Originally posted by ckBejug Ahhh, a valet. See that? Told you he doesn't exist. Too bad. As for people being together to fulfill their needs, I never said that. I believe what you said is true. i want to be with someone to share my life with him, to be able to see what wonderful things there are out there in his eyes and have him see it through mine. And to have someone to share the happy with and lean on for support during the sad or hold on to when he needs support. This is what I want. If I'm going to go for a ride, i want someone on the train with me. That's all... I thought you meant by that whole pleasure scorecard thing something more sexual... nevermind then if you didn't. As for the accent, it looks to me like it sayd you're from France. I edited my post before I saw you'd replied to it already... I like any number of accents, it's a turn on. hat's all. Plus I bet even if A guy told me to take out the trash or something in Frech, I'd be much obliged to cpmly because he's just turn me into a blushy mess because he sounds so cute. My opinion....
It's like you've established a list of what you want to do, or to be able to do with someone. For instance (I'm making it rough)
"- I like dancing, I need a man who like dancing. If not, I will get bored when we will go to the dance hall"
Ok, the guy like dancing : good score (and no disturbance in your habits), the guy hate dancing, and his hatred is so big that he will NEVER come with you on a dance floor : bad point (interaction of habits)
The examples you've drawn in your last thread is, for me, exactly the same. It's functionnal: each person in the couple has a function (be here and sympathize when he is sad etc ...).
For me, sharing something is not that. You choose some day to share your life with someone, but the aim is to know each other: you show how you live, what's your passions, habits etc... But it is extrinsic to you. You offer the means for the other person to begin knowing you.
Many time i'd been with a girl but i had felt alone. It's not because there's someone in you life that you're not alone. You're not alone when you feel that someone is knowing you (so it does not bother me to take the train alone)
Besides, the fact is that perfection is vanity, moreover, nearly perfection would scare any one. This feeling is (farly) tied to human notion of happiness.
PS: I'm French, I thought my english was as my left feet: nearly perfect
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