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  • #11
    Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

    To judge we need to hear from both sides, especially from men’s side. When you hear a women telling an argument story they are always the sacrificed lamb in it . I’m sure there’s much to be told to this one sided story.

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    • #12
      Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

      why do you try to relate all these topics to white nationalism? Are you able to use any perspective other than this one?

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      • #13
        Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

        Originally posted by jgk3
        why do you try to relate all these topics to white nationalism? Are you able to use any perspective other than this one?
        cause our smart armenians
        are talking unfairly and siding with the man without knowing
        what is the truth.
        and the reason is so simple cause the man is armenian
        and the girl is not.
        i hate morons who try to be nationalist at the wrong time
        while they be puss-y cats in front of turks,arabs,je-ws
        the real enemies of armenians.
        Last edited by Aryan_Hye; 10-18-2006, 04:20 AM.

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        • #14
          Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

          you said we have reason to be fanatical christians? Closedmindedness is not reasonable, it's devotion to certain goals by sacrificing one's free thought. It is when you become intolerant, stubborn and vulnerable to leaders who hold your favorite banner. Some people don't consider this a bad thing, and nor do I. If they know what they're doing, they deliberately use closedmindedness as a tool to achieve a certain goal that is otherwise unachieveable. The only injustice I see here is when people are raised brainwashed by these ideals and are not given the chance to Choose For Themselves what ideology fits into their life.

          If the real enemies of Armenians are Arabs and Turks, then why didn't they exterminate us yet? They clearly have the larger numbers. I guess Armenians care more about survival as a limping nation than as martyrs that will find their place in the gutters of history. What do you think our policies should be towards Arabs and Turks, if they're the real enemy?

          And there is nothing wrong with Armenians mixing with non-Armenians, so long as their identity is preserved in their children. Armenian is a culture, not a distinct human species. At one time, all Christians in Anatolia only had two Churches to turn to, the Catholic and Apostolic Armenian churches. They came from various backgrounds that we'd consider today to be alien to the "Armenian Race", yet they joined and became assimilated, and their descendants are now indistinguishably Armenian. If the church at the time was less receiving towards these "aliens", we might've represented a smaller minority today... perhaps we'd be something more along the lines of the Laz for example, a distinct, ancient race that has more or less preserved it's homogenity. Perhaps we'd look more "Aryan" too, however, the reality is, we're mixed with the general Middle Eastern stock. From what I can see in your picture, you're no exception.

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          • #15
            Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

            Originally posted by luckylady
            Hi Everyone I am new to this forum and have been surfing around looking for sites to try and gain and understanding of what is going on here in my life. I married an Armenian/Lebanese man who in the beginning was caring, charming and just great to be around. Once we married he became controlling, egotistical, fanatical, overbearing, opionionated and cold. These are not the words of bitterness here they are just the facts and after only a year trying my best to understand and give love to what appeared to be an empty well with nothing in return I was forced to leave because of my own sanity and his increasing violent behaviour towards me even for a diffrence of opinion. Has anyone here had a similar experience? And also I have met people after my marriage that have told me that in there opinion most Armenians that have migrated from there home countries with families become bitter and twisted despite this maybe being way in thier backgrounds. I am very upset regards this situation, I am british and he knew when he married me that I am a strong independant women with views of my own. By the time I had to seperate with him recently I felt like I had been through a mental, emotional and physical war based on his baggage from wherever it stems from. His inability to be open minded and appreciate any one elses view point was practicaly non existant. As I say here I am not seeking to blame any culture but it would help me greatly to hear your comments and thoughts regards my situation.

            Thank you in advance
            Dear lady! Every nation has stupid people. I bet there's an Armenian female that was in the same situation with a British male...
            It's not connected with nationality that the man was rude to you, maybe he was a stupid xxxxxxx...

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            • #16
              Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

              Originally posted by luckylady
              Hi Everyone I am new to this forum and have been surfing around looking for sites to try and gain and understanding of what is going on here in my life. I married an Armenian/Lebanese man who in the beginning was caring, charming and just great to be around. Once we married he became controlling, egotistical, fanatical, overbearing, opionionated and cold. These are not the words of bitterness here they are just the facts and after only a year trying my best to understand and give love to what appeared to be an empty well with nothing in return I was forced to leave because of my own sanity and his increasing violent behaviour towards me even for a diffrence of opinion. Has anyone here had a similar experience? And also I have met people after my marriage that have told me that in there opinion most Armenians that have migrated from there home countries with families become bitter and twisted despite this maybe being way in thier backgrounds. I am very upset regards this situation, I am british and he knew when he married me that I am a strong independant women with views of my own. By the time I had to seperate with him recently I felt like I had been through a mental, emotional and physical war based on his baggage from wherever it stems from. His inability to be open minded and appreciate any one elses view point was practicaly non existant. As I say here I am not seeking to blame any culture but it would help me greatly to hear your comments and thoughts regards my situation.

