Will you marry me?

[ckBejug]

Here's a question for the guys... Say you're with a girl for a long time and all is going well and you really want to be with her forever but you haven't gotten around yet to the part where you ask her to marry you. So you're thinking about it on and off, it's something that's on your mind... What happens is SHE asks YOU to marry her. Really. This happens. Women ask men to marry them. Would you be disappointed? Taken aback, I'm sure, but then what? Would it be a buzzkill because you wanted to be tthe one to ask her? What would you do/say??

[Shahumyan]

be better, be easier you wouldnt be nervous about her/him rejecting u or saying now is not the time. i dunno how id respond tho...

[Dan]

I'd probably be shocked, as I've never seen a woman ask a man to marry her before. At least not in popular culture and the media. But i probably wouldnt say no if i wanted to marry her anyway.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by Shahumyan be better, be easier you wouldnt be nervous about her/him rejecting u or saying now is not the time. i dunno how id respond tho...

Marxists can fall in love? I was unaware of that. When did this transformation occur?

[Dan]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Marxists can fall in love? I was unaware of that. When did this transformation occur?
LOL mouse. It's about production of labour force, Mouse. Get the hint. ;) :p

[jilbagh]

how about hinting to the dude? or telling him to propose or else its over....it worked for a couple people i know...that way the tradition stays

[surferarmo]

When women do it, it usually isnt at some romantic sentimental scene while getting on one knee. It would seem like, "I dont want to be in this relationship if it isnt going to the next level, we should get married" or "Lets get married."

It wouldnt be in the moonlight by a lake next to the tower in Southington CT when you look down at the guy when he unexpectedly gets on one knee and asks for your hand.

And in most instances, the guy (Armenian) probably asked the women's parents for permission and his parents. Not that it should dictate the women's decision, but the respect element of all those invovled is crucial.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by Dan LOL mouse. It's about production of labour force, Mouse. Get the hint. ;) :p

Indeed, apparently Shahumyan is unaware of the epistemological errors Marx committed, since the Manifesto is riddled with contradictions and assumptions.

Marx assumes that all our thinking, all our ideas, culture, the family, even love, are all a product of our class, in otherwords our thinking and our ideas are determined by our class.

Shahumyan just refuted Marx. Of course watch him go into desperation and resort to some "xxxx you" insult as only a Marxist from Manchester can.

[dstyle]

Personally i would want to do it, that would kind of freak me out i guess. i think as someone had posted the girls should hint it, as most girls do anyway from what ive heard, and the guy ussually gets the hint, if he doesnt hit him in the head a few times.

[loseyourname]

Is this even an issue? Who gives a xxxx about tradition or the opinions of parents and friends? If you feel the inclination and believe it can work, then ask. It makes no difference what your gender is.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by loseyourname Is this even an issue? Who gives a xxxx about tradition or the opinions of parents and friends? If you feel the inclination and believe it can work, then ask. It makes no difference what your gender is.

You are right. This is not an issue for you. You will probably never encounter the circumstance of joining someone in wedlock.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by surferarmo You are right. This is not an issue for you. You will probably never encounter the circumstance of joining someone in wedlock.

Had you not left the forum for a month, you would know that I have already been married, so shut up little kid.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by loseyourname Had you not left the forum for a month, you would know that I have already been married, so shut up little kid.

Your wife was gone for a month too. Its all coming together isnt it?

And honestly, you are a sad soul. You are a married man, probably older than most of us, and you spend your time on a forum. Is there something wrong with your marriage? Maybe you dont take marriage seriously.

Being a kid has its benefits. I can have "Tricks" you cant. As a kid I can also appreciate sarcasm, while you are incapable of doing so. There is one thing I dont have that you have, a woman nagging in my face about being on a forum.

[loseyourname]

I didn't say I was still married, and heck man, I'm only 23. I mostly sign in when I have breaks between classes, and I have some long breaks.

On a more serious note, though, I'm sorry I ranted at you. I know you're just xxxxing with me. I have no idea what my problem is.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by loseyourname I didn't say I was still married, and heck man, I'm only 23. I mostly sign in when I have breaks between classes, and I have some long breaks.

On a more serious note, though, I'm sorry I ranted at you. I know you're just xxxxing with me. I have no idea what my problem is.

Dont ever be sorry for ranting, cause I am the ranting machine. I will not stop.

However, this seems like an appropriate time to settle our differences. I got you a little something, its not much but it will seal our discontent behind a closed vault.

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[loseyourname]

All right, but when everyone gets back, I think we better start fighting again. We don't want them to think we're a couple of little pussies.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by loseyourname All right, but when everyone gets back, I think we better start fighting again. We don't want them to think we're a couple of little pussies.

You are right. Lets make them think we are a couple of big pussies.

[jahannam]

hmmm
girls proposing...
I wouldn't do it.
I don't think it's WRONG... when a girl proposes...
but I just don't see myself doin it.
it has to do with personality.
my mom works at an engagement ring store... she tells us stories all the time... and it's pretty in fashion now.
girls buying their own engagement rings and then proposing.
anyway
I guessI would hint.
but I wouldn't know... I've never felt that way about anyone. I think people's opinions don't matter when they're in real situations. so basically, you won't know unless you're in it!