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I am here to ask everyone one seemingly obvious thing: think! Since taken literally my proposition sounds at least unreasonable, let me try to refine it: enjoy thinking! Now, this sounds 'hoyakap' (exellent)! In other words, work on not getting frustrated, when something makes you uncomfortable. Learn to enjoy thinking over the solution. Dont be "pissed off" because someone seemed too annoying, instead "switch a circuit" in your head and let your reaction to the person be in productive thinking; ultimatelly, the latter should be triggered by anything or anyone who is about to provoke a reaction from you. Instead of spilling anger, start off by thanking the person for making you think. The entire process will help you gain control over your reactions and consequently you will be able to direct the output in a specific way which is a lot more likely to have desirable results.
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