Is it ok to look at a girl?

[Emil]

Let me explain.

Were beautiful/pretty/attractive women created for us to look at?

The reason I ask, a girlfriend/classmate of mine and I were discussing this in class. In my class, there are 3 girls and she is the prettiest one. So when we go on our dinner break, it's 4 of us guys and her going out. If we see a pretty girl, naturally us guys look at her. I'm not talking about staring the girl down and staring at her breast/ass. I mean we see her and naturally will check her out. If we do this, the girl with us will say "You guys are such pervs." My response is "Excuse me for the creator creating beautiful women. Are we not supposed to look?"

I feel that it wasn't necessarily a creator that made women beautiful so we could look at them, but I do believe there must be some sort of motivation behind beauty. After all, why do we even know about beauty in the first place? It's certainly not something that we're taught - there have been studies that show babies prefer attractive people over non-attractive ones.

So what you guys say? Were pretty women not created for men to admire?

[hyebruin]

not men!! but one man! i have a low threshold of tolerance for gawking men! looking is one thing! popping eyeballs and hanging out from inside the car and yelling like an idiot is another...i haven't done this yet, but next time i swear i will yell something back! and make them sorry they ever looked!!! cuz the ones who are worthy of attention have a polite and smooth approach! not like these human wastes...what has this world come to where a girl can't even take a walk in mid afternoon without being harrassed?

[jilbagh]

God gave us eyes....use them damn things mmmm k?

[angelik22]

i personally dont see anything wrong with that... when i go out with my guy friends, cusins or anyone whose a male- and i see a hott chick- ill be the first one to be like- hye guys isnt she gorgeouse? i think people who are insecure with themselves see it as something bad whne the guy they are with checks out another girl-- god did give us all eyes- men and women, therefore i preserve the right to check out a hot guy when i myself see one...
if i were with someone- in a relationship and we were out- and he was chekkin out another girl- or commented on her- i wuold be totally fine with it, cause hes got me- no matter who hes stareing at- cause theyre chekkin out the exterior- while they got a good "engine" and both interior/exterior all in front of them ...now dont take that out of context

[SagGal]

Being a girl myself, I don't mind if guys look as long as they dont have those perverted looks on their faces and don't say something gross. A girl dresses up sometimes to look pretty and feel pretty, so naturally she expects people, mostly men, to look at her. As long as it's a clean look, it should be A OK.

[angelik22]

agreed... i mean when someone looks at you in an innocent flirty way, thats cute,
but when old beaners- excue my stereotypical remark, start whistling at you and smiling and yelling uot things when your walking, thats disgusting...

remind me to tell you my horror stories about those... lol...

being endowed with such "ass-ets" is not a good thng when u got perves starin at you

[hyebruin]

haha it's not just 'old beaners' we've got our own bidtzas and babikner YES! old armenian men with wives and kids and grandkids who check out the younger generation goods while huddled around some park or hangin out their front door!!

[angelik22]

haha soooooooo true!!... one time me and a few friends went out to dinner and later went to get some coffee ...let me mention that this was in glendale- and right when we step fot into starbucks, it was packed with old armo men- older than my dad-- over40, and these two men, while we were sitting there and drinking our coffee, they walk by and one of them looks at me and goes, "vay vay vay..." with a nasty old look on his face... i was about to burst ad be like, amot choones? papikees tareekeen es ...herikaa nayes kanee achketeet tegheets chem hanel... but i respect older people and didnt want to openmy yap... so i just gave him a disgusted look... my friends and i couldnt stop laughing after that incident though- cause we later found out that this man was one of our classmate's dad's from high school...lol...od farts!!

[dstyle]

Both sexes look, men make it more obvious.

[hyebruin]

angel jan, maybe he said the 'vay vay vay' cuz he thought you were not dressed "conservatively' enough..ehhh? maybe he wasn't being nasty in that sense! maybe he thought your knees were showing or something and that was 'bad'...i cannot imagine old bidtzas actually vocalizing while gawking!