Straight guys/gals: ever want to kiss a person of the same sex?

[clubbin714]

I've decided a while back that I'm sexually transfixed by making out with another man. I'm straight and in my twenties, and only have had sex with women. All my porn is hetero.

I can't shake the urge to give a guy a big kiss. I really want to do this sometime. I guess this makes me bisexual.

Anyone else here have this urge? I don't think I would ever do it, but the fantasy is there. I mostly fantasize about women kissing me, or me kissing them.

Anyway, the post is out there now... let me know what you think.

[winoman]

wow clubbin...comming out on Ac eh? So what is the attraction? Tired of smooth skin & sexy curves? ...dont know...my only advice to you would be to make sure that who you pick to kiss is ready for it...you woulnd't want to surprise just anyone you know...(I knwo someone who did this to a buddy of mine back in high school - and let me say it didn;t turn out very well/enjoyable for him...So do you have someone in mind - or is this feeling just in general?

And to answer your question - no - never had the urge/desire to kiss a guy..even when I've been in a 3-way with 2 friends (one of whom was a guy)...no funny stuff there...not that it would necissarily both me so - I'm not hung up about it...but it doesn't do it for me either...only kissing of guys I've done is with some french friends...but that was just on the cheeks - in greeting..and can't say the scratchy beards did anything for me...

but more power to you...if thats how you feel...don't be hung up what others might think - its your life - as long as you don't hurt or impose on anyone go for it!

[hyebruin]

as a woman i wouldn't take that news too well if my man wanted to swing both ways or had these urges, but i'm sure there are girls out there who would be ok with it and even turned on by it. if you start dating a girl seriously, i'd urge you to tell her about this, cuz it's not fair if she found out later about it and had feelings for you and was totally devastated by it! which can happen! i know of a couple with grown kids (armenian) whose husband finally after decades of marriage decided to lead a homosexual life, where is the wife you ask? still in a mental institution --i don't know what became of the kids?

so, while you think your urges may just be urges, you never know how your feelings may change once you actually act on your feelings and discover you may be more than bi?

first, be honest with yourself, then be honeset with the girls you date and that willl spare all a lot of unnecessary pain for both you and her.

[HyeJinx1984]

Only if they had breath mints. For some reason I always believe men have worse breath than women. The thing is I'm the butch all the way, so it better be a girly looking guy... I don't want some hairy bulky guy named Martiros swinging from my balls.

[hyebruin]

men have nice breath and a sweet tongue that complements! what you talkin about jinx?

[winoman]

bruin - good points (1st post)

and good to hear you say such (2nd post)

[HyeJinx1984]

men have nice breath and a sweet tongue that complements! what you talkin about jinx?

Well... I know I do... just not so sure about the others...

[loseyourname]

You know, to be honest, none of my fantasies have ever involved kissing, hetero or otherwise. Kissing is just a boring prelude to me.

[HyeJinx1984]

Are you kidding? Kissing is better than sex.

[winoman]

Are you kidding? Kissing is better than sex.

hmm..have you ever orgasmed just from kissing? (I imagine it is possible...and I have to admit to nearly doing so a few times...but...)

Sure kissing is great - and I've certainly had fantasies that have involved some serious (very intense & pasionate...) kissing...but yeah I think - like most guys - I tend to move on to more harder core territory pretty quick!

Still louseyorname...it says something (not good IMO) that you find kissing (gals) boring...and I'm surprised really...having read many of your past posts on related subjects...and you claim to be a great lover....what do you do - read books?