Can guys and girls be friends?

[hyebruin]

Oh no, not the freakin ladder theory. Why is that crap getting so much circulation on the net. I read that like a year ago.

it makes sense!

[ckBejug]

Oh no, not the freakin ladder theory. Why is that crap getting so much circulation on the net. I read that like a year ago.

Damn kid, you're slow. I posted that such a long time ago. You just noticed?

[patlajan]

Have you guys ever heard of this?

The Ladder Theory

So, what do you think... Can guys and girls ever just be friends?

Oh no, not the freakin ladder theory. Why is that crap getting so much circulation on the net. I read that like a year ago.

[gevo]

You certainly know there is more to ones mind when one can not look at his/her friend without the urge to hold her. Thus, begins the road to an uncertain destination, one which we are hopeful, but cant see around the bend. Yet, till anythin does happen, boys and girls, (even in this situation) can be friends... unless u are the kinda who screws around,, sex will find its way to ruin a friendship, or more.

[Anonymouse]

Are you Fred Savage? Take your Wonder Years stuff to a forum that caters for those who have no clue.

[winoman]

i don't believe that a girl and a boy can be friends. I had a friend and i saw him as a brother. I told him all my secrets,friends but when time went by, he fell in love with me. Then i was shocked.
i wish we would still be friends.

One instance/case and you can conclude this for all cases? not....

[Sally]

i don't believe that a girl and a boy can be friends. I had a friend and i saw him as a brother. I told him all my secrets,friends but when time went by, he fell in love with me. Then i was shocked.
i wish we would still be friends.

[gevo]

haha bruin- u live to tell the story...
my opinions are changing a bit- but i still hold rue that a guy and a girl can be friends and not get involved, but if they do spend too much time together, its either gonna get romantic/sexual or theyre gonna end up together as a couple- they cant be JUST friends- one or the other is going to want more out of it, one way or another- but yet again i do have many guy friends who i can say i find atractive, but i wouldnt do anything about it- wouldnt date them or what not- theyre too good of friends and i cant see myself doing that- but u never know--

Well, i dont see a problem with ending up with a girl you are first friends with.. is this a problem? like i said, i MUCH rather start a relationship this way. but, this is not to say im in love with all my female friends, if so, then oh boy, i better vote for polygamy laws or something.. lol.. my best friend for over 6 years is female, and we have the friendship like aghchiggabig explained... good job..

Oh, and Stud, thx..

[sad_eyes]

I am freinds with one guy. I do not think of him sexually at all. Its almost weird for me even when I kiss him on the cheek.

You settle into this almost brother-sister relationship but a lot more comfortable because you can confide in each other, comfort each other, kid around with each other, and have a buddy to go to the movies with, etc etc without people wondering what the heck is up with your Angelina Jolie loves her brother kind of relationship.

^What she said. Learn this well people......it does work.