Russian mail order brides...

[Tigranes]

What's with the new trend of bringing women from Armenia? Do they think that they are "cleaner"? WOW It's always the same story:

A guy, raised here. Lives a life of bachelorhood. Turns 36, then decides that he needs a wife/maid/mother/vagina. He goes around the clubs, looking for a girl. He preys on 21-25 year old girls, who obviously throw up at the sight of his receding hair line. Then, he turns 38. With pressure from his parents, he is told by some dimwit that girls in Armenia are still pure, and not like the who0res from the states. He decides to go to Armenia, in search of his bride. He sees one, she sees his car, and they "fall in love". He phones home and tells his mommy that he found a beautiful innocent (17 year old), and stays in Armenia for 2 months til she's 18. Once legal, he has a $2000 wedding, complete with tents and park benches, and gets on the plane with his new wife in hand. They come to the states, and he throws her into the house to live with his parents. Accustomed to this lifestyle of slavery, she cooks, cleans, has a couple of babies, and thinks that she's living a good life. UNTIL SHE TURNS ON THE TELEVISION. OOOOOOOOOH she watches Armenian Teletime and sees these young women, looking nice, having fun. She decides to enroll in school. She gets a high school diploma at 25 and begins to work. With her new found independence, she decides that she's sick of the daily beat downs from her husband and all the chores. So, she leaves him. There he is, the same LOSER BACHELOR from the clubs, alone...with 2 kids....

So called "Armenians" with such vile and primitive values are a disgrace to our ancestors. Their blood and mind is tainted with semitic and turkic stains.

[violette829]

So called "Armenians" with such vile and primitive values are a disgrace to our ancestors. Their blood and mind is tainted with semitic and turkic stains.

Lighten up will ya? I just posted that for fun. Although, it is kinda true.

[DimndInDaRuf]

Actually, I don't agree with what you just said. You think 99% of ALL MARRIAGES are like this?? WHy would you say that? I have like 2 married couples in my family who live with the inlaws. That's just wrong. I don't know any women who are like what I just described up there. I've just heard of stories about these loser guys. It's pretty sad really. The population of young people in Armenia is dwindling. tsk sk sk....

I don't mean 99% of all marriages. I said 99% of marriages in that situation... meaning the guy brings a girl from Armenia. I know alot of marriages in which the guy brought the girl from Armenia that are like that. Okay maybe not 99%, maybe more like 95%. As far as living with the inlaws is concerned... I think its up to the couple to decide. I'm married... and I used to live with my in-laws in the beginning, but my husband and I decided it's better for us to live alone. Even though I have great in-laws and I love them as my own family, I love having my own place and my indipendence. But if they can get along and they don't mind living with their in-laws, I think thats fine. I know some couples that live with the girls family because they couldn't afford to live on their own.

I'm still don't agree with bringing a girl from Armenia.

Oh while were on this subject... I know this girl who brought her husband from Armenia.

[violette829]

I don't mean 99% of all marriages. I said 99% of marriages in that situation... meaning the guy brings a girl from Armenia. I know alot of marriages in which the guy brought the girl from Armenia that are like that. Okay maybe not 99%, maybe more like 95%. As far as living with the inlaws is concerned... I think its up to the couple to decide. I'm married... and I used to live with my in-laws in the beginning, but my husband and I decided it's better for us to live alone. Even though I have great in-laws and I love them as my own family, I love having my own place and my indipendence. But if they can get along and they don't mind living with their in-laws, I think thats fine. I know some couples that live with the girls family because they couldn't afford to live on their own.

I'm still don't agree with bringing a girl from Armenia.

Oh while were on this subject... I know this girl who brought her husband from Armenia.

OMG Are you serious?

[DimndInDaRuf]

OMG Are you serious?

About which part?

[violette829]

About which part?

About knowing a woman who married a guy from Armenia.

[DimndInDaRuf]

Ya... she's not the best looking girl... and I think she saw that as her only option... so she went and brought him. They've been married for like 3 years and they have a 2 year old son.

[violette829]

Well, that's good. Just tell her not to watch Armenian Teletime when he's home.

[SagGal]

No of course I know it's not allways like that. But why do people assume that if they get a mail order bride or a girl from Armenia that they are going to be any better than the girls that live here (US). I mean think about it... would you buy a car without test driving it first??? Some people would but I think most people wouldn't. I mean were talking about a lifetime commitment and how can you just take a chance like that? I mean for me I wouldn't just settle with someone just to start a family. Especially someone I don't know. Who knows what kind of person they are. I guess I'm getting a little worked up about this issue because I am against the whole arranged marriage thing and this is remotely similar. It's kind of personal.

Well, I'm not exactly sure why "...people assume that if they get a mail order bride or a girl from Armenia that they are going to be any better than the girls that live here (US)," but I do know why someone would get their life partner from thier home land. Lets use Armenia for example. The guy himself is Armenian and he wants a real Armenian girl. Not that there aren't any real Armenian girls in the U.S., but he might think that since the girl actually lived in Armenia then she will be better. Plus, girls in America might be more independent and have a career whereas all he wants is a housewife. Sometimes it's like this.

From my experience, I have seen guys winning a greencard and when they become citizens, they fly out to their homeland and bring their sweethearts whom they've known since high school and now can be married in the U.S. I'm not sure why I said this, but I did and it's sweet. Well, their reaction after a long time of not seeing each other is cute.

What's with the new trend of bringing ..........................................she leaves him. There he is, the same LOSER BACHELOR from the clubs, alone...with 2 kids....

Violette jan, you're too much. I bet he was just her ticket to the U.S.

[DimndInDaRuf]

From my experience, I have seen guys winning a greencard and when they become citizens, they fly out to their homeland and bring their sweethearts whom they've known since high school and now can be married in the U.S. I'm not sure why I said this, but I did and it's sweet. Well, their reaction after a long time of not seeing each other is cute.

It's different when they know the person they are marrying... like you said they sweethearts... I know people like that too. But you said that some guys would want to bring a girl from Armenia just for her to be a housewife. I just find it difficult to believe that most girls would be happy living a life like that. I mean for me, I would go crazy if I didn't work and go to school and just stayed home all day. And I think that a lot of girls that come from Armenia as someones wife don't realize that they are going to be coming here for that reason. Some might actually want to come to America to get a better education, or have more opportunies, and just have a better quality of life. Surely the parents who send their daughters want that for them. And I can't imagine any guy who would not want their wife to be educated or wouldn't want their wife to work. I know some young guys...they didn't have to bring a wife from Armenia because they were too old and couldn't get a girl from America... but they are young... like in their 20's who brought a girl... why? because they are the controlling type, they don't want their wives to have a mind of their own. That's my opinion.