does age matter?

[One-Way]

Re: does age matter?

I would just meet different girls, you don't have to date them all. Talk to them, get to know them, see who they are. If they seem nice, date them for a while and see how things go.

I made so many horrible desicions, I stressed over girls as if it was so important! I would overanalyze every word she said or I said. I would play it over and over in my head and say to myself, "God, why did I say that to her!!!"

Then I met my girlfriend, we spoke for a month or so and got to know each other. By the time we went out for the first time, we really knew each other, we knew what to expect. It was pretty much understood we were going to stay together after the night was over.

If I could give someone advice, I would tell them not to care so much about girls. Don't rush into dating, first speak to them and get to know them. If they act like they're too good for you, or don't give you the right respect, then DO NOT PURSUE IT ANY FURTHER. When I used to talk to girls on the phone, they'd treat me horrible. They'd be "doing something" in the background, acting like they were too busy for me. I thought that was normal, little did I know they were little skanky players.

[Vigilante]

Re: does age matter?

So i should basically go around dating girls, if she's not what I want, then leave her and try to find the next one, til i find my perfect girl?

[One-Way]

Re: does age matter?

I'm not going to give you dating advice but let me tell you this, I came across the worst girls you can imagine. I have several threads where I kept complaining -- look them up.

Some were so horrible, a vent thread wouldn't do them justice. A year and a half ago, I met my girlfriend and everything in my life changed. Stop waiting for the "perfect" someone and try to meet girls. If she doesn't seem perfect, she's not. Don't try to point out everything that's perfect and whatever bothers you, don't let it slide by. I kept doing that with girls and it got me nowhere.

[Vigilante]

Re: does age matter?

Is it bad? Yes because she is a minor.



I'm not sure about the law or any loopholes around it. It is illegal to have sex with a minor but I highly suggest you don't date a minor either. It may not be illegal -- I don't know -- but I would advise against it.

Plus, you say she's not interested in you at all. Move on.

No i mean, its like. She says im cute n stuff, and she's into at times, but then other times, she just wants to get her license before dating a guy.

Maybe I shouldn't put all my eggs in one basket, and talk to other armenian women, right?

Thats hard though!

This girl doesn't even care about weight. And me, Im heavy, personally.

But I donno. Southern California doesn't offer the best Armenian Chicks, atleast the ones I've seen.

What ever happened to good clean armenian women who don't care about money or looks?

....I should probably move to the motherland to find "the one", eh?

=/

[One-Way]

Re: does age matter?

I'm 21 and I like a girl who is going to be 16 in 7 months.

Is this bad?


So, it isn't a big deal if you're both over 18 or 21, but if someone is, then its wrong?

Is it bad? Yes because she is a minor.

Actually you won't.

I did my research, and in the California Penal Code, there is a law that a major [person over 18] cannot have sex with a minor [person under 18]. But there is no law saying that you cannot date someone younger then you.

I love and respect Armenian women [unless they're a xxxx, literally], and this girl I really care about her, and I will not take advantage of her or anything, but yeah.

I don't think she's that interested in me at all.

I'm not sure about the law or any loopholes around it. It is illegal to have sex with a minor but I highly suggest you don't date a minor either. It may not be illegal -- I don't know -- but I would advise against it.

Plus, you say she's not interested in you at all. Move on.

[Vigilante]

Re: does age matter?

Hey man, this isn't Hayastan. You can't just go around dating hot pre-teens! You'll get jailed for that s'hit. lolz

Actually you won't.

I did my research, and in the California Penal Code, there is a law that a major [person over 18] cannot have sex with a minor [person under 18]. But there is no law saying that you cannot date someone younger then you.

I love and respect Armenian women [unless they're a xxxx, literally], and this girl I really care about her, and I will not take advantage of her or anything, but yeah.

I don't think she's that interested in me at all.

[yerazhishda]

Re: does age matter?

I'm 21 and I like a girl who is going to be 16 in 7 months.

Is this bad?

I know that my cousin, her ex was 10 years older then her, but she is over 25.

So, it isn't a big deal if you're both over 18 or 21, but if someone is, then its wrong?

Hey man, this isn't Hayastan. You can't just go around dating hot pre-teens! You'll get jailed for that s'hit. lolz

[Vigilante]

Re: does age matter?

I'm 21 and I like a girl who is going to be 16 in 7 months.

Is this bad?

I know that my cousin, her ex was 10 years older then her, but she is over 25.

So, it isn't a big deal if you're both over 18 or 21, but if someone is, then its wrong?

[One-Way]

Re: does age matter?

If One-way was a chick, I'd totally private message him asking if she would marry me.

Only if you were a chick One-way. Too bad.

[Anoush]

Re: does age matter?

Whether age matters or not is all relevant. What is the relevancy?

Suppose a guy is older like 5 to 6 years; that is supposed to be the ideal as it is understood in almost all societies up until now. If he is 10, 15, 20 years older with money, power and so forth, the girl may marry say, to get somewhere in her career, to also have more power herself or to sit beautifully and wealthily (meaning all for convenience). On the other hand she might think that the fact that he is much older than her, he will love her more and be nicer to her than a younger guy would. Now on the case of the latter, it all depends on the guy, his temperemant and his capacity to love her. A girl in this case will have to watch and be able to get to know the fellow before tying the knot. In my opinion these kind of marriages usually wouldn't work; because the difference of mentalities would probably be great and there is too much of a generation gap between them, unless the girl is way too much sensible and has a mature and serious personality (more than the norm). The same applies even if they fall in love with each other.

In the case of a girl or a woman 4, 5 or 6 years older than the guy may not make too much of a difference; especially if she looks and behaves a bit younger than her age and if she accepts and doesn't mind a younger fellow and visa versa of course. But if a much older woman divorcee or otherwise is coupled with a much younger man, and even if she is very pretty, looks much younger than her age (but has a younger daughter); is a known factor that in most cases eventually the man who is at close proximity to the younger daughter will pursue the younger one and the whole union will be a mess and a misery to all parties. But if a much older woman is paired with a much younger man without a younger daughter to be around and (obviously because the older woman is very pretty, and/or very smart, charismatic, and probably looks at least 10 to 15 years younger than her age); it may work out of love; but again there is the case of a generation gap to be taken into consideration that may be a problem; unless the younger guy is a bit maturer and loves the woman unconditionally. Years ago when mostly men worked in the work force and women were only childrearing, then a man's lifespan was shorter than women's; but that's not the case today as almost all women are working alongside their male counterparts and it will not be likely to live longer than men as much as before.

In the end, everything I have mentioned above is relevant between the sexes; the power of love, continued respect, understanding, open communication and unconditional love. If all of these are present then I'd say -GO FOR IT-.