Marriage

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by whitelotus i think she hurt him more then he ever hurt her by getting a divorce, i think she was more selfish then he ever was, by getting a divorce

someone who loves drugs more then there spouse isnt worth it, in my opinion.

Unless you have backgroud information that I'm not aware of, your response is based on groundless assumptions.

[whitelotus]

i think she hurt him more then he ever hurt her by getting a divorce, i think she was more selfish then he ever was, by getting a divorce

someone who loves drugs more then there spouse isnt worth it, in my opinion.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by loseyourname She was going through opiate withdrawals and losing her apartment because her roommate was on speed. She didn't take it all that well. It lasted about a month and a half.

Am I to assume that you were not her roommate? And if my assumption is correct, then why weren't you living with her if she was your spouse?

My question brought forth the answer that I was seeking. Although she sounds like she was messed up, just because you don't take marriage seriously, you ended up hurting someone in the process. Is that fair?

That's why all this paperwork is produced...because of people like you who take marriage as just another game.

[loseyourname]

She was going through opiate withdrawals and losing her apartment because her roommate was on speed. She didn't take it all that well. It lasted about a month and a half.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by loseyourname Like I said, I don't take the legal procedure seriously. I suppose there are a lot of laws that I don't take all that seriously. Loving someone I take very seriously. Loving someone that I expect to have children with and spend the rest of my life with I take very, very seriously.

Let me ask you this...

How did your ex-wife take the divorce? And how long did the marriage last?

[whitelotus]

ditto loseyourname

[loseyourname]

Like I said, I don't take the legal procedure seriously. I suppose there are a lot of laws that I don't take all that seriously. Loving someone I take very seriously. Loving someone that I expect to have children with and spend the rest of my life with I take very, very seriously.

[whitelotus]

i agree with you flames, its a big step, responsibility and change in someones life, its not to be taken so lightly.

now adays people get married and divorced so fast, like when a kid doesnt like the candy in there mouth, spits it out and gets another one.....in a blink of the eye.

people rush into marriage way too fast, for the lamest reasons. without thinking what might happen and how it might affect there life.

the divorce rate is getting up to 50 % i think, or is it 60% now ? thats gross if you think about it. Just imagine all the kids who are screwed in this whole process of divorce. What a tramatic experiance, because two adults were not thinking of consequences .

some marry for love, some marry for money, some marry for lust and sex.

i wonder what i will do one day, thats if i ever get married ...lol

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by loseyourname The sheet of paper is a meaningless hassle. If it meant anything to me, I would never have eloped to Vegas with a woman I had known for all of one week.

Marriage is not a childish game.

[loseyourname]

The sheet of paper is a meaningless hassle. If it meant anything to me, I would never have eloped to Vegas with a woman I had known for all of one week.