Trust/Betrayal

[SagGal]

Do you trust people easily and do you open up with people? Are you too honest?

How about..........

Do you ever or will you ever forgive someone who lies to you? I'm not talking about silly arguments that people just can't get over, I'm talking about serious situations here. A betrayal.

Do you hold a grudge and let the person know that you're mad?
Do you forgive because everyone deserves a second chance? However that may turn into the 3rd, 4th....chance.
Do you forgive just not to deal with it?
Do you not forgive because the person might still betray you?
Do you forgive but never be as open with that person ever again?
Do you forgive and does it depend on the person?
etc.
Do you forgive?

[Merlin]

Light!

I wanna share something with that I learned from an ancient Wisdom..
Forgivness...
Why do we have to forgive...!!!!And why we dont have too...
Those are not wise questions...or answears..
But the real question is why did such a betrayel happened in the 1st place...
And do we deserve to forgive?
We may did the same mistakes in diffrent form with other peopel or same people.
We cant protect ourselves By blocking people bcoz we cant block all the people in every way....But we can Try to understand the reason of the actions that are happening in our lifes...and accept it.
And I am sure of one thing if we didnt not pass a problem o\in our lives the same problem will come and come until we understand why it is coming...!!!
I hope I was not so complexe in my words...

[dstyle]

Forgiveness is overrated, if someone sells you out so to speak, xxxx em. you dont need to forgive.

[PASAMONSTER]

As much of a maniac I am, I am forgiving especially when it comes to the ones I handed my heart to.

I will forgive but never forget or let you forget that I forgave.

[sleuth]

I think i am very conservative about trust and betrayal. Kind of between Hegelian absolute and conceptual style, which means i can be just an observer and look for the lesson and learning but also i can take action in revange,or laugh it off with sarcazm.

But human capacity of trust is amazing

we all are spiritual beings in a physical word and feel that basic confidence and security we become trusting over and over and over.

[DvlzAdvocate]

I am way too honest, and I trust no one.

I will never forgive someone who lies to me

Yes, but I wont let them know it, I don't show feelings to people. I'll just get revenge.

I rarely forgive but if I do i only give one chance and the person has to gain my respect and affection back.

[Siggie]

Do you trust people easily and do you open up with people? Are you too honest?

How about..........

Do you ever or will you ever forgive someone who lies to you? I'm not talking about silly arguments that people just can't get over, I'm talking about serious situations here. A betrayal.

Do you hold a grudge and let the person know that you're mad?
Do you forgive because everyone deserves a second chance? However that may turn into the 3rd, 4th....chance.
Do you forgive just not to deal with it?
Do you not forgive because the person might still betray you?
Do you forgive but never be as open with that person ever again?
Do you forgive and does it depend on the person?
etc.
Do you forgive?

I do not trust people easily. Perhaps because I don't like most people enough to even want to talk to them. I am very honest and direct though.

Normally I don't forgive those who lie to me, but I have in one extreme case and with a major lie because I gave them the benefit of the doubt that they "made a mistake". I've f*cked up before, not like that, but I guess it could happen. As for others, if I held them in high regard and it's not a major offense, I'll forgive for the same reason.

Most others I won't forgive and while I don't hold an obvious grudge, I just distance myself and eventually I don't have to deal with them at all. I do this because I don't need to give someone who wasn't that important to me in the first place a second chance.