              Thank you in advance
              lucklady, u called u lucklady... you are aware of it.... to me, you are really lucky in the sense that u are still alive... thanks to god that you have rescued your life from that armenian... that should have been a good lesson for you....

              Till seeing this forum I was neutral against the armenians but after reading lots of writings with revenge and bloody contents, slang language against an other nation here, I have lost my sympathy for armenians.... do not take what the primitive say to you here into considiration... they defend everything which contains a word "armenian" inside. they can call you "ooh hunny, ooooh sugar, oooh pretty lady etc. etc. etc." don't forget this hypothesis that Draculas or vampires are may be drived from the armenian diaspora because I did not see anybody with full of blood-thirsty feelings except for armenians..... take care for your rest life...
              Last edited by milleniumboy; 10-19-2006, 06:51 AM.

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              • #17
                Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

                Things could have been worse. You could have married a Turk who's grandparents were rapists and murderers. You would be wearing a berka with no rights.

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                • #18
                  Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

                  Originally posted by milleniumboy
                  lucklady, u called u lucklady... you are aware of it.... to me, you are really lucky in the sense that u are still alive... thanks to god that you have rescued your life from that armenian... that should have been a good lesson for you....

                  Till seeing this forum I was neutral against the armenians but after reading lots of writings with revenge and bloody contents, slang language against an other nation here, I have lost my sympathy for armenians.... do not take what the primitive say to you here into considiration... they defend everything which contains a word "armenian" inside. they can call you "ooh hunny, ooooh sugar, oooh pretty lady etc. etc. etc." don't forget this hypothesis that Draculas or vampires are may be drived from the armenian diaspora because I did not see anybody with full of blood-thirsty feelings except for armenians..... take care for your rest life...
                  Way to go.

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                  • #19
                    Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

                    i dont think it is the fact that he is an Armenian/Lebanese man that would make him do that... afterall, I doubt one could be with 50 different men from 50 different cultures to make an assumption about which men from which culture have these sorts of behaviours.

                    Nevertheless, if could be true that "many" Armenian men are like that, as Anonymouse corrected, however, in general I think it is safest to say that PLENTY of men of ANY culture could have the same turn out after marriage.

                    Good luck with everything in the future, and stay strong! Keep your head up








                    oh.. and i also agree with the MOD (Anon? i believe) who posted in another thread, this insulting turk/armenian stuff is becoming nonsense. how that came into this thread a couple of posts up above is beyond me. although i must admit, and apologize if i tend to get a kick out of it myself time to time.
                    Last edited by garrgarr; 10-19-2006, 08:42 PM.

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                    • #20
                      Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

                      Originally posted by jgk3
                      And there is nothing wrong with Armenians mixing with non-Armenians, so long as their identity is preserved in their children. Armenian is a culture, not a distinct human species. At one time, all Christians in Anatolia only had two Churches to turn to, the Catholic and Apostolic Armenian churches. They came from various backgrounds that we'd consider today to be alien to the "Armenian Race", yet they joined and became assimilated, and their descendants are now indistinguishably Armenian. If the church at the time was less receiving towards these "aliens", we might've represented a smaller minority today... perhaps we'd be something more along the lines of the Laz for example, a distinct, ancient race that has more or less preserved it's homogenity. Perhaps we'd look more "Aryan" too, however, the reality is, we're mixed with the general Middle Eastern stock. From what I can see in your picture, you're no exception.
                      who told you this ?
                      your encouraging every one to increase the number of race traitors
                      among our nation.which is something that makes you a disgustig person.
                      armenian language was invented by armens an indo-european people.
                      and 90% of armenians are still look like mediterranian aryans.
                      armenians have rarely mixed with other nations.
                      its not my opinion but its some thing proved from race scientists.

                      and who are you to tell what do i look like ?
                      are you race scientist?
                      im not nordic aryan.though that there are nordic armenians.
                      im just normal meditteranian looking armenian close to greeks and italians
                      and i have nothing at all in common with middle eastern people.
                      i live in middle east btw.
                      when i walk in the street people know from my eyes that im armenian.
                      and i dont look like them at all.
                      this is my picture when i was young.
                      dont you think that im 100& aryan ?
                      maybe im little bit darker now.
                      cause i live in desert land.
                      but doesnt matter.when i was in abu dhabi every body used to think
                      that im irish/british.
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