virgin or nonvirgin, does it matter guys?

[jahannam]

since most of the active forumers are guys... I thought I'd give this question a shot...
just to make sure... I'm not talking about "dating" here.. I'm talking serious relaionships, marriage, etc...

[Anonymouse]

You know what? I don't give a xxxx anymore as long as the girl isn't a ho bag because in America, you are bombarded with sex from every orifice of communication since birth, so temptations will run rampant and not everyone can fight temptations, most will give in and most will be ho bags as society stands proof, but as long as the girl ain't a ho bag I really don't give a damn anymore.

[sSsflamesSs]

What the hell? Have the other guys lost their balls or simply don't care enough to answer? Or are they still deciding whether they like boys or girls?

[jahannam]

SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol I was gonna ask the same question but then I thought you guys ar gonna think I"m advertising my own thread or something lol
what is it guys? whats the answer?
or are you GUYS????

[Anonymouse]

Dude, seriously, I don't care anymore. I'm not the control freak Armenian despote brawny man that will go to deep ends to check phone records and follow my wife to find out if she's cheating on me, or ask the girl "Hey are you a virgin?". She can lie, everyone lies now, it doesn't matter. In this country everyone does.

I wouldofcourse prefer a virgin but then again how do I know and who cares these days? The girls are as much about giving it up as are the guys, so as long as she isn't a ho bag I probably won't care if she got stabbed by her ex or what not.

What do you girls think? What is your personal opinion about this topic?

[surferarmo]

I agree here. I would prefer a virgin, but as long as she isnt xxxxing every chair she sits on...its all good.

Do you girls care if you have a virgin or not?

[Andromida806]

You can't blame me for being fashionably late... I am 9 hrs ahead of your time so I'm probably counting sheep while your stroke happy fingers are going at it. But anyways... If a relationship is what you're refering to.... as long as she hasn't done 18 laps around the block, I can live with the fact that she has experimented, cuz face it, we all have with sex,drugs,alcohol, tobacco etc. As long as she is sweet,genuine,can have fun like one my good friends, and enjoys my weirdness, She will live like a queen. So to answer your question (thats one hell of a sidetrack) No it doesn't matter. A few uses are ok.... But abused is just out of the question. And just a little note for all you guys out there. I know exactly what your thinking. "xxxx that, I want to be the only one." Guys don't want to except the fact that their girl has done something with other men. It's like have to feal like they have discovered unencountered territory, and yet get mad after they ask a girl how many partners they've been with... Ironic isn't it... MEN, sometimes they just dont realistically understand xxxx. It's ok though, I guess that just gives me the advantage

[sSsflamesSs]

True, the environment today is not what it used to be like, say 50 years ago, and as the wise Anonymouse mentioned, "you are bombarded with sex from every orifice of communication since birth." Needless for me to say, sex is out in the open these days, and virginity has lost its value in the hearts of most people.

However, it shouldn't be assumed that every girl likes to give it out like candy. It's a matter of one's values, and no environment can change that. Although there are few, there ARE girls out there that are saving it...some for religious reasons, others for more personal reasons.

Personally, sex for me is an emotional element, more than it is a physical one. What I mean is, being in love is a prerequisite. I like to think of humans as higher beings than other animals...that they engage in sex for reasons other than animal gratification and reproduction. Sadly, I believe that's just wishful thinking on my part. The majority of people would fail to be like that.

Anyway, as far as the original post goes, yea, of course, I'd prefer a virgin over a nonvirgin. Unfortunately, since it's in guys' nature to spread their seed like horny bastards, I don't think that's going to happen. I mean, it's only fair if a girl is saving herself for THE guy, that'd he'd be doing the same for her. However, as I mentioned before, nonvirgin guys greatly outnumber virgin guys these days, so I'm just going to have to be more flexible. Just hope that he isn't some "ho bag" or "xxxx". Believe me, guys can be that too. Well, what's new, life isn't perfect.

His added experience couldn't hurt. :twisted:

[Andromida806]

His added experience couldn't hurt. :twisted:

For me its more like a sixth sense.... Like an animal I just know, by instinct. It's a god givin gift I tell you, To be able to please those that unusually get pleased. I love it

[Andromida806]

Sorry I know I was a lil off topic with those posts... I gotta say emotional, If you are with someone of the opposite sex its all about emotional connection between the 2 of you, I can understand getting wild every once in a while, but for me, there has to be an emotional connection there somewhere. So if I was cheated on by my significant other, It would be emotionally disturbing. But revenge is not the answer. I just pitty the peons that go to great lengths, to win my heart over and screw it up. (For those people, Now you realize what you've lost) anyways so, It's really emotional betrail in my eyes.