Armenian guys ;-)

[patlajan]

This thread turned into a hypothetical crap storm right under your noses.

[thedebutante]

K, let's get it back on track. Armenian guys are exactly that. They're guys plus all the armo baggage. Now I'm not saying it's a bad thing. Some of them are a ssholes. Some of them are super hot. Some of them are good boys. Some of them need to stop wearing their sunglasses all year long. The list goes on. But you get the point. There's nothing special about them except that maybe when time comes to get serious a lot of them look for the same things.

[hyebruin]

... Some of them need to stop wearing their sunglasses all year long. The list goes on. But you get the point.

only if they (armo & non-armo alike) knew how ridiculous they looked!

[Sev21]

I respect anyone who doesn't have sex before marriage, and please be careful to not kill yourself masturbating so hard everyday. I was all into the no pre-marital sex idea before until I realized just how many years of fun I'd give up ,and how pointless it became to me because in this new age, no one friggin waits till they are 30 years old to then experience sex. Great if someone can hold their urges till they are way older, but I didn't wait. The right girl approached me and everything clicked for us. We went with what time brought us. I was patient in wanting to have sex. I waited till I was 22 years old, and we did it first time (we both were virgins) on our 1 year of being together.

Enough being stuck up and having expectations on yourself. The first time you'll have sex, it will SUCK! You'll have expectations no yourself or your partner no matter what and then you'll see just how much you and/or your partner will fail to meet your expectations and you'll feel frustrated and be upset. Imagine having that crap on your wedding night. I think not!!

Props to all the virgins. Sex is great yes, but it's pretty overrated.

[winoman]

Sev - I think you made some good points in your first paragraph...and also want to add that I'm gald its worked out for you. Yes its a personal descision - but in the scheme of things I have to say that many of the reasons people provide for abstension - well lets just say I have issue with their validity - but not for me to say really - its the individuals choice and we can't judge what they believe is best for them (I do think we can comment - in general however).

Regarding the 2 statements from Kid & Glow (new R & B group perhaps eh?) - My bias fall sin the middle somewhere. Yeah - to wait until you find "perfection" or "true love" or what have you - well - you may wait your whole life (then find out you may have not chosen wisely or such...) (and I'd advise not to wait too too long as I agree with what Sev has said about good years of potential fun passing you by....one doesn't live forever you know...) - but to just have sex with anyone - thats a mixed bag. I do think that one should have feelings for/care for who they are intimate with. It may not work out in all cases and sure I can see just wanting to have a good time and such - and that can work too - but in general I would say don't approach an intimate relationship with someone lightly. It is a big deal - and for it to be more then some kind of mutual masturbation ) combined with a good physical workout...) (Ok on a level...) - well thats not really what the full joy and such of what sex is all about (IMO)...anyway...

As for Sevs 2nd paragraph - some more comments. I don't think first time sex sucks by definition (perhaps a poll is in order eh?). It didn't for me...but I was with someone experienced who really knew what she was about - and it was truly incredible/most wonderful - the details of which are vivid (and pleasent/exciting) to me even today - a great many years later. (and the whole bit of it essentially lasted for days! so yeah...not too shabby...). And my advice is to relax and enjoy yourselves - don't be in too much of a hurry (unless your expecting interuption or such..or need to get somewhere sometime soon...otherwise play it out - make it last...and don't forget all the fun foreplay and anticipation...)...and as for Sev claiming that sex is overated...well from my opinion - I have to disagree - and speculate that perhaps he hasn't quite "got it" just yet....dunnoh...

[Sev21]

Well I may say sucks now, but maybe it will change once eehh I teach the gf how to please her man better... That's why I said sex is overrated....you'd say that if your partner doesn't satisfy you, my friend. I am glad sex is great for you.

[winoman]

Well I may say sucks now, but maybe it will change once eehh I teach the gf how to please her man better... That's why I said sex is overrated....you'd say that if your partner doesn't satisfy you, my friend. I am glad sex is great for you.

My advice would be to learn how and to practice satisfying your gal as she has never had it before....to where she is begging for it (and its more then just how you row the boat...but learn to do that well too!)...then the rest will come...she will become eager to please (you) herself...most important thing is to work together - have fun - and be sensitive to what she wants/likes/may like (but doesnt know yet)...and be loving in general (and giving of yourself)...and full of surprises...(hm I'm sure I haven't covered it all - but perhaps its a start...)

[ArmoBarbi]

I think its stupid how some people focus more on the techniques and how good something was for them than the quality of their relationship or the emotional connection. Have you noticed this phenomenon?

Seems to me that, if a person doesnt care about me enough to even put those things first, then I shouldnt be with that person anyway.

P.S. This is not to say that its ok to ignore the other issues. Sexual chemistry and physical pleasure is undoubtably important in a marriage.

[ArmenianKid]

I think its stupid how some people focus more on the techniques and how good something was for them than the quality of their relationship or the emotional connection. Have you noticed this phenomenon?

Seems to me that, if a person doesnt care about me enough to even put those things first, then I shouldnt be with that person anyway.

P.S. This is not to say that its ok to ignore the other issues. Sexual chemistry and physical pleasure is undoubtably important in a marriage.

i agree. thank u armobarbi =)

and to wnioman. iam not s r&b singer lol

[ArmoBarbi]

I hope that I never have to hear an Armenian R&B singer. The rap thing is bad enough already