Sex before marriage

[ArikAgamian]

artshaksi

haha il explain later

anyway to answer your question yes of course i believe in sex before marriage and would not want a virgin.

Firstly because obviously the sex with a virgin would be crap....and secondly where i am from finding a virgin would be like finding a golden pot at the end of the rainbow...ie it doesnt happen
Here in Eire girls are having sex from as young an age as 15 and Virgins at my age (22) dont exist....if there are they would be looked upon as some sort of freaks.
and since i lost my virginity 6 years ago its unfair to expect a woman to be one.

[Artsakhtsi]

***Actually I have a perfect solution to stay virgin. Just take it up the ass.*** ( Anonymous)


I didn't get that one

[anileve]

anonymouse do you realize that a virgin's vagina is tight? having sex for the first time "tears" the vagina slightly and it makes a big difference that is why men like virgins because they are tighter. sorry to get so graphic here but that is why girls cannot lie to their boyfriends telling them that they are virgins when htey are not, the guy should be able to tell.

This is a misconception; you should learn female anatomy and stop listening to your male friends. A vagina does not tear during the primary intercourse. You might say that the hymen tears, but that is also not a standard occurrence, since that can happen during other activities or because of other reasons all together. Also it can feel much tighter if a woman abstained from sex for a very long period of time and her vagina contracts, therefore you can be fooled into believing that she’s a virgin. Being with a virgin is completely psychological. That being said I also prefer a virgin, they are very easy to teach.

[anileve]

I never said you can't. But this is a deviation from the traditional "christian" upbringing most Armenians are raised with. Then for all purposes we have to now drop religion and its tenets and instead conform to the new secular outlook on stuff. Marriage is just a social institution created by man, along with the "nuclear family", its again another part of mans aims to transcend his animality and give himself some nobleness. But marriage is artificial, only a state of mind, and a piece of paper. Take that away, a married "husband and wife" are no different than someone who is not married. Hell, Neanderthal man just used his woman for mating purposes.

Agreed. Your signature is gross.

[ckBejug]

Actually I have a perfect solution to stay virgin. Just take it up the ass.

:? :!:

[Anonymouse]

[quote="Artsakhtsi"]

I would prefer a virgin, but then again in this day and age it's fallacy.

These days everyone sleeps around whether out of love or soulless sex, it doesn't matter, and they turn around and lie to their new boyfriends that they are 'virgins'. It's all too common. Some girls are 'born again virgins' and some even have sex, yet in their sick demented mind some how convince themselves that they are still virgins and tell their next boyfriend that they are virgins. After all the lack of virgins these days goes hand in hand with the high divorce rate, and reflects the overall promiscious cultural lifestyle espoused by Hollywood movies, music and trendy pop culture.

So I don't care anymore I just wanna xxxx.

hi, thanx for answering.

Being non-virgin doesn't have to be equal to *sleep around* i mean why can't u have a normal relationship with a guy u love which includes sex? is it wrong? And it's not just about *xxxx* ....
it's more then that 8)

I never said you can't. But this is a deviation from the traditional "christian" upbringing most Armenians are raised with. Then for all purposes we have to now drop religion and its tenets and instead conform to the new secular outlook on stuff. Marriage is just a social institution created by man, along with the "nuclear family", its again another part of mans aims to transcend his animality and give himself some nobleness. But marriage is artificial, only a state of mind, and a piece of paper. Take that away, a married "husband and wife" are no different than someone who is not married.

No, we don't have to *drop religion* , we just can not follow Bibel at 100% ,as much as we want to, time is changing and u can not do anything about it..., unless we stop to develop (it's not a perfect solution).
We just gotta stop to think of sex as it it a sin, why can't we think of it as a beautiful act of love?! Well that's only if u r not fooling around with everyone u see , and don't care, coz the only think u want - is just f-ck!

I agree, the part about* image * , we were raised to not forget the fact,that we are armenins....and by knowing how ppl(including armos) ussualy looooove to gossip, we better be carefull.

The "image" I am referring to is not about being Armenians, it's this image that girls have of themselves as "pure" even the xxxxty ones that xxxx around with every walking thing. That is what drives some to extreme ends of making them selves actually believe that they are virgins.

Actually I have a perfect solution to stay virgin. Just take it up the ass.

[Artsakhtsi]

So it seems we all want in our prospective mate someone who hasn't tended to sleep around too much and has had meaningful sex instead of just mindless f-ing, right? (ckBejug)



Fair enough! Don't u think :?:

[Artsakhtsi]

I would prefer a virgin, but then again in this day and age it's fallacy.

These days everyone sleeps around whether out of love or soulless sex, it doesn't matter, and they turn around and lie to their new boyfriends that they are 'virgins'. It's all too common. Some girls are 'born again virgins' and some even have sex, yet in their sick demented mind some how convince themselves that they are still virgins and tell their next boyfriend that they are virgins. After all the lack of virgins these days goes hand in hand with the high divorce rate, and reflects the overall promiscious cultural lifestyle espoused by Hollywood movies, music and trendy pop culture.

