Sex before marriage

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi To hell with preferences, it's gotta be a natural choice.



This thing about posts, is it like a race or somth.

I don't choose a woman based on the status of her hymen. I guess I was trying to say that there are more important things.

There is no race that I'm aware of, but I ragged on Arvest earlier about posting so much. Now I'm outpacing him, so he shouldn't feel so bad.

[Artsakhtsi]

Originally posted by loseyourname By the way, in response to your original question, I have no preference. Non-virgins are typically going to be more thrilling right away, but I don't mind waiting, and the enthusiasm of someone new to sex is infectious. Furthermore, it is really fun to watch a recently devirginized girl learn - the joy in her eyes is enough to make me cry inside. Ahhhh . . .

Well, I did it. I got to 100 posts by Christmas. Arvest, I think I may be close to your daily average now, but I'm probably not even in the same league as Mousy.

To hell with preferences, it's gotta be a natural choice.



This thing about posts, is it like a race or somth.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi Exactly my point.

By the way, in response to your original question, I have no preference. Non-virgins are typically going to be more thrilling right away, but I don't mind waiting, and the enthusiasm of someone new to sex is infectious. Furthermore, it is really fun to watch a recently devirginized girl learn - the joy in her eyes is enough to make me cry inside. Ahhhh . . .

Well, I did it. I got to 100 posts by Christmas. Arvest, I think I may be close to your daily average now, but I'm probably not even in the same league as Mousy.

[Artsakhtsi]

Originally posted by loseyourname Don't get me wrong - your first is very special, and you should choose the person wisely: someone who is loving, tender, and patient. It does not, however, need to be THE person for you.

Exactly my point.

[loseyourname]

Sex is whatever you make it. It can intensely loving, even spiritual with the right person under the right circumstances. Other times, it can be purely fun, an opportunity to show off particular talents or try new things. Sometimes it is nothing more than stress medication. I say just get the first time out of the way, and a virgin should never lose his/her virginity to another virgin. I lost mine to a relatively experienced girl (for a 17 year-old) who was very good in the bedroom, and I'm glad I did. When you make such a big deal out of it, you set yourself up for disappointment, and you forget that it's only one of thousands of times. Don't get me wrong - your first is very special, and you should choose the person wisely: someone who is loving, tender, and patient. It does not, however, need to be THE person for you.

[Artsakhtsi]

Re: Re: Sex before marriage

Originally posted by spectra I think that virginity is a gift to the men you love. By losing your virginity shows how absent minded you were or are in you life. I personally prefere girls that are not absent minded. Therefore, I would like to give my advice to girls, please don't lose your virginity unless you really love the person and are willing to continue living with them. Guys usualy want to have intercourse in the begining, but then they kind of calm down. So if the guy begs you to have sex with them, please reject and continue having your relationship without sex for a while, then make a decision.
I don't think guys would need an advice on this one, but I think guys should calm down too and give the girl time to think.

So to be a non-vergin is equal to be an absent minded?! Did i understand you right?

That is the most absurd comparison i've ever heard.

I agree though with the part about gift.

thank you

[spectra]

Re: Sex before marriage

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi Hi people!

I wonder if u already have discussed this topic! I'm realy curious what u people think about it, it's kind of popular subject here ....
For example arevamothyer e they ussualy do not accept such a thing, same with hayastantsi.... but parskahyer e .... are more openmined ( the ones i know).
So tell me, what do u think, and what does people around u think?!

Thanks 8)



p.s. question to guys - which one do u prefer virgin or not ?

I think that virginity is a gift to the men you love. By losing your virginity shows how absent minded you were or are in you life. I personally prefere girls that are not absent minded. Therefore, I would like to give my advice to girls, please don't lose your virginity unless you really love the person and are willing to continue living with them. Guys usualy want to have intercourse in the begining, but then they kind of calm down. So if the guy begs you to have sex with them, please reject and continue having your relationship without sex for a while, then make a decision.
I don't think guys would need an advice on this one, but I think guys should calm down too and give the girl time to think.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by ckBejug I meant you came in here and talked up a storm and forgot to introduce yourself in the main forum newbies intoduce yourself sticky thread. Just a suggestion



p.s. I used that okizaki fragment joke at work. It was great. lol.

Thanks - thought it was pretty good myself when I came up with it. I guess I didn't really feel it was necessary to post to the intro thread since all that info's on my profile anyway.

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by loseyourname I'm just being a little kid, ck. It's fun to watch people argue. I'm not too sure what you want me to introduce.

I meant you came in here and talked up a storm and forgot to introduce yourself in the main forum newbies intoduce yourself sticky thread. Just a suggestion



p.s. I used that okizaki fragment joke at work. It was great. lol.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by ckBejug What are you talking about?? Maybe you should be more clear about what is so funny, I'd like to laugh about it too....


and you forgot to introduce yourself....

I'm just being a little kid, ck. It's fun to watch people argue. I'm not too sure what you want me to introduce.