Younger Guys, Older Girls

[CatWoman]

Well Hyejinx, girls in their early 20s usually prefer a guy to be a bit older about 1-4years in my case, or the same age, definitely not younger... cuz they're more stable and they know what they want but ofcourse there are exceptions! HOWEVER, women in their 30s and 40s would LOVE to be with younger guys no actually younger guys would be preferred over older and you know the main reason! Now, they probably don't know your age at first when they seem to be interested, and you might actually be mature and all but most younger guys aren't, so once they find out your age they assume you're just like the rest of 'em and don't take the time to get to know you. So there is nothing wrong with you.

Ok conclusion? If you prefer older girls, find a hot 30something year old....lol, but I won't be the one explaining it to your parents.

[GSTracer05]

1) It doesnt naturally happen. You are making a conscious effort. Take Anony for example. He may be a nice person offline, but he makes a conscious effort to be "jerk" or whatever you want to term him because that is how he gets his kicks. At least he provides some comic relief on here.

2) The reason I "assume" is because I do not know you personally so I really have no reason to believe a word you say. You claim to meet so many girls, (sometimes 6 in one night, but you're obviously clueless when it comes to women).

3) You're at a social gathering. Girls are there to chat and have a good time. Alot of girls are "very" friendly at the time, it does not mean that they want to start something past that evening. I socialize with enough women but I dont make it a mission to try and see who I can go date and then become frustrated when they don't have the same intentions. So the girl didnt like your young age, ask her to hang out as friends, work your way into her life, slowly grow on her and if she sees that you're a great guy who respects her and treats her well, the age factor becomes less significant. It's like i said, you have your little pea shooter and you're running around trying to see who you can snag rather than concentrating your efforts. Getting cuddly and having some things in common in the first few hours of talking isnt chemistry man. If the girl is leaving you message after message wanting you to take her out after your first 7 hours, thats a little chemistry.

I'll skip your 4-6 because I really dont care.

7) You want to vent. Get yourself a little pink journal and write in it. You want people's views and opinions. Make a post. That's why its called a FORUM. As for your last little hissy fit of "girls are evil". You obviously did not understand a word in my reply except that you need to "defend" yourself because all of us are out to get you and want to make ourselves feel better than you. I'm sorry I wasted my good few minutes on you.

[HyeJinx1984]

Ok conclusion? If you prefer older girls, find a hot 30something year old....lol, but I won't be the one explaining it to your parents.

I did, she turned out to be a basket case. Ain't no happiness no where.

Get yourself a little pink journal and write in it. You want people's views and opinions. Make a post. That's why its called a FORUM. As for your last little hissy fit of "girls are evil". You obviously did not understand a word in my reply except that you need to "defend" yourself because all of us are out to get you and want to make ourselves feel better than you. I'm sorry I wasted my good few minutes on you.

Oh be quiet I got everything you said just fine... just as I have the tendency to come off as a drama queen, you people have the tendency to take MY bullxxxx way too seriously.. as if I really think Girls are evil. And yes, I'm deffensive, sorta happens when no one's on your side... great, now someone's gonna post about "Oh now you're being a drama queen again talking about no one's on your side , stop trying to agther pity or whatever it is you want you stupid whiner" bah... In any case, this sort of stuff is great for creative motivation. The best writing happens when you're irritated.

[!EEK]

I'm on your side Drama-Queen

[HyeJinx1984]

I'm on your side Drama-Queen

*Kotak!*

But seriously.. I guess I'll have to do something to reverse this sensitive drama queen image of mine. I know, I'll have sex with a girlw hile watching foot ball, holding a beer in one hand, shooting things witha shotgun in the other and be cursing the whole time. That should work and prove to be quite fun

[Sip]

To young for girls? Sounds to me like a problem that's going to fix itself. So why all the b!tching?

[Thai-Samurai]

I kinda think Catwomen is onto something. My hunch is those girls are looking for someting serious and since you say you "look older," and "act older" they get baited in like pretty fish to a scuba diver, then they realize your real age, and probably hear you mention your car and they decide to drink at another spot in the bar.

[HyeJinx1984]

To young for girls? Sounds to me like a problem that's going to fix itself. So why all the b!tching?

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*sniff*

Cause...

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I'm lonely NOW...

Oh well, I got Halo 2, World of Warcraft and Vampire Bloodlines to keep me busy, who needs a girlfriend? Now, how young was that?

[CatWoman]

I kinda think Catwomen is onto something.

like what? I'm only 22 if that's what your thinking...

I did, she turned out to be a basket case. Ain't no happiness no where.

Hyjinx, no worries... TV was sayin the other day that about 60% of young adults in America are single, so you're not the only one plus, finding a girl won't guarantee you happiness.

[HyeJinx1984]

I want to sing a song but I'm not sure which one.. perhaps a lament for the old dirty bastard..