In love with the Concept or...?

[jahannam]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately...
this goes specially to the girls in this forum.
has there been a time in your life when you didn't have any guys in mind??
my point is that when it comes to love, do we look for people ALL the time cuz it makes us feel better about ourselves? the feeling of safety... of belonging...? or IS it about that one person??

think about it. even if it were a simple crush you had on some guy in junior high, haven't you just ALWAYS had SOMEone in mind everyday of your life since you discovered the feeling??

[jilbagh]

Re: In love with the Concept or...?

Originally posted by jahannam I've been thinking about this a lot lately...
this goes specially to the girls in this forum.
has there been a time in your life when you didn't have any guys in mind??
my point is that when it comes to love, do we look for people ALL the time cuz it makes us feel better about ourselves? the feeling of safety... of belonging...? or IS it about that one person??

think about it. even if it were a simple crush you had on some guy in junior high, haven't you just ALWAYS had SOMEone in mind everyday of your life since you discovered the feeling??
is it the CONCEPT of love we're looking for? or is it love(the person)?

well i've deal with the concept issue because i have a cousin, and he would look for a GF. When he didn't have one, thats all he would whine, moan and groan about...now he found someone, and he feels alot better about himself...i dont know if he's in love for the true def of love...or love cause he wants to be loved and wants to love...

as far as i go...im too laid back to look for it...i just take what comes and let go of what goes...if that sounds bad, it wasn't meant negativaly...if it was meant to be it would happen...forcing the issue may cause regrets

[sleuth]

They come and go LOVE stay.....its not about person its about feeling..personally i enjoy the feeling..love never changes..it's pleasure close to pain...we connect this greatest feeling to someone,because it needs to be shared more than anything else in this word.

[jahannam]

see... I didn't mean a "gilrfriend"... not necessarily.
you're saying you're single, right?
but don't you have at least ONE person in mind that you wouldn't mind being with?
or say when you're having casual sex, you wish it was with her??

[jilbagh]

Originally posted by jahannam see... I didn't mean a "gilrfriend"... not necessarily.
you're saying you're single, right?
but don't you have at least ONE person in mind that you wouldn't mind being with?
or say when you're having casual sex, you wish it was her??

jew tawkin tue me main?

i'm single, of course there are people in mind...but see i have this receeding hair line thats started, so i get shy...

[jahannam]

yes i was talkin to YOU.
and that's exactly what I mean.
there's ALWAYS someone in mind.
and I think that makes you weak.

and by the way, my question has nothing to do whether or not you would make any moves on that person. I just want to know if people DO actually think about someone all the time.

[jilbagh]

Originally posted by jahannam yes i was talkin to YOU.
and that's exactly what I mean.
there's ALWAYS someone in mind.
and I think that makes you weak.

and by the way, my question has nothing to do whether or not you would make any moves on that person. I just want to know if people DO actually think about someone all the time.

ya there are people that i feel a connection with, that have the possibility of something special...but i ain't gonna just push it just cause i feel insecure, cause i really dont...except for this problem i have with my receeding hair like....AND im sure u know which cousin im talking about too lolol cause he was complaining around this time last year to you about it lol

but i do have good news, i saved a lotta money by switching my car insurance to geico

[jahannam]

lol
you have 2866664980 cousins.
I truly don't know which one you were referring to lol

[jilbagh]

Originally posted by jahannam lol
you have 2866664980 cousins.
I truly don't know which one you were referring to lol

the human chimney lol

[jahannam]

cool.. now I know lol
and STOP going off topic lol (and taking me with u)
I can't wait to hear flames, Anon's and feliz's thoughts on my question!