Question for Girls

[Hogg]

Which of these actions are vital in a guy?

-Opening the door

-Opening cardoor

-Pulling chair out

-Standing up when you go to the restroom

Yes, I got the idea of this from the other thread. I honestly only open doors for girls. The cardoor is do-able, I guess. The chair, maybe. Standing up when she goes to the restroom, get the hell out of my face if you expect me to do this.

I'll say it before someone else does, maybe this is why I don't have a g/f.

[violette829]

- Respect


A guy can do all that you mentioned and still be a JACKA*SS!!!! Those things would become annoying to me after a while. "GOD DAMNIT I CAN OPEN MY OWN DOOR" ..."No, please...please..DUDE SIT YOUR ASS DOWN!"

[sSsflamesSs]

What the hell's so hard about opening a door? Heck, I open doors for strangers every day.

But yes, all we ask for is respect.

[Hogg]

Okay, I wasn't asking what you look for in a guy. Even Hogg knows that girls want respect.

Nothing's hard about opening a door for someone, that's why it's the only one out of those things I always do. It's not like the other ones are hard; I'd just feel like a clown if I stood up when a girl gets up to go drain her bladder.

[violette829]

Exactly. None of those things you mentioned are considered "vital"! Sorry to burst your bubble HOGG!

[SagGal]

lol. Poor Hogg, all he wanted to know was which of those is the most important. lol. I'd say, all of the above but doing those things you mentioned for a girl is not really a big deal to the girl. A girl just wants honestly and like Flames and Violette said, "Respect." I think those things used to be vital before, but not as much right now. It's classy, but classy began to fade away at the end of the 20th century and it's the 21st century now. I don't think a lot of girls care about that anymore. Not that you shouldn't do that, because it is gentlemanlike, but it's just not as big of a deal as it used to be.

[Hogg]

Okay, so it's a plus but not a must. I'm free!

[SagGal]

I'm free!

Not yet. Now you have to work on the honesty and respect. That is a must.

[Inna]

-Standing up when you go to the restroom

I had the funniest experience with that one...it wasnt at a resturant though..my parents were having this American friend of theirs over for dinner...well we all sit down getting ready to eat..my mom gets up to get something in the kitchen and the guy gets up too. We were all puzzled like what the heck is he doing..then my mom sat down and he got up again. Well my mom, and I think other armenian moms as well, gets up to go to the kitchen frequently and this poor guy keeps getting up..lol...by the end of the dinner he just sat in his seat...I guess he wanted to finish his meal

Anyways..I think it's enough if the guy opens the door for the gal....and maybe if its the first or second date then the guy should open the door...but pulling up the chair and getting up everytime the girl gets up..that's just too much...it can get annoying

[SagGal]

Inna, that was hilarious. I actually imagined the guy getting up and sitting back down. LOL. Hey, at least he got a nice workout.
Agree with you on that second part.