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In my opinion it's very difficult to find an honest girl, who will truly love you.
Nowadays girls (most of them) are two-faced, for them marring you can be a real chance for leaving Armenia.
I don't want to discourage you, just be very CAREFUL!!!
Is it me or do all Hayastancis want to get out of Armenia?
It's you.
No one from my circles wants to leave. And also no one who has already lived in the West wants to leave Armenia for good.
The only ones who are eager to leave and never return are the tufta, anmakardak boshaner (ask your Hayastantzi friends for a translation). Fortunately we don't have many of those.
Originally posted by Dice
i want to go to armenia to find a wife, what steps must i take and how do i go about doing it: what must I know about all the customs etc. i am half armenian but never lived there but really want to get married to an armenian girl
For an Armenian (even a half Armenian) marrying an Armenian is a great idea! Now, don't get me wrong, but I got to ask you this: What makes you think YOU deserve a Hayastantsi woman? I mean, what have YOU got to offer her? Or do you just think that your foreign passport is enough for a Hayastantsi girl to like you? I just hope you are not as narrow minded as some of the posters in this thread who suggest that Hayastantsi girls are some kind of goods on a supermarket shelf and that you have to be careful not to pick up a faulty one. What a bunch of morons! Specially the female and the Hayastantsi ones among them. Tqem dzer annamus eresin!!! ...Don't listen to them.
Generally speaking if you are a decent guy, and I have no reasons to assume otherwise, then you'd have no problems finding a decent girl. I suggest you travel to Armenia and stay there for a while. No one is going to punch your head if you introduce yourself on an appropriate occasion to a girl. Don't rush anything and just take your time, even if you don't establish a friendship with a girl after a few tries you will still learn a great deal about the local girls in general and you will be in the position to tell yourself whether or not you still want to go ahead. Then take it from there.
If you already visited Armenia before then you must have a general idea about our girls. If that's the case then tell me what is it that you like about them and what is it that you don't like about them?
And last but not least: Why don't you want to marry a Diasporan Armenian girl? For example someone from your Armenian-half's background? What's wrong with an Amerikahay (or where ever you come from) Armenian girl? She might be Amerikahay born there, or born in Lebanon, Iran or even Hayastan but living in your country of residence. Why don't you want a Diasporan Armenian girl?
Last edited by HayotzAmrotz; 08-12-2008, 11:47 PM.
Cause they are trators and not real Armenians. That's the short answer at least.
For the first time in more than 600 years, Armenia is free and independent, and we are therefore obligated
to place our national interests ahead of our personal gains or aspirations.
Haha yeah. Did you take the time to read either of those articles? They made me sad, and really pissed of at the same time. Makes me hate turkey more and at the same time realize just how much garbage we have within our own people.
For the first time in more than 600 years, Armenia is free and independent, and we are therefore obligated
to place our national interests ahead of our personal gains or aspirations.
thanks for your replies so far everyone theyve been really helpful
yes i have two aunts in armenia with their whole families and their extended family, a couple of cool cousins, ill ask if they can introduce me to some girls..hope it wont be awkward asking that sort of thing.
I have been to armenia a few times most recently this summer, mainly to explore the country..countryside etc, met two nice girls: one was a family friend in yerevan who was older than me by a few years so that kinda ruled it out and another randomly in dilijan when her family invited me for dinner. i didnt wanna make things awkward by asking her phone number while her family were there. so thats my limited experience of armenian women: im looking for great personalities like that as well as just a pretty face.
i live in manchester, england and i think western society really affects people, it messes up their morals etc. the men are women and the women are men(in terms of roles and in some cases i mean it literally- look at homosexuallity). what i mean is their idea of how they should behave is directly influenced by this western society which is based on a combination of consumerism and feminism. Its a feminist society here in the uk; because what does society place most importance/value on ? MONEY, GOOD LOOKING GIRLS etc. so autimatically girls feel confident and feel they are higher up on the social ladder than every single guy around cos all the guys are drooling at them and they play into this by dressing provocitvely etc.
So because the women here are automatically validated and can get anywhere in life with just good looks they feel NO NEED TO DEVELOP THEIR PERSONALITIES. I have done alot of searching here in the UK and have realised they're all dumb in reality! You have to do all this stripping down of layers to find the true self beneath the facade of the girl(the xxxxx shield) to get to the core, and THERE IS NO DEPTH TO THE CORE. they have no personalities cos this society actively encourages not to bother with it.
So people growing up here would still be affected by that.
I liek that the women in Armenia are by default WOMEN and know their place and role; i also have seen they have great personalities(not all obviously but quite alot).
I feel I have alot to offer; im a good intelligent guy who would make sure she is fulfilled in the relationship