Revealing...

[loseyourname]

I would imagine it rarely happens simultaneously. People might pretend it does, but that's just being disingenuous. Come to think of it, "I love you man" is probably always more likely to be true.

[sSsflamesSs]

I've never said it. Maybe I'm being a little idealistic, but I predict that I will say it only to one person.

I cannot stand people that use the phrase just because they are in a relationship, and it is obvious that there is no real feeling behind the phrase.

[felizitation]

Originally posted by TigranJamharian ...

im just curious though. is it possible for 1 sided love? can a male love a female and she not love back or is it that if the male loves the female then that means shes the special one or whatnot and she automatically sees that hes the one also and they always fall in love simultaneously? im confused about this.

This is the way I see love, 1 sided.
You can't oblige the other to love you back, if it is true love, it has no expectations.

[TJ]

Thanks guys. that question had been buggin me for a while. because in all the movies its so idealized, oooh woop dee do they see each other and instantly fall in love!

[felizitation]

I'm wondering if one understand what I'm saying

[TJ]

do you mean if i understand? yes i understand you perfectly. and i was thanking you for the help

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs I've never said it. Maybe I'm being a little idealistic, but I predict that I will say it only to one person.

I cannot stand people that use the phrase just because they are in a relationship, and it is obvious that there is no real feeling behind the phrase.

What's so idealistic about loving only one person your entire life? All that's gonna do is make you marry the first person you fall for. Heck, what if the feeling is not reciprocal, or one of you changes your mind, or hurts the other to an extent capable of killing whatever feelings existed?

[felizitation]

Originally posted by loseyourname What's so idealistic about loving only one person your entire life? All that's gonna do is make you marry the first person you fall for. Heck, what if the feeling is not reciprocal, or one of you changes your mind, or hurts the other to an extent capable of killing whatever feelings existed?

Oooooh, xxxx IT GOD SAKE
(I'm improving my english)

xxxxin love does not xxxxin exists. It was all the purpose of a previous thread. Don't believe it, since it should be unique and immutable.
I'm fed up, i'm getting tired of these discussions.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by loseyourname What's so idealistic about loving only one person your entire life? All that's gonna do is make you marry the first person you fall for. Heck, what if the feeling is not reciprocal, or one of you changes your mind, or hurts the other to an extent capable of killing whatever feelings existed?

Your questions are the reason that I put the word 'idealistic' in there.

Life is not perfect, and love is far from it. In my mind, I can only love one, but in this day and age, and due to the human condition, that seems a little too idealistic, don't you think?

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by loseyourname Heck, what if the feeling is not reciprocal, or one of you changes your mind, or hurts the other to an extent capable of killing whatever feelings existed?

I don't plan on marrying in a rush. I have to know the person, really KNOW him and his feelings, for some time, before I walk down the isle.