Your Sex Life

[sSsflamesSs]

I'll start.

I don't have one.

And yes, it's killing me.

And yes, it's killing me...wait I already said that.

I'm beginning to think that this "waiting till marriage" (or engagement ) bit is going to do more damage than not.

With the influx of sexually active members, I thought that I should create a separate thread for users to brag in.

[sSsflamesSs]

Nine Inch Nails

"Closer"

you let me violate you, you let me desecrate you
you let me penetrate you, you let me complicate you
help me I broke apart my insides, help me I’ve got no soul to sell
help me the only thing that works for me, help me get away from myself
I want to xxxx you like an animal
I want to feel you from the inside
I want to xxxx you like an animal
my whole existence is flawed
you get me closer to god
you can have my isolation, you can have the hate that it brings
you can have my absence of faith, you can have my everything
help me tear down my reason, help me its' your sex I can smell
help me you make me perfect, help me become somebody else
I want to xxxx you like an animal
I want to feel you from the inside
I want to xxxx you like an animal
my whole existence is flawed
you get me closer to god
through every forest, above the trees
within my stomach, scraped off my knees
I drink the honey inside your hive
you are the reason I stay alive


Doesn't this song just turn you on?

[Artsakhtsi]

you poor thing...

[ckBejug]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

You know when they say you don't know what you're missing? It seems to me, from what I hear from sexually active people, that once you've had sex you want it even more than if you never had it at all.

does that make sense?

So like if you are having sex with some guy and you guys break up or whatever and you are left sex-less t sucks even more than when you are sex-less as a result of an active choice to wait until you get married.

So given the number of bad things out there including guys who lie, diseases, and the BIG MOUTH of all people armenian, I think i'll stick to sexlessness due to active choice.

Until then, there is always making out, right? And there are some guys out there who are damn good kissers.


p.s. maybe it's because I haven;t yet met someone who turns me on so much as to incite feelings described in that song that I am so willing to wait until i get married. As of now, those lyrics kindof make me look forward to meeting him...

[violette829]

CK....does making out really make that much sense to u? Getting all wet and going home is just pointless. Be like me, don't even go near men. I refuse to touch any man because I know that the second I do, my hormones are gonna be singing a song (let's get it on). SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO i hate making out.

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by violette829 CK....does making out really make that much sense to u? Getting all wet and going home is just pointless. Be like me, don't even go near men. I refuse to touch any man because I know that the second I do, my hormones are gonna be singing a song (let's get it on). SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO i hate making out.

I guess that makes sense. but I do LOVE kissing. seriously. I can make-out with a guy for hours. I;ve done it, it's awesome. Maybe it's because i've never had sex and I always associate having sex and basically anything more than just making out (and perhaps a little touching/teasing) to be something I would do only with a guy I know fairly well (yeah, and love). But I have had my share of fun make-out sessions with guys I've known for like a day or met in class (ahh college) or through my fraternity friends or something (so not like random bar or club people) and so because i couldn't imagine doing much more than just kissing them, I don't want more than that. I've been told I'm a good kisser and I've kissed some cuties who knew how to work it, you know kissing your lips and neck and earlobes, etc, mmmmmm, yeah, fun stuff. So I guess I don't underestimate the fun etc that comes from having your mouth ravished by some guy who is still going to be your friend afterward. As opposed to the awkwardness that would surely follow if I had sex with them. I don't have xxxx buddies I have make-out partners. I am a kissing xxxx. lol. and I totally get it when like a guy I'm dating (or even my brother) tells me that these guys just stick around and stay my 'friend' because they want to have sex with me. That's why when I am dating someone I stay away from them. But in my newfound happy singledom, it's all fair game.

[violette829]

ROCK ON BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Emil]

[ckBejug]

haha. i had one guy tell me he looked at porn purely for the educational value. So he could learn how to be 'good' (i mean like movies, not pictures). I couldn't believe he said it with a straight face.

ahhh guys. can't live with 'em can't have kids without 'em

[omniscient]

Originally posted by ckBejug I guess that makes sense. but I do LOVE kissing. seriously. I can make-out with a guy for hours. I;ve done it, it's awesome. Maybe it's because i've never had sex and I always associate having sex and basically anything more than just making out (and perhaps a little touching/teasing) to be something I would do only with a guy I know fairly well (yeah, and love). But I have had my share of fun make-out sessions with guys I've known for like a day or met in class (ahh college) or through my fraternity friends or something (so not like random bar or club people) and so because i couldn't imagine doing much more than just kissing them, I don't want more than that. I've been told I'm a good kisser and I've kissed some cuties who knew how to work it, you know kissing your lips and neck and earlobes, etc, mmmmmm, yeah, fun stuff. So I guess I don't underestimate the fun etc that comes from having your mouth ravished by some guy who is still going to be your friend afterward. As opposed to the awkwardness that would surely follow if I had sex with them. I don't have xxxx buddies I have make-out partners. I am a kissing xxxx. lol. and I totally get it when like a guy I'm dating (or even my brother) tells me that these guys just stick around and stay my 'friend' because they want to have sex with me. That's why when I am dating someone I stay away from them. But in my newfound happy singledom, it's all fair game.

CK, you said in another thread, and I quote "I am sick of being a 'good' girl. I am ready to shed the image. I am looking for someone to help me out with that and I know a good man-xxxxx is hard to find". so basically you were looking for a good man-xxxxx but all you want to do is kiss ... WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE