Would u do anything....

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

Ok, guys my questions goes to everyone and I am wondering this past month and I wanna know what most people think about the fact of "fighting " for your real love. Now my question is: " WOULD YOU DO ANYTHING, EVERYTHING TO BE WITH THE ONE THAT YOU REALLY LOVE WHEN YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE UNWANTED TO THE FAMILY OF YOUR LOVED ONE?" WOULD U DO ANYTHING POSSIBLE TO GAIN THE TRUST AND RESPECT OF THAT FAMILY?
explain me every kind of situation that would be good to try and not to.
i just wanna make sure for some things in general about "love".

[dstyle]

Your kidding with this right?

[PASAMONSTER]

Something must be definetly wrong with your understanding of love.

You didn't visit Mr Monsters sympathetic ear did you?

If the other one don't love you it aint true love, its just a one way infatuation and at some levels its considered mentally unhealthy and sometimes criminal.

real love is shared and no fighting is necessary.

[ExtraHye]

" WOULD YOU DO ANYTHING, EVERYTHING TO BE WITH THE ONE THAT YOU REALLY LOVE WHEN YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE UNWANTED TO THE FAMILY OF YOUR LOVED ONE?" WOULD U DO ANYTHING POSSIBLE TO GAIN THE TRUST AND RESPECT OF THAT FAMILY?
explain me every kind of situation that would be good to try and not to.
i just wanna make sure for some things in general about "love".

As long as the girl loves you, I'm sure the family will learn to love you. Don't think you need to fight for anything as long as you show respect and act yourself.

[hyebruin]

well if the person is really for you then you don't have to try THAT hard!!! i mean if it's alllll an uphill battle and YOU have to put in most of the effort and YOU have to prove yourself most of the time and YOU have to make most of the sacrifices...well.... that's a sign right there!!!!! that that person is not the one!! and that other fish might make you happier ---i don't know if you're asking this as a general question or if it's of a personal nature, but i'll say this much: you never have to 'prove' your self worth to anyone!!! if you're a good conscientious person and live and do as any other good natured person would, then something is wrong with THE OTHER PERSON if they fail to see the good and the compassionate you keeping the communication lines is always a given of course, but please don't adopt this "i'll sacrifice everything for you" mentality...sure, there must be sacrifice and compromise as long as it's adequately reciprocated! otherwise bitterness and anger will start to fester and grow and that's when people's uglineness comes out!!!

[Genuine_Stud]

well if the person is really for you then you don't have to try THAT hard!!! i mean if it's alllll an uphill battle and YOU have to put in most of the effort and YOU have to prove yourself most of the time and YOU have to make most of the sacrifices...well.... that's a sign right there!!!!! that that person is not the one!! and that other fish might make you happier ---i don't know if you're asking this as a general question or if it's of a personal nature, but i'll say this much: you never have to 'prove' your self worth to anyone!!! if you're a good conscientious person and live and do as any other good natured person would, then something is wrong with THE OTHER PERSON if they fail to see the good and the compassionate you keeping the communication lines is always a given of course, but please don't adopt this "i'll sacrifice everything for you" mentality...sure, there must be sacrifice and compromise as long as it's adequately reciprocated! otherwise bitterness and anger will start to fester and grow and that's when people's uglineness comes out!!!

I agree with everything you said. Also, it's between the girl/guy and you. Not the parents. If the guy/girl is influenced by their parents SO MUCH so that they can't make decisions for themselves as an adult, then you best get out of that relationship right then and there.

Like hyebruin said: "you never have to 'prove' your self worth to anyone!!! if you're a good conscientious person and live and do as any other good natured person would, then something is wrong with THE OTHER PERSON if they fail to see the good and the compassionate you"

[Tres Bien]

If the family has problems with you and don't exept you thought you've tryied to make friends with them, and trying to get to know them and vice versa I think that one has to give up eventually, their opinion wont change. anyway it is not the family you are dating or that is your girlfirend/boyfriend.

Most importantly AVOID talking political or religion related issues. If you somehow know that the family are politically involved/ interested.This will ruin everything, if you don't agree with them of course, with everything they say.

This can destroy any relenshonship if one of the parts are quite obsessive or extreme in their beliefs.

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

thanx for your responces, if u have later on other ideas please post again.

[spiral]

I would doooo anything for love, but I won't do that. Or that, or that, or that, or that, or that, or that, or that, or that,...

Geee I loved that song by Meatloaf.

[PASAMONSTER]

what song wouldn't you love by someone called meatloaf. shaiiiiat

all theese singers, bands, rappers with wierd names, just hearing the name makes me wanna say alright theese guys know what they.re talking about.

meatloaf

50 cent

Third eye blind.

How bout some really cool names they should use


Peking Duck

3 quarters and 2 dimes

4 th toe chopped off.