In love with the Concept or...?

[jilbagh]

Re: In love with the Concept or...?

Originally posted by jahannam I've been thinking about this a lot lately...
this goes specially to the girls in this forum.
has there been a time in your life when you didn't have any guys in mind??
my point is that when it comes to love, do we look for people ALL the time cuz it makes us feel better about ourselves? the feeling of safety... of belonging...? or IS it about that one person??

think about it. even if it were a simple crush you had on some guy in junior high, haven't you just ALWAYS had SOMEone in mind everyday of your life since you discovered the feeling??
is it the CONCEPT of love we're looking for? or is it love(the person)?

well i've deal with the concept issue because i have a cousin, and he would look for a GF. When he didn't have one, thats all he would whine, moan and groan about...now he found someone, and he feels alot better about himself...i dont know if he's in love for the true def of love...or love cause he wants to be loved and wants to love...

as far as i go...im too laid back to look for it...i just take what comes and let go of what goes...if that sounds bad, it wasn't meant negativaly...if it was meant to be it would happen...forcing the issue may cause regrets

[jahannam]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately...
this goes specially to the girls in this forum.
has there been a time in your life when you didn't have any guys in mind??
my point is that when it comes to love, do we look for people ALL the time cuz it makes us feel better about ourselves? the feeling of safety... of belonging...? or IS it about that one person??

think about it. even if it were a simple crush you had on some guy in junior high, haven't you just ALWAYS had SOMEone in mind everyday of your life since you discovered the feeling??