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What Is Needed for a SUCCESSFULL MARRIAGE?

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  • What Is Needed for a SUCCESSFULL MARRIAGE?

    Would you choose to dive into a river without first learning to swim? Such a foolish act could be harmful—even deadly. Think, though, of how many people jump into marriage with little awareness of how to take on the responsibilities involved.

    JESUS said: "Who of you that wants to build a tower does not first sit down and calculate the expense, to see if he has enough to complete it?" (Luke 14:28) What is true of building a tower is also true of building a marriage. Those who want to get married should carefully count the cost of marriage to make sure they can meet the demands.

    A Look at Marriage


    Having a mate with whom to share life's joys and sorrows is truly a blessing. Marriage can fill a void caused by loneliness or despair. It can satisfy our inborn craving for love, companionship, and intimacy. With good reason, God said after creating Adam: "It is not good for the man to continue by himself. I am going to make a helper for him, as a complement of him."—Genesis 2:18; 24:67; 1 Corinthians 7:9.
    Yes, being married can solve some problems. But it will introduce some new ones too. Why? Because marriage is the blending of two distinct personalities that are perhaps compatible but hardly identical. Hence, even well-matched couples will experience occasional conflict. The Christian apostle Paul wrote that those who marry will have "tribulation in their flesh"—or as The New English Bible renders it, "pain and grief in this bodily life."—1 Corinthians 7:28.
    Was Paul being pessimistic? Not at all! He was simply urging those considering marriage to be realists. The euphoric feeling of being attracted to someone is not an accurate gauge of what married life will be like in the months and years following the wedding day. Each marriage has its own unique challenges and problems. The question is not whether they will arise but how to face them when they do.
    Problems give a husband and wife opportunity to show the genuineness of their love for each other. To illustrate: A cruise ship may seem majestic as it sits idle, moored at a pier. Its true seaworthiness, however, is proved at sea—perhaps even amid the crashing waves of a storm. Similarly, the strength of a marriage bond is not solely defined during peaceful moments of romantic calm. At times, it is proved under trialsome circumstances in which a couple weathers storms of adversity.


    "The Best Description of Love"
    "Love is long-suffering and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, does not get puffed up, does not behave indecently, does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not keep account of the injury. It does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails."

    To do so, a married couple needs commitment, for God purposed that a man would "stick to his wife" and that the two would "become one flesh." (Genesis 2:24) The idea of commitment frightens many people today. Yet, it is only reasonable that two people who truly love each other will want to make a solemn promise to stay together. Commitment accords the marriage dignity. It provides a basis for confidence that, come what may, a husband and wife will support each other.* If you are not ready for such a commitment, you are not really ready for marriage. (Compare Ecclesiastes 5:4, 5.) Even those who are already married may need to enhance their appreciation of how vital commitment is to an enduring marriage.
    VerTigO

  • #2
    one word. MONEY.

    I heard people say money can't buy you everything
    from what I experienced thats a damned lie!!!!!!!!!!

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    • #3
      We Have To Find Real Happiness

      On Earth,everything is money But only on Material desires...
      You cant buy happiness and even if you have money, it doesnt mean that you will be happy...
      Millions of rich people are having several kind of troubles...

      Happiness is not for sale; it is free. Where can we find such a precious gift?



      How to Find Real Happiness

      A BUDDHIST religious leader, the Dalai Lama, said: "I believe that the very purpose of our life is to seek happiness." He then explained that he believed that happiness can be achieved by training, or disciplining, the mind and the heart. "A mind," he said, "is all the basic equipment we need to achieve complete happiness." Belief in God is unnecessary, he maintains.*
      In contrast, consider Jesus, who had strong faith in God and whose teachings have affected hundreds of millions of people over the centuries. Jesus was interested in human happiness. He began his well-known Sermon on the Mount with nine beatitudes—nine expressions that begin: "Happy are . . ." (Matthew 5:1-12) In that same sermon, he taught his listeners to examine, purify, and discipline their minds and hearts—replacing violent, immoral, and selfish thoughts with peaceful, clean, and loving thoughts. (Matthew 5:21, 22, 27, 28; 6:19-21) As one of his disciples later exhorted, we should "continue considering" things that are 'true, of serious concern, righteous, chaste, lovable, well spoken of, virtuous, and praiseworthy.'—Philippians 4:8.
      Jesus knew that true happiness involves relationships with others. We humans are gregarious by nature, so we cannot be truly happy if we isolate ourselves or if we are constantly in conflict with those around us. We can be happy only if we feel loved and if we love others. Fundamental to such love, Jesus taught, is our relationship with God. Here especially, Jesus' teaching departs from that of the Dalai Lama, for Jesus taught that humans cannot be truly happy independent of God. Why is that so?—Matthew 4:4; 22:37-39.

      As You see MR. CROW that THE TRUE MAN "JESUS" is also saying something about how to have REAL HAPPINESS
      Money is Nothing!! You can make money but money will never make you!
      Last edited by Wise; 03-11-2004, 04:45 AM.
      VerTigO

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      • #4
        Excellent advice my friend. What is your opinion on homosexual marriages?

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        • #5
          Wow..this was a beautiful thread. Ahh...but the world is much too bitter to realize and understand what you are talking about Wise Guy. I hope that you are one of many men who feel this way....because you just showed me that maybe, just MAYBE, there's hope for us women! HAHA

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          • #6
            I think it's important for the married couple to constantly forum together and read beautiful wise advice such as this in order to stay successfully married.
            Achkerov kute.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by clubbin714 What is your opinion on homosexual marriages?
              "homosexual marriage"? Isn't that an oxymoron?
              this post = teh win.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by clubbin714 What is your opinion on homosexual marriages?
                Let us not start this again. It was long and heated and would be off topic here anyway.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Seapahn "homosexual marriage"? Isn't that an oxymoron?
                  No.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Seapahn "homosexual marriage"? Isn't that an oxymoron?
                    No.
                    More heterosexual marriages end in divorce than in homo. whats that show you?

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