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Do you ever get sick of the people you already know and just wanna go out and meet new people? This happens to me sometimes, and it aint too easy meeting new people for me anyway. So I suppose this thread is about ways to meet new people (for friendship, or possibly even an interest)
1- Meeting people online first
This works sometimes but the problem is, sometimes people can be completely different in person. A good thing about chatting with people online is.... well the person has to at least be able to somewhat operate a computer, and in this case, browse forums.... so that filters out a lot of morons.
2- Randomly going up to someone and saying hey, whats up/ commenting on something like what they're wearing or how they look
This is usually what happens when guys try to meet girls.... "Akhchi allo!!! Anoonut Asa!?!?" or "HeY wUsS yO nAmMe GuRlL" This type of behavior can be observed while cruising in a car or walking around aimlessly on streets trying to scope out the scene.
3- Meeting people at a party
..... what kinda people can you even meet at a party? Lustbuddies? Alcoholics? Druggies? ...the party thing aint for me
4- Meeting people through friends
...Well this kinda defeats the purpose, if you meet someone through a friend its not really a clean fresh start with a new person with no connections anywhere to your past friendships or relationships...
To sum it up: Well maybe I just dont get along with people or im too picky who knows, but I find it hard to meet new people.... what about you guys?
1- Meeting people online first
This works sometimes but the problem is, sometimes people can be completely different in person. A good thing about chatting with people online is.... well the person has to at least be able to somewhat operate a computer, and in this case, browse forums.... so that filters out a lot of morons.
2- Randomly going up to someone and saying hey, whats up/ commenting on something like what they're wearing or how they look
This is usually what happens when guys try to meet girls.... "Akhchi allo!!! Anoonut Asa!?!?" or "HeY wUsS yO nAmMe GuRlL" This type of behavior can be observed while cruising in a car or walking around aimlessly on streets trying to scope out the scene.
3- Meeting people at a party
..... what kinda people can you even meet at a party? Lustbuddies? Alcoholics? Druggies? ...the party thing aint for me
4- Meeting people through friends
...Well this kinda defeats the purpose, if you meet someone through a friend its not really a clean fresh start with a new person with no connections anywhere to your past friendships or relationships...
To sum it up: Well maybe I just dont get along with people or im too picky who knows, but I find it hard to meet new people.... what about you guys?
). I don't think it's being too picky at all. The reason you find it hard to get along with people is because the bar/standards for having substance and quality have dropped off SEVERELY for people over the last few generations, and I don't see it getting better any time soon. I mean, I've tagged along with this person, or that person to parties here in there for whatever reason I got myself into that situation, and I can't believe how many times I've watched a mother at those parties sit there WITH their 15 year old daughter, and get trashed. WTF are you doing??? It's your child. Try being a parent, not a "cool friend". Just because you handle your life problems through getting belligerently drunk, doesn't mean you should start teaching your hardly in puberty children the same. What ever happened to kicking the crap out of your kid if you caught him/her doing such things? Ehhhh....it's a lost cause. I don't even say anything anymore. I used to get into big arguments and go off on tangents with people like that, but I just don't care anymore. I have my small, inner circle group of friends that I can tolerate, and that's about it. The rest of the planet can continue its cycle of voluntarily f*cking itself over.
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