marry. I guess ones who don't care will be open to other options. Though if you like that culture/values a lot, you should look into Indian women, they are plentiful in the UK

    Your ex should go to Armenia and find a good man, so she can have an Armenian family and give her parents what they always wanted
    My ex and her parents were not concerned about whether she married an Armenian man or any other nationality, provided he was a decent man and that it was a loving relationship. Having good, healthy children was more important to her than having 100% Armenian ones.

    I hope she is happy with whoever she eventually marries, irrespective of his nationality.

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  • Mos
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    Originally posted by London View Post
    I think the Armenian culture is a good one because of the high moral standards and focus on the family that it offers, which contrast to how mainstream culture is in the country where I live (the UK). For instance because of what happened to her sister my ex was doubly keen to stay pure because she knew her parents badly wanted grandchildren and that they would never get them from her sister. So her sister's big mistake had a positive impact on her own morality and behaviour.

    Unfortunately my ex and her family are the only Armenians I've ever met and even then, only the parents were actually born in Armenia, the girls were born in the UK. I would love to date and marry another Armenian but I am realistic, I know there are very few in my country so the chances are low

    The last I heard, my ex was still unmarried, but was dating another Englishman.
    Well yes, Armenian culture is very family oriented and our traditions help keep our society in a better shape. Sometimes I wish our traditions were even more stricter.

    Well, any Armenian women that actually wants to have an Armenian family will be looking for another Armenian to marry. I guess ones who don't care will be open to other options. Though if you like that culture/values a lot, you should look into Indian women, they are plentiful in the UK

    Your ex should go to Armenia and find a good man, so she can have an Armenian family and give her parents what they always wanted

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  • London
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    Originally posted by Mos View Post
    Well I know very well about the marriage culture, yes such mistakes can make you unworthy to make a stable Armenian family, and either you marry someone who doesn't care about that or just live your life without ever having family. Remaining pure till marriage is very important and I'm glad that is an important element in our traditions. Unfortunately, some of the Western corruptions aim at destroying that in favour of the so called "sexual revolution". Though I'm happy to say such a revolution has not happened in our society because there's a movement among the youth to keep our traditional values.

    UK though has a rather small Armenian population (e.g. only 589 Armenia-born people in UK). You come across Armenians often? So what happened to your ex, did she marry eventually? Of course, if she desired to have an Armenian family, she would have to marry an Armenian...
    I think the Armenian culture is a good one because of the high moral standards and focus on the family that it offers, which contrast to how mainstream culture is in the country where I live (the UK). For instance because of what happened to her sister my ex was doubly keen to stay pure because she knew her parents badly wanted grandchildren and that they would never get them from her sister. So her sister's big mistake had a positive impact on her own morality and behaviour.

    Unfortunately my ex and her family are the only Armenians I've ever met and even then, only the parents were actually born in Armenia, the girls were born in the UK. I would love to date and marry another Armenian but I am realistic, I know there are very few in my country so the chances are low

    The last I heard, my ex was still unmarried, but was dating another Englishman.

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  • Mos
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    Originally posted by London View Post
    What happened to her sister was really sad. She was dating a guy for a long time, I think they could have been engaged. They got drunk one night and had sex. He ended the relationship as a result. In the culture of her family, if a girl loses her virginity before marriage she is considered unmarriageable and also shameful/unclean and hence unworthy of dating. So she now lives as a lifelong spinster. She also re-trained to be a primary school teacher because she loves children and is resigned to never having them and that job is as near as she can get to having kids of her own.

    As for my ex, no we didn't end it because she wanted to stay pure for marriage. As long as I felt that we might one day marry I was very happy with that arrangement because of course it's much nicer for a man if his bride is pure. And although she wouldn't have full sex or let me do certain things to please her, there were things she did to please me that like any man I enjoyed very much .

    We split up because we jointly decided that there were too many differences in temperament between us for us to make a happy marriage. But I admired her greatly because she was a very honest, cultured, kind, family-oriented person and I would happily date and maybe marry an Armenian woman in the future if I had the opportunity.
    Well I know very well about the marriage culture, yes such mistakes can make you unworthy to make a stable Armenian family, and either you marry someone who doesn't care about that or just live your life without ever having family. Remaining pure till marriage is very important and I'm glad that is an important element in our traditions. Unfortunately, some of the Western corruptions aim at destroying that in favour of the so called "sexual revolution". Though I'm happy to say such a revolution has not happened in our society because there's a movement among the youth to keep our traditional values.

    UK though has a rather small Armenian population (e.g. only 589 Armenia-born people in UK). You come across Armenians often? So what happened to your ex, did she marry eventually? Of course, if she desired to have an Armenian family, she would have to marry an Armenian...

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  • London
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    Originally posted by Mos View Post
    So what ever happened to that older sister? Very unfortunate that it happened to her and I'm sure the males around her took advantage. So was that sticking to virginity reason why you broke off?
    What happened to her sister was really sad. She was dating a guy for a long time, I think they could have been engaged. They got drunk one night and had sex. He ended the relationship as a result. In the culture of her family, if a girl loses her virginity before marriage she is considered unmarriageable and also shameful/unclean and hence unworthy of dating. So she now lives as a lifelong spinster. She also re-trained to be a primary school teacher because she loves children and is resigned to never having them and that job is as near as she can get to having kids of her own.

    As for my ex, no we didn't end it because she wanted to stay pure for marriage. As long as I felt that we might one day marry I was very happy with that arrangement because of course it's much nicer for a man if his bride is pure. And although she wouldn't have full sex or let me do certain things to please her, there were things she did to please me that like any man I enjoyed very much .

    We split up because we jointly decided that there were too many differences in temperament between us for us to make a happy marriage. But I admired her greatly because she was a very honest, cultured, kind, family-oriented person and I would happily date and maybe marry an Armenian woman in the future if I had the opportunity.

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  • Mos
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    Originally posted by London View Post
    Yes, they were both very nice, polite and quite formal, especially her father. I think it was partly out of love for them hat she had decided to stay pure until marriage. They were very close as a family and I don't think she wanted to disappoint them. Also she had an older sister who she said had sex with a man when she'd had too much to drink and from that time onward didn't date anyone and accepted she would forever be a spinster and childless, and my then girlfriend very much wanted to stay a virgin because in her mind that was the only way she could one day marry and give her parents the grandchildren they yearned for.
    So what ever happened to that older sister? Very unfortunate that it happened to her and I'm sure the males around her took advantage. So was that sticking to virginity reason why you broke off?

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  • London
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    Originally posted by Mos View Post
    Did you ever face her parents? especially father?
    Yes, they were both very nice, polite and quite formal, especially her father. I think it was partly out of love for them hat she had decided to stay pure until marriage. They were very close as a family and I don't think she wanted to disappoint them. Also she had an older sister who she said had sex with a man when she'd had too much to drink and from that time onward didn't date anyone and accepted she would forever be a spinster and childless, and my then girlfriend very much wanted to stay a virgin because in her mind that was the only way she could one day marry and give her parents the grandchildren they yearned for.

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  • Mos
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    Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

    Did you ever face her parents? especially father?

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