So I don't care anymore I just wanna xxxx.

hi, thanx for answering.

Being non-virgin doesn't have to be equal to *sleep around* i mean why can't u have a normal relationship with a guy u love which includes sex? is it wrong? And it's not just about *xxxx* ....
it's more then that 8)

I never said you can't. But this is a deviation from the traditional "christian" upbringing most Armenians are raised with. Then for all purposes we have to now drop religion and its tenets and instead conform to the new secular outlook on stuff. Marriage is just a social institution created by man, along with the "nuclear family", its again another part of mans aims to transcend his animality and give himself some nobleness. But marriage is artificial, only a state of mind, and a piece of paper. Take that away, a married "husband and wife" are no different than someone who is not married. Hell, Neanderthal man just used his woman for mating purposes.

No, we don't have to *drop religion* , we just can not follow Bibel at 100% ,as much as we want to, time is changing and u can not do anything about it..., unless we stop to develop (it's not a perfect solution).
We just gotta stop to think of sex as it it a sin, why can't we think of it as a beautiful act of love?! Well that's only if u r not fooling around with everyone u see , and don't care, coz the only think u want - is just f-ck!

I agree, the part about* image * , we were raised to not forget the fact,that we are armenins....and by knowing how ppl(including armos) ussualy looooove to gossip, we better be carefull.

**Hell, Neanderthal man just used his woman for mating purposes.[/quote]**

usED? past? most of man still does use women for mating purposes, maybe that's why guys ussualy compares sex to something dirty and sinful


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[Artsakhtsi]

[quote="Anonymouse"]

I would prefer a virgin, but then again in this day and age it's fallacy.

These days everyone sleeps around whether out of love or soulless sex, it doesn't matter, and they turn around and lie to their new boyfriends that they are 'virgins'. It's all too common. Some girls are 'born again virgins' and some even have sex, yet in their sick demented mind some how convince themselves that they are still virgins and tell their next boyfriend that they are virgins. After all the lack of virgins these days goes hand in hand with the high divorce rate, and reflects the overall promiscious cultural lifestyle espoused by Hollywood movies, music and trendy pop culture.

So I don't care anymore I just wanna xxxx.

hi, thanx for answering.

Being non-virgin doesn't have to be equal to *sleep around* i mean why can't u have a normal relationship with a guy u love which includes sex? is it wrong? And it's not just about *xxxx* ....
it's more then that 8)

I never said you can't. But this is a deviation from the traditional "christian" upbringing most Armenians are raised with. Then for all purposes we have to now drop religion and its tenets and instead conform to the new secular outlook on stuff. Marriage is just a social institution created by man, along with the "nuclear family", its again another part of mans aims to transcend his animality and give himself some nobleness. But marriage is artificial, only a state of mind, and a piece of paper. Take that away, a married "husband and wife" are no different than someone who is not married.

No, we don't have to *drop religion* , we just can not follow Bibel at 100% ,as much as we want to, time is changing and u can not do anything about it..., unless we stop to develop (it's not a perfect solution).
We just gotta stop to think of sex as it it a sin, why can't we think of it as a beautiful act of love?! Well that's only if u r not fooling around with everyone u see , and don't care, coz the only think u want - is just f-ck!

I agree, the part about* image * , we were raised to not forget the fact,that we are armenins....and by knowing how ppl(including armos) ussualy looooove to gossip, we better be carefull.

[Anonymouse]

I would prefer a virgin, but then again in this day and age it's fallacy.

These days everyone sleeps around whether out of love or soulless sex, it doesn't matter, and they turn around and lie to their new boyfriends that they are 'virgins'. It's all too common. Some girls are 'born again virgins' and some even have sex, yet in their sick demented mind some how convince themselves that they are still virgins and tell their next boyfriend that they are virgins. After all the lack of virgins these days goes hand in hand with the high divorce rate, and reflects the overall promiscious cultural lifestyle espoused by Hollywood movies, music and trendy pop culture.

So I don't care anymore I just wanna xxxx.

hi, thanx for answering.

Being non-virgin doesn't have to be equal to *sleep around* i mean why can't u have a normal relationship with a guy u love which includes sex? is it wrong? And it's not just about *xxxx* ....
it's more then that 8)

I never said you can't. But this is a deviation from the traditional "christian" upbringing most Armenians are raised with. Then for all purposes we have to now drop religion and its tenets and instead conform to the new secular outlook on stuff. Marriage is just a social institution created by man, along with the "nuclear family", its again another part of mans aims to transcend his animality and give himself some nobleness. But marriage is artificial, only a state of mind, and a piece of paper. Take that away, a married "husband and wife" are no different than someone who is not married. Hell, Neanderthal man just used his woman for mating purposes.