Sex before marriage

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Originally posted by PASAMONSTER ooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhh mother insult......


frenchie one thing you have to realize here in america we like our mothers specially the armenians, insult the everything and anything, exept for Mother.

Yep, I feel like ashamed of that. But his answer pisses me off.

Without any insulting, you may say many things that apply also to your parents. So think twice before saying such a thing. There is 70% chances his/my mother had an adventure before getting married.
Would my mother be the xxxxx he is speaking about if she had some lover before my father ?
I don't think so, what he is saying is simply stupid and insulting for all mothers and for all women and all potential mother

Now i feel sorry for the insult.

[PASAMONSTER]

ooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhh mother insult......


frenchie one thing you have to realize here in america we like our mothers specially the armenians, insult the everything and anything, exept for Mother.

[felizitation]

Originally posted by Nimrod The rest of you women who are acting haughty about spreading their mind open as opposed to their legs: no respectable man wants a girl who has been corked with someone else's cum. I mean the only exception is if she was raped or her boyfriend or husband died.

So, you'll never do it with your mother ?

[Nimrod]

The rest of you women who are acting haughty about spreading their mind open as opposed to their legs: no respectable man wants a girl who has been corked with someone else's cum. I mean the only exception is if she was raped or her boyfriend or husband died.

[Nimrod]

Originally posted by Anonymouse I would prefer a virgin, but then again in this day and age it's fallacy.

These days everyone sleeps around whether out of love or soulless sex, it doesn't matter, and they turn around and lie to their new boyfriends that they are 'virgins'. It's all too common. Some girls are 'born again virgins' and some even have sex, yet in their sick demented mind some how convince themselves that they are still virgins and tell their next boyfriend that they are virgins. After all the lack of virgins these days goes hand in hand with the high divorce rate, and reflects the overall promiscious cultural lifestyle espoused by Hollywood movies, music and trendy pop culture.

So I don't care anymore I just wanna xxxx.

Right. Now a days you are lucky if your girl is even a girl. However, what really just pours salt to the wounds is when she ACTS like a virgin when it comes to marriage. But prior to thinking about settling down, she was young dumb and full of cum, and that is not really a good sign of a partner anyone would want for commitment either.

[PASAMONSTER]

and I have not the slightest doubt in that

No pun intended

[sleuth]

thanks passa but even if i will be judged i know i m clean..thats whta matters to me

[PASAMONSTER]

no ones gonna judge you!!!

If you haven't noticed you're on my good list and when you're on my list sweet thing no one will dare critisize you or judge you.

ehhhh thats what i get for being known as the monster. Eternally scaring people away, if this keeps up i'm gonna be left all alone. BOOOO HOOOO HOOOO. LOLLLL

[sleuth]

In my point of view if too ppl connected to each other emotionally ,mentaly,spiritually so there is no point to avoid to be connected fisically as well...because if you connected with all of your emotions and you avoid conntact to him fisically then you abviously follow your mind but not your heart and feelings...and mind is crap ,it has nothing to do with your feelings or emotions,,,i prefer to follow my intuition, emotions and feelings.,because thats who i am .....GUYS don't get me wrong i m not talking about girls who sleep around for fun or just to get xxxxed.... sure thing they know they are dirty and the realization that what they do is WRONG they bury the truth...simple as that..but if you have someone in your( life which is normal),share the moments emotionally and fisically then nothing iswrong with that, and there is nothing to hid...

judge me!!! :PPP I am not virgin

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Originally posted by jahannam and what exactly makes you think that virgins need to be taught, and that they don't know how to perform in bed??? that's a TERRIBLE assumption.
bringing pleasure is a part of someone's personality.
people don't LEARN to do it.
so when two people meet, they're either sexually compatible or they're not. if the girl doesn't have the attitude you want her to have in bed, chances are she'll never "learn" to be what you want her to be.
people's sexuality is born with them.
but anyway, take it from me. SPECIALLY in your case, I'm pretty sure you would want virgins, cuz they're a lot hornier lol and cuz they've kept it inside ALL that time.
just something to think about.

It's not the idea you expressed at all. By "teaching", i wasn't talking about sexual performances, but about owing something to someone.
Listen, what I mean is simple: virginity is gaining so much ground, grows so much in significance, that the virgin woman consider it as a symbol or a gift. But this is not.
By offering this gift, women considering the virginity as such, are transfering a responsability to the man taking it. The transfer is not free at all: the man should be up to it, and agrees, a mutual dependance, since this gift happens once in a lifetime.

Hence, I think that implicitely, a link of strenght is created: the man take something to the woman, the woman agrees with that. The man takes, the woman gives. The man gains something, the woman looses.

Thus, the look the woman would have, concerning this man, is like the embodiement of a symbol. Loosing her virginity would be like moving from the symbol of purity to a symbol of confidence and dependance. I alluded to a teacher because of the knowledge: the teacher represents the knowledge, and is bound to the pupil by a duty or responsibility, since the pupil expect something from the teacher.

So, what i was saying is that I refuse this symbolism and especially this link of strenght. I would consider my companion as being an entity equal to me (yes yes anon, no one is equal). A woman who have kept her virginity necessarly had symbolised it as I mentionned.

Now I agree with you that sexual pleasure is not only a matter of experience, but also a matter of involvement and feelings, which bring much more delight than just physical performances.

But I think we are not speaking in the same wavelenght, are we ?