friends and relationships

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

It really sucks when too many people know!!! seriously, it's the worst. ONe advice I could give u from personal experience would be think very seriously what ur gonna tell and how, b/c later on if anything happens then ur words will turn against u. Talk with someone when u think that is very serious otherwise done go into details with anyone. The personal fights keep it for urself and call him and discuss it with him. No one needs to know that u two fought, unless it involves other people also. Give time and wait and then if things get worse then talk with someone that u trust ur life.

[Genuine_Stud]

Use common sense and be genuine to your partner to solve the problem.

Consult with a friend (If you must).

Keep the intimate details to yourself.

End of Story.

[ckBejug]

I've noticed that girls usually complain to their friends when their boyfriend is being an ass and they are having an argument or something, in order to get advice, usually. The problem with that is that when you only talk about the bad stuff and keep the sweet things and the happy times and the mushy stuff to yourself, then your friends get only this negative point of view about the guy and they can't remain objective about him anymore because they don't know that for all the times you have a fight that hurts your feelings you're probably also have countless other times when you're both happy and everything's great, etc. That's why I wouldn't bring it up if I was having a small fight over something that's soon to pass. If, on the other hand, we were having an argument in which the lines were blurred and I needed advice to figure out if I was in the wrong or he was in the wrong, to figure out how to resolve the problem, then I'd bring it up.

[violette829]

My group of friends have this SICK habit of talking about EVERY SINGLE DETAIL of their sex life. I, however, can't do that. I sometimes get crap from them for being too "secretive" about those things, but I really believe that it's my private life and really doesn't concern any of them. If they choose to tell me, I don't mind, but I would NEVER discuss any part of my private life or relationship with my group.

[loseyourname]

I've noticed that girls usually complain to their friends when their boyfriend is being an ass and they are having an argument or something, in order to get advice, usually. The problem with that is that when you only talk about the bad stuff and keep the sweet things and the happy times and the mushy stuff to yourself, then your friends get only this negative point of view about the guy and they can't remain objective about him anymore because they don't know that for all the times you have a fight that hurts your feelings you're probably also have countless other times when you're both happy and everything's great, etc. That's why I wouldn't bring it up if I was having a small fight over something that's soon to pass. If, on the other hand, we were having an argument in which the lines were blurred and I needed advice to figure out if I was in the wrong or he was in the wrong, to figure out how to resolve the problem, then I'd bring it up.

Start a cult. Please. Brainwash every woman you can find to think exactly like you.

[ckBejug]

Start a cult. Please. Brainwash every woman you can find to think exactly like you.

Oh silly boy there already is one. It's called smart people. What I said is something that anyone with common sense should be able to deduce by themselves. Although the idea of having 'followers' is kind of tempting. hehe