If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

[Armanen]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

Anyway.....

Yeah anyway... I'm glad you were banned skank.

[ara87]

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I'm not denying it, I was just saying there were exceptions. I also believe it has to do with where the man's family originates from(Lebanese Armenian vs Iranian Armenian) and what generation he is. (F.O.B. vs 3rd generation)

[muffin]

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Wow, I see lots of disagreement.


AnoushA, It’s great you have such high opinion of Armenian men. I agree there are exceptions but let’s return to the main issue here. To suggest that in general Armenian men are not the way I described them is foolish and an overestimation. Ironically that overestimation is going to polish the egos of all the men that are the way I described them and encourage them to be the way they are. I am going to stick to the fact that the majority of Armenian men are chauvinists who have become to be such because their parents unconsciously have raised them that way. Chauvinist idea are deeply embedded in our society. Let me give you examples, a lot of parents are OK when their sons start dating or even start having sex before getting married. Yet the same scenario is observed very rarely with the daughters. Daughter on top of school work and part time jobs are encouraged to start doing house work from early age yet guys are not. Instead of praising the few exceptions we should be focusing on the majority who are still so narrow minded that they would search for a virgin wife with the ridiculous excuse that they are “pure” yet they xxxx like chimpanzees with anything that says YES. If we leave out these “little details” and don’t solve them I agree with you that we are going to see lots of interracial marriages. But it will be the women not wanting to have anything in common with Armenian men.

Ara87, I agree about the exceptions, my brother is one of them, yet surprisingly he supports my observations of most Armenian men, lightly said, to be just a little more chauvinist than any other race. A great example is men having sex all they want before marriage and then refusing non-virgin wife. Armenian men along side Muslim and some other conservative races are the only ones still thinking in these terms till these days.

Now you all can deny this all you want. But the facts are out there. The problem is that people overlook them on daily bases and live in denial.

Now I don’t expect too many Armenian men to agree since obviously I am targeting most but not all in negative way. But I truly hope I gave you some food for thought, AnoushA

[Pazooki]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

Prince, princess. Uh, If you like that tales much, You should read some japan manga. They are number one at these times.

[Palavra]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

Prince, princess. Uh, If you like that tales much, You should read some japan manga. They are number one at these times.

[One-Way]

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[Anush]

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Anush you should be aware that this muffin creature is a bot. Otherwise good post.

Well in that case I will say what I really wanted to say and that is.... Muffin any woman that wants to be treated like a princess should be willing to treat her man like a prince.... it works both ways. Women tend to forget that fact.

My parents have been married 34 yrs and my mother takes care of our home and my father takes care of all of us, and guess what they are both Armenian. And he doesnt sit around drinking and watching television, amazing.

[Armanen]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

Anush you should be aware that this muffin creature is a bot. Otherwise good post.

[One-Way]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

Anush is right on.

[Anush]

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Me being an Armenian woman, I gotta say it's xxxxx hard to find an Armenian guy that is not 1) hardheaded 2) macho 3) thinks that i belong home cooking 4) makes sure that i don't know more about sex than him 5) has damn pride issues ( unfortunatelly, this phenomena is observed 100% in Armenian men) and so forth and so on. Not until men from my beloved race learn how to be real men without stupid pride issues am i going to spend the rest of my life with one of those mentioned. And let me tell you why, because such pathetic marriage is either gonna end in divorce or me having sex with other guys who will make me feel like a woman instead of an enslaved housekepper with bunch of kids running around.

In a scenario such as this one, i would rather spend my life with a person of different race who is not only going to have sex to make bunch of kids and then simply drink and watch TV everyday and expect me to go to work, cook dinner and do all the housework. My polish boyfriend cooks for me, helps with housework ( after all we both live in that house not just me), makes crazy love to me in other words treats me like a princess like I should be treated. And this is what i call a man. And one day I hope to have lots of little blond sons and daughters with him who will not only know Armenian language and Armenian history but will identify themselves just as much of an Armenian as me.

I hope I dont get bashed for this. But Muffin I think you must have very limited experience with "Armenian Guys" either that, or you are very young. I would say 100% of my male friends that 100% or any percent Armenian are nothing like what you are detailing in your post. And I think that you are being very general in your statements regarding "our men".

Most of my male friends, family or acquaintances are the exact opposite of what you are describing. And yes they have pride but in a positive example of the traite. Instead of making sweeping general statements you should try to develope some of that "pride" for our males, give positive output, and get to know people instead of assuming that all our Armenian men are as you discribe.

It makes me sad that the attitude of so many young armenian women is such as yours, and that we are losing so many of our young men to mixed marriages because of it.

And yes I am female.