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    Hi Everyone I am new to this forum and have been surfing around looking for sites to try and gain and understanding of what is going on here in my life. I married an Armenian/Lebanese man who in the beginning was caring, charming and just great to be around. Once we married he became controlling, egotistical, fanatical, overbearing, opionionated and cold. These are not the words of bitterness here they are just the facts and after only a year trying my best to understand and give love to what appeared to be an empty well with nothing in return I was forced to leave because of my own sanity and his increasing violent behaviour towards me even for a diffrence of opinion. Has anyone here had a similar experience? And also I have met people after my marriage that have told me that in there opinion most Armenians that have migrated from there home countries with families become bitter and twisted despite this maybe being way in thier backgrounds. I am very upset regards this situation, I am british and he knew when he married me that I am a strong independant women with views of my own. By the time I had to seperate with him recently I felt like I had been through a mental, emotional and physical war based on his baggage from wherever it stems from. His inability to be open minded and appreciate any one elses view point was practicaly non existant. As I say here I am not seeking to blame any culture but it would help me greatly to hear your comments and thoughts regards my situation.

    Thank you in advance

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    Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

    Sad to hear...but the truth is, generally most Armenian men are like that...not all, but MOST are like that

    So you say in the begging he was good but after marrage he changed...perhaps after the marrage he though he got hold of you and finally he can be who he really is...I don't know why they can't just be real from the begining so you can know what your getting into...

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      ^^ i disagree. people are so different from person to person, its impossible to think u can know someone based on their background. being Armenian isnt gonna make these traits of his ingrained in him because hes Armenian, its because of his own personal traits and circumstances he grew up in. sorry but i dont think anyone here can help

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        Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

        Originally posted by Fedayeen
        Sad to hear...but the truth is, generally most Armenian men are like that...not all, but MOST are like that

        So you say in the begging he was good but after marrage he changed...perhaps after the marrage he though he got hold of you and finally he can be who he really is...I don't know why they can't just be real from the begining so you can know what your getting into...
        I think most is too much of a powerful word. Many would be better.
        Achkerov kute.

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          Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

          Originally posted by luckylady
          I am british and he knew when he married me that I am a strong independant women with views of my own...His inability to be open minded and appreciate any one elses view point was practicaly non existant.
          It seems to me that after marrying you, he started respecting your views exactly as much as a British would - and does - respect the views of other cultures.
          LOL I would say that he became British in order to become one with you.




          Originally posted by luckylady
          As I say here I am not seeking to blame any culture
          I guess that's why you said:
          Originally posted by luckylady
          I have met people after my marriage that have told me that in there opinion most Armenians that have migrated from there home countries with families become bitter and twisted despite this maybe being way in thier backgrounds.

          P.S. For some reason, something tells that you're as fake as your story????
          What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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            Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

            He's back!

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              Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

              Originally posted by TomServo
              He's back!
              holly shtit
              I gotta say though I was hoping noone would reply to this thread, but I'm glad Siamanto has.
              Last edited by karoaper; 09-04-2006, 08:01 PM.

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                Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

                Originally posted by TomServo
                He's back!
                Like Ulysses? Maybe, I'm just "catching a connecting flight?"
                Unfortunately, I can't find the time - at least, for now - to participate. Occasionally, I browse the threads, maybe once a month? I hope that I'll be more active in the future.
                What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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                • #9
                  Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

                  Siamanto

                  Well said, I agree she's a fake.

                  Avak

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                  • #10
                    Re: Marriage to Armenian Lebanese Man Help

                    Originally posted by karoaper
                    I gotta say though I was hoping noone would reply to this thread, but I'm glad Siamanto has.
                    Just a lost ghost....so almost "noone."
                    What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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