Are You Currently In A Relationship?

[Anahita]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Maybe I'll just try being a lesbian... though I love men, I'm just very sick of man-games.

[One-Way]

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I'm planning on going out with a new girl this Friday night, so does anybody have suggestions where I should take her? I haven't met her yet, , and this is the girl who "stood" me up before. Whatever, forget all that. Where should we go? Now remember, it's our first time meeting, and we're both young - so nothing fancy. She wouldn't want to go even if I took her. So, where? She said she doesn't like the movies, and that doesn't really leave much for a first date/meet. I was thinking about going out to eat, but then where would we go? And where should I take her to eat? Ugh, girls. They say anything is fine, but deep down inside, they know it's not. They just like to confuse you.

So, help.

[Anahita]

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I'm planning on going out with a new girl this Friday night.... [but you say] She wouldn't want to go even if I took her. So, where?

New girl? Now I'm confused. She won't go out with you, so where should you go? I'm going to assume you mean something else...

and this is the girl who "stood" me up before. Whatever, forget all that.

I'm thinking of the (who/what/when//how/why), WHERE should be the least of your concerns. But, I do wish you the best...

As far as where to go, I'd say ask her if there is anything she's always wanted a date to 'take her to' or do. If you do that, be prepared for anything from a simple picnic, to the opera.... Be prepared to say, "I can't do that... but..." She'll appreciate that you care about her interests (only IF you really do.)

For a first date you can always go with the basic dinner. (Personally, I am more impressed with tiny details, and care less about the place.). You could invite her over to cook dinner. I know lots of women who would find that nice. Whatever you do, be you. That doesn't mean you can't try something different with her, but don't bother putting on a 'show.' In fact, *I* intentionally do otherwise on dates (I don't think this will work for most guys, though) My reasoning is (same with my resume) 'If he likes me like this, he'll be surprised when/if he sees more and I'm not sure I want to be with someone who can't see me at worst, at love that.' I'm not exactly going on dates in overalls, but I do odd things on dates (on purpose) to see how the guy responds--though I try to be obvious? e.g, "Did that bother you or see if he just goes with flow..." (Like, I might put my napkin on my lap and then slurp my soup... if he slurps with me, I love that) Hard to explain here.

They say anything is fine, but deep down inside, they know it's not. They just like to confuse you.

That's funny. Cuz I thought that about many men.

So, help.

DITTO

[One-Way]

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New girl? Now I'm confused. She won't go out with you, so where should you go? I'm going to assume you mean something else...

I meant she won't go anywhere fancy. She wouldn't go anywhere fancy even I suggested it.

Also, you mentioned some things that really don't apply to my age. Remember, I'm 18, and she's a bit younger. So a lot of things you do on dates or anyone, in general, is something I might not do. And by that I mean, I see her and myself as kids. We're just hanging out. So cooking dinner and all that is definently not something we'd do on a first date/meet. Something we might do is just go hang out, eat, and watch a movie - but she said she doesn't like the movies. What's up with all these girls not liking the movies? It's a good place to go and talk. And yes, talk.

[Crissy]

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I love going to the movies but not on a first date. For first date you need somewhere where you can actually talk and get to know each other. How about getting something to eat at a cafe? somewhere casual nothing fancy??? we have heaps of those around here, not sure how it is over in LA.

Either way, good luck mate and let us know how it goes.

This Friday i have a b'day dinner (it's a 30th b'day) yep getting on with age now hehehe. Then I am off to a dance party organised by our Armenian youth to show support should be fun.

OOOOHHHHH I am going to the races (horse) on Saturday can't wait

[Anahita]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Also, you mentioned some things that really don't apply to my age. Remember, I'm 18, and she's a bit younger.

1. Younger a 'bit, she is? (asks Yoda.) Again think, think I.
2. You are right that my date ideas are different.
3. Remember what I said when you are in late 20's, if you are single then.

[One-Way]

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I apprecaite the help, Anahita. So don't get me wrong.

And Crissy, heaps is such a cool word. I'm going to use it from now on.

[Crissy]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

LOL

thats heaps cool mate

[TomServo]

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This thread is now pretend closed.

[Crissy]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Why Tommy? You don't want to find out what happens on Friday when one goes out on a date????

Poop to you!!!