armenian moms

[sev_zeytun]

is it just me or are all armenian moms super complainers or super strict. My mother wouldn't even let me go to the college i wanted to go to. Once she got angry at me and lectured me for 3 hours for misplacing her comb (she couldn't find it) after cleaning the bathroom(which she asked me to do).

Just curious to see if it's only my mother who is like this or if it's with eveyones moms.

[Gunner14]

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Super complainers? never heard that one before....

My mom is probably the kindest person I have ever known. But she too can be stouborn about certain things. However, I have come to realize that if I talk with her about somthing, and make a good point, even though she doesn't like it, she will be swayed by my good argument.

My dad on the other hand...not so much. He'll just make a statement, and if I dont agree with him then .... "erexa es" "ban chigides" im 23 years old ffs.

[armo_origin]

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My dad on the other hand...not so much. He'll just make a statement, and if I dont agree with him then .... "erexa es" "ban chigides" im 23 years old ffs.

Haha my dad says the exact same thing. They just don't like to be challanged in any shape or form.

[Էլիա]

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My mom's pretty annoying... but she doesn't seem very strict.

[sev_zeytun]

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Super complainers? never heard that one before....

My mom is probably the kindest person I have ever known. But she too can be stouborn about certain things. However, I have come to realize that if I talk with her about somthing, and make a good point, even though she doesn't like it, she will be swayed by my good argument.

My dad on the other hand...not so much. He'll just make a statement, and if I dont agree with him then .... "erexa es" "ban chigides" im 23 years old ffs.

Yeah, well my mom, even when i make a good point or if i tell her something she does not like she will not close her mouth until her jaw falls off (literally). it's kind of rediculous sometimes. Once, instead of saying hey mom, i said hey(in a bad mood that day) and i was lectured for 2 1/2 hours on how i should not show disrespect to her by addressing her by way.

My dad doesn't say anything bad. in fact, he hardly speaks at all. He's too tired from work and, plus, my mom does all of the talking (and then some ).

[MrLeftyHye]

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My mom is so kick back shes the coolest lady. I am blessed to have a mother like mine. Sev zeytun instead of complaining about your mother maybe you should be thankfull that she provides food on the table for you... she pays for the roof on your head.... & has given you life.

[Esther]

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is it just me or are all armenian moms super complainers or super strict. My mother wouldn't even let me go to the college i wanted to go to. Once she got angry at me and lectured me for 3 hours for misplacing her comb (she couldn't find it) after cleaning the bathroom(which she asked me to do).

Just curious to see if it's only my mother who is like this or if it's with eveyones moms.

Wow, that sounded like an exact description of my mum ...my mum is really spirited and tries to interfere in every single aspect of my life; sometimes it's really annoying, but I've learnt to deal with it

Everytime she pushes too hard, I remind myself of the fact, that she just wants the best for me, so that would be my solution for the problem, so chin up

[sev_zeytun]

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My mom is so kick back shes the coolest lady. I am blessed to have a mother like mine. Sev zeytun instead of complaining about your mother maybe you should be thankfull that she provides food on the table for you... she pays for the roof on your head.... & has given you life.

i know that i should be thankful, and i am. i love my mother to death. When i was about 9 years old my mother got really sick (took a flu vacine with penacilin and she was allergic to it---started having massive strokes for 6 years and almost went blind [she saw black and white dots]---the doctors didn't know what the problem was because they didn't suspect the flu vacination and thus she almost died in front of me in the hospital on 3 occasions---my father would always go to work until maybe 9 o'clock and when he got home he just fell asleep when he sat down on the coach---we never had a lot of food because we spent most of our money on hospital bills[that's why i don't have any money for college]) i appriciate the fact that she is still with me to this day and that she is still alive but she has never been like she is now [even when i was a little girl before the illness issue]. i don't think anyone will ever understand how much i love my mother but she just seems to get angry at everything, even if it's really unimportant.

[Gunner14]

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We all have parants who we don't see eye to eye with on certain issues.

I used to always argue with my dad about everything.....Cars, Sports, Career, Education, xxxs, Blacks, Girls, EVERYTHING....

Then, i just stopped arguing..... everytime i felt a confirtation coming in my head A Coldplay song started to play, and i was in my "happy place" -- kind of why i found a job that required me to move out.

I like him better now, then i ever have....cus i just say "whatever" and move on.

I really hope you find a way to not let your mom get to you....... talk to her, and ask her questions, but don't argue her answers....ask her anything......its good to ask questions.... works for me anyway.

[garrgarr]

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The reason why parents do such things to us is to protect us from any thing that can spoil us in the generation we live in today

Everything they do is for our best nature, whether we can see that directly or not... it's only true.. they try to protect us from things that might have hurt them in the past, and they teach us from their encounters... sure, they do seem to do some things like they were done in the "past" but if some of those things were maintained to this day, I can only imagine how different the world would be... in a better way.

It's just too heartbreaking to learn that there are so many Armenian youths/children being brought up in the wrong sense i.e. disrespectful, dishonest, no discipline, etc.

In the end, no matter how much you will disagree... we will turn around and thank them for every single thing they've done to us, whether we saw them bad or good back when they did it for us.

I'll never get over how much I appreciate the presence of parents, even if they do get "annoying" or "too involved" in my life, I'd rather have people with me who know me inside out truly and teach me things the proper way than follow the wrong path thinking it is the right way to go