why we never understand men?

[winoman]

It's because our brain is more advanced and can figure things out faster than your's. It's alright, don't be sad about it. It's just the way it is. LOLLLL J/K I know women are crazy.

Yeah - women are crazy (pretty much all of them...and counting...)...but thats Ok - crazy can be sexy (in a sense...)...and I don't discount that gals can figure out some things faster...though I won't put myself in 2nd place on all counts...I know for a fact that I excell in terms of spatial processing and such things as map reading - certainly as compared to my wife (who is quite lame at such)...but in the verbal arena - watch out - she has it all over me!

So Ok I accept that gals are crazy and smart - OK?

[violette829]

Yeah - women are crazy (pretty much all of them...and counting...)...but thats Ok - crazy can be sexy (in a sense...)...and I don't discount that gals can figure out some things faster...though I won't put myself in 2nd place on all counts...I know for a fact that I excell in terms of spatial processing and such things as map reading - certainly as compared to my wife (who is quite lame at such)...but in the verbal arena - watch out - she has it all over me!

So Ok I accept that gals are crazy and smart - OK?

I think we've figured out the answer to one of life's most complicated questions:



WOMEN: Smart & Crazy
Men: Dumb and Sane

[winoman]

I think we've figured out the answer to one of life's most complicated questions:



WOMEN: Smart & Crazy
Men: Dumb and Sane

Yes perhaps we are onto something here...but how do we explain/characterize the fact that much of the time guys are just being led around by the thing that sticks straight out between their legs? (is this sanity? I would say far from it...though it perhaps can be said to be a simple pleasure...) Does it perhaps have something to do with wishing to (literally) return to the womb - nice warm, safe, enveloping? Interested in the (intelligent) gals perspective on this one....

[ArmoBarbi]

I think the womb theory makes you sound like Freud! lol

We are genetically wired to reproduce. A man should take every chance to spread his genes. Of course we have the physical sensation as a motivation to make sure that this happens.

[winoman]

I think the womb theory makes you sound like Freud! lol

We are genetically wired to reproduce. A man should take every chance to spread his genes. Of course we have the physical sensation as a motivation to make sure that this happens.

Yet all the young men that we've produced out there make it harder for us old guys to get laid - so what gives? (j/k BTW - but couldn't help the thought...)

Actually yes we are - and it drives us hard...literally!...

[violette829]

Well, I think that theory sounds interesting, but too simple to explain this phenomenon. Here's my take on the matter:

Men are simple creatures. This means that they have simple thoughts. This is what goes through his mind when a man notices an attractive woman:

"Gee, here's a good looking girl. Men put their ding dongs into a woman's hoohoo and this feels good. Wow, that would feel good...mm..mmmmmmm..."


THE NEXT THING YOU KNOW, he has a hard on.


End of story.

[nunechka]

this thread is so funny! lol!

about the gun violence... actually 85% of the women own guns, buy them to comit suicide and they do... men on the other hand buy it to kill their wife or other family member.

and about that thing that sticks out and you (winoman) say that "much of the time guys are just being led around by [it]"... There are those that have a cognitive ability to control themselves and then there are those that dont...

i think sex is great, I LOVE IT! but if some guy is ugly or has a personality that turns me off, i would not want to touch him, but a guy would... they would have sex with girl who they believe is ugly, or someone they dont respect, etc...

men are NOT led by "it" they dont try to stop it from leading them, and thats the truth... while women actually do stop themselves...

its just so much better being a women (even with the uncomfortable feeling of the period once a month).

[Tres Bien]

I think the thread should be called why we never understand women? IM having a harder time understanding women rather than men.. as violette said men are simple creatures ...

[winoman]

All good points gals.

Nune - you might be surpised but most guys exhibit alot of self control too. (even if we do talk and think about sex quite often....)...and even if our biology dictates certain reactions it doesn't mean that we can't use other faculties to make more informed and wise decisions (not always perhaps and not all - but most do I think...and i think rape is a real aberrent behavior. its certainly nopt anything I could ever imagine doing myself - under any circumstance. And I've never gotten laid just to get laid - I've never been with a gal that I didn't like (very much) or respect (unless it was one of my g'fs girlfriends that I didn't always know so well...and she was with us of course...and luckily I guess - for me - they were always pretty cute...)

I once dated a gal who was a federal agent and always carried a gun with her. I thought this was way cool. I always would ask her to confirm that she would protect me if we ever got into any trouble... ...we also use to sometimes have some fun playacting with her gun and stuff...hey - had to be there I guess... ...she also really got off (I mean really got off - literally) about my driving. I'm a very extreme driver and she always dated cops and stuff (had been one) and got off on very aggressive and what some may consider dangerous driving...well (as in many things) I was the best...

And Violette - you hit the ole nail on its very head I should think! ...amazing how that works - but whats a guy to do eh? We are all victims of our own biology to an extent eh?

[ArmoBarbi]

I think mine was the best, but to each his own...