Interracial Relationships.

[XxgoeyxX]

Hey I am not putting down the culture. I love my culture and am very proud to be an Armenian! All I am saying that the experience I had with Armenians was not the best, I do not feel connected to Armenians some times, that's why I don't feel like I have to marry necessarily an Armenian. I never said that Armenians suck or something like that. Dont put the words in my mouth

Im not putting words in you mouth I'm telling you like I see it. If Im wrong then I apologize! But You gave me a list of reason why you wont marry an Armenian. You should have said what you said from the beginning rather then telling me Armenians are like this and that. You can do whatever you want in your life and you can marry who ever you want. That is your life my dear. If it brings you happiness then Who the hell Am I much else anyone else to get in the way of that happiness. A moment of happiness is so precious I would never try to take that away from another human being.

[XxgoeyxX]

I will repeat this again I am not diconnected from the culture at all. I listen to Armenian music all the time because it reminds me of my family, I see them only twice a year since I am in US now and they are still back home. I cry when I hear sad Armenian music, I miss Armenian food that my Mom used to cook. All I am saying is that I have hard times connecting to Armenians.

There is more to the culture then the music and the food. It spirituality and much more I cant get into or Ill start to cry. I hope you find that as well my dear. And I hope you didnt take my comment as offence. Its just how I am about this. I dont know anything about you or who you are. But maybe if you give more Armenians a chance and open your mind to them rather then wanting them to open their minds to you, you can then learn to connect with them. It should go both ways remember. Good Luck!

BTW do you mean every Armenian you have met you cant connect to? Thats impossible because that would be the whole race. We are humans beings. We connect with one person but might not with someone else. It just doesnt make sense. If you can explain that would be nice.

[CatWoman]

Well, from personal experience...whoever got married to an oder around me, ended up with a divorce (except for one)

[GSTracer05]

You guys keep pounding away at this thread. (yawns).

[XxgoeyxX]

Sorry not going to try and satisfy your needs. Again!!!

[chille]

You guys are cute i just read the last 2 pages and it's like you guys have a sense of family between you. It's really cool.

Chille, I have grown up with Armo's, i played basketball my whole life religously, my summers were spent in the states playing ball being scouted. Obviously by being around non-armo's i grew a new circle of friends from common interest being ball. Even though i love my odar friends, there is just some sort of trust/connection i feel when im with Armo friends. Not all but which culture doesn't have it's bad/good/fat/ugly/whatever (it's just we have alot less then everyone else HAHA).

Seriously though im 23, and i went out with my first armo girl 2months ago. It was the best time of my life, there is just some sort of connection, the jokes, the body language, the food, the religion, the soul, something i don't know what maybe the beatiful Armenian eyes i don't have a clue. But sweety you have to feel something different when your with your Armos. If you don't feel that you should at least try and look for it. Cause i have never ever felt a feeling that compares to it. In every aspect of life.

Try it out it doesn't hurt.

I have dated an armo for a year but it was really hard even for me. I am not saying it was hard because he was an armo. it was hard because we wre different ppl, thats it. i think the problem i might be dealing with is that i have met only armo from armenia, i have never met armos like myself ewho grew up in another country.
reading all the posts i feel like i would like actually to get to know some armos from may be middle east or canada, like any country. that would be a different and powerful experience for me.

[chille]

BTW do you mean every Armenian you have met you cant connect to? Thats impossible because that would be the whole race. We are humans beings. We connect with one person but might not with someone else. It just doesnt make sense. If you can explain that would be nice.

Oh no, not every armenian. I have some armenian friends but they are not from armenia, they are like me and they grew up in russia. and i also have a friend who grew up in baku. i feel more connected to them rather than to armenians from armenia itself.

[HyeJinx1984]

Oh no, not every armenian. I have some armenian friends but they are not from armenia, they are like me and they grew up in russia. and i also have a friend who grew up in baku. i feel more connected to them rather than to armenians from armenia itself.

That's normal. But am I the only Hav who hates hanging out with other Havs? I get along with Hayastansis and Bairuitsis (although they don't get along with each other, lol) infinately better than I get along with other Barsgahyes.

[choban]

See guys we're a small population as it is we don't have time to be breaking it up into diff. types of hye's. An Armo is an Armo.

[GSTracer05]

You know what the strange thing is. Chille's picture looks exactly like one of my good friends.