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  • Armenian lesbians/gays

    hi im new to this community.
    Im full Armenian however i am a lesbian and have been with my partner for 19 months. i love her more than anything and one day i want to spend my life with her. that being said, my parents will have to know. my parents are very traditional armenians and were born and raised in Armenia. id like to know everyone's thoughts on this issue to give me an idea on how to one day approach my parents about it. i love my partner too much to let her go, she is the one that makes my life worth living and happy.
    I was born in Australia but we are a very traditional hyastanci family. I know that homophobia is widely encouraged in Armenia.
    Thoughts, opinions, comments all appreciated.

    thanks

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    Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

    please stop spamming the forum.
    Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
    ---
    "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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      Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

      please stop spamming my honest posts. this is a forum, i would like to discuss my issues with people honestly.

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      • #4
        Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

        Armenian lesbian? and I thought I had heard everything on this forum. Listen, (given this is true, which I highly doubt), such a situation can be described as a result of some of the modern liberal trends in Western society. Like fashion. Maybe also part of the "rebellion" face of children against their families. All very unfortunate, but I'm sure you will grow out of it sooner or later.
        Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
        ---
        "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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        • #5
          Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

          yes this is the truth. its not so much that im aiming to portray myself as a lesbian. i have fallen in love with a girl that is all. i find everything that i would have found in a guy in this girl. my biggest problem is getting my cultural background to accept me for who i am now. i do not need to be defined as a lesbian, i couldnt care less what you want to call me, i just want my family to accept that this is the person i want to spend my life with. im curious what background you have (were you raised in armenian? are you completely armenian? etc) to describe me as doing this as an unintentional phase that i will outgrow?

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          • #6
            Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

            Lol, obviously I'm Armenian, (hayastanci), and I can say that such lesbian acts are often just part of fashion statements. In the end though an ideal Armenian woman is one who marries good Armenian man and holds the house and raises the children to be smart, healthy and patriotic. Traditional and family values are crucial for foundation of our society. Without them, it becomes a mess. Given Armenian 'lesbians' are pretty much unheard of, I can say there'd be a lot of confusion from armenians to your situation.
            Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
            ---
            "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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            • #7
              Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

              your probably the best person i should be talking to lol, you are a rational version of my parents, if i can logically explain it to you then i have a chance with my parents. for me, its not a fashion statement, i keep this entirely a secret. i don't go around in public making it obvious that im in love with a girl. i want to do all the things right by my culture, i want to raise a family that has good values that are smart and healthy, i just want to do that with someone that i love as my partner.

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              • #8
                Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

                Wait how will you have a family if you have female partner? I just don't believe in "lesbianism" being a genuine/biological form of attraction. I see it more as an adopted lifestyle that comes as a result of certain Western influences. I think if you go live in Armenia, for even a few months, you may have some of that feminist influences wear off of you and go back to having normal attractions.
                Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
                ---
                "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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                  Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

                  Just the fact that you have no idea about how a lesbian couple can raise a family proves that the Armenian education system is pathetic. i wish someone there would set standards for the education because without it Armenia cant go forward. the process is called IVF
                  this isnt about feminism. i dont know why you just assume this is because im a feminist. Here where i live, a family cant survive with just the man working. both women and men need to work full time to be able to have a house and a car and a life. here in Australia, there are alot of women that make more money than the men. throughout history, men have always felt superior because they are the ones who provide. but these days, women work just as much as men if not more.
                  me being in love with another girl has nothing to do with feminism.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

                    Well aren't many lesbians feminists? It explains a lot actually, the modern day feminist or "feminazis" as I like to describe, portray men as evil and as traditional marriage as wrong. That's why lesbianism is convenient for them. When it comes to family, 2 women or 2 men can't raise family, you need the maternal values and paternal values mixed, to be on the children. This is not only traditional way, but biologically this is the way for children to grow up in a normal way.
                    Մեկ Ազգ, Մեկ Մշակույթ
                    ---
                    "Western Assimilation is the greatest threat to the Armenian nation since the Armenian Genocide."

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