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    Can someone help me understand this?

    Ok here is the deal I am 19. I have been told by many people that I have sooo much things to offer to anyone women that meets me! I feel in love with this girl at my college. She is Cuban and is going to be 23 in Aug and we were going out for about 5 months now until yesterday. I have gone home for the summer which puts me 1,300 miles away from her for two months and the plan was for her to come up and visit then we were going back to school in a week after she came up. She told me that things were not going to work with us. She lost a family member and she says that she needs her space and does not need a boy friend in her life at this time. But she keeps on bring up that I am young and she thinks that there is a really big age difference between us two. She says that she cares for me and really loves everything about me and tells me that I can give so much to any other girl. Idk if all these things are just accuses to try to hide her feelings or what. I think that she is afraid of committing to a relationship with me because I am younger than her! I don't know what to do about this because I really care for her so much and I know she cares for me also! But with the time that I have been away from her she said it has given her time to think and she feels that we are going in different directions.
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  • #2
    Re: Can someone help me understand this?

    She's right, move on.

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    • #3
      Re: Can someone help me understand this?

      You wouldn't have this problem if you were Armenian.
      this post = teh win.

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      • #4
        Re: Can someone help me understand this?

        Originally posted by Sip View Post
        You wouldn't have this problem if you were Armenian.

        "Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it." ~Malcolm X

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        • #5
          Re: Can someone help me understand this?

          No we cannot, we are the borg resistance is futile

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          • #6
            Re: Can someone help me understand this?

            Move on man your just 19 and trust me you dont wana get married at that age anyways.I think ending up with the right person is more important then anything else but youi have too many factors working against you including the fact that she wants to move on.Believe me she is not the last women you will be with so move on and find someone who wants to be with you to.
            Hayastan or Bust.

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            • #7
              Re: Can someone help me understand this?

              I know that she still cares for me I think that what is going on in her family life is having an influence on her beliefs about us. I don't want to get married to her or anything like that at this time. She is just a girl that I have a lot in common with and love sharing my time with!

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              • #8
                Re: Can someone help me understand this?

                I hope this separation you are experiencing will inspire you to find better ways to spend time with the people who are all around you, love and support you.

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                • #9
                  Re: Can someone help me understand this?

                  Originally posted by Pierce34 View Post
                  I know that she still cares for me I think that what is going on in her family life is having an influence on her beliefs about us. I don't want to get married to her or anything like that at this time. She is just a girl that I have a lot in common with and love sharing my time with!

                  You are taking this romance far to seriously and it sounds like that she isn't that interested in you and is trying to let you down gently.

                  The last thing that you ever want to do with a women is be too be keen. As women don't like to feel trapped in a relationship (even if they are). Women are stubborn and once they decide upon a course of action, then they very rarely back down or reverse their position.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Can someone help me understand this?

                    Seriously, you're asking for advice from strangers on the internet.... when the only person that knows the answer won't tell you. See the problem?

                    Now go, enjoy life and free yourself from the anchors of "modern" society.
                    "Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it." ~Malcolm X

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