ONE true love?

[loseyourname]

I don't know that you really "find" love. You just love. It's an act of will to be taken, not an object to be found.

[CatWoman]

I don't know that you really "find" love. You just love. It's an act of will to be taken, not an object to be found.

wow I'm impressed! well said.

[Siamanto]

It's an act of will to be taken, not an object to be found.

If love was an act of volition, then many many more individuals would be loving! Not even close!

True, it's not an "object" external to us; but that is only allegorical, a figure of speech!

Too Rationalist!

[ArmoBarbi]

Think of it as finding that person who will bring love into your life and make you give it back. Thats kind of how I look at "finding love". Of course its a figure of speech, we all know what the question is.

I do not believe that there is one person magically placed and timed for me. There are many many men in this world who could be happy with me, and make me happy. I will choose one that I happen to run into (accidental placing and timing) who fits the most of my expectations out of all others I had run into prior to him and hope to run into after.

[One-Way]

He can't, find, love.

[sad_eyes]

Has anyone here heard of the term "twin flame?" I believe that it is most accurate as far as soulmates are concerned.