Will you marry me?

[ckBejug]

Here's a question for the guys... Say you're with a girl for a long time and all is going well and you really want to be with her forever but you haven't gotten around yet to the part where you ask her to marry you. So you're thinking about it on and off, it's something that's on your mind... What happens is SHE asks YOU to marry her. Really. This happens. Women ask men to marry them. Would you be disappointed? Taken aback, I'm sure, but then what? Would it be a buzzkill because you wanted to be tthe one to ask her? What would you do/say??

[Shahumyan]

be better, be easier you wouldnt be nervous about her/him rejecting u or saying now is not the time. i dunno how id respond tho...

[Dan]

I'd probably be shocked, as I've never seen a woman ask a man to marry her before. At least not in popular culture and the media. But i probably wouldnt say no if i wanted to marry her anyway.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by Shahumyan be better, be easier you wouldnt be nervous about her/him rejecting u or saying now is not the time. i dunno how id respond tho...

Marxists can fall in love? I was unaware of that. When did this transformation occur?

[Dan]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Marxists can fall in love? I was unaware of that. When did this transformation occur?

LOL mouse. It's about production of labour force, Mouse. Get the hint.

[jilbagh]

how about hinting to the dude? or telling him to propose or else its over....it worked for a couple people i know...that way the tradition stays

[surferarmo]

When women do it, it usually isnt at some romantic sentimental scene while getting on one knee. It would seem like, "I dont want to be in this relationship if it isnt going to the next level, we should get married" or "Lets get married."

It wouldnt be in the moonlight by a lake next to the tower in Southington CT when you look down at the guy when he unexpectedly gets on one knee and asks for your hand.

And in most instances, the guy (Armenian) probably asked the women's parents for permission and his parents. Not that it should dictate the women's decision, but the respect element of all those invovled is crucial.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by Dan LOL mouse. It's about production of labour force, Mouse. Get the hint.

Indeed, apparently Shahumyan is unaware of the epistemological errors Marx committed, since the Manifesto is riddled with contradictions and assumptions.

Marx assumes that all our thinking, all our ideas, culture, the family, even love, are all a product of our class, in otherwords our thinking and our ideas are determined by our class.

Shahumyan just refuted Marx. Of course watch him go into desperation and resort to some "xxxx you" insult as only a Marxist from Manchester can.

[dstyle]

Personally i would want to do it, that would kind of freak me out i guess. i think as someone had posted the girls should hint it, as most girls do anyway from what ive heard, and the guy ussually gets the hint, if he doesnt hit him in the head a few times.

[loseyourname]

Is this even an issue? Who gives a xxxx about tradition or the opinions of parents and friends? If you feel the inclination and believe it can work, then ask. It makes no difference what your gender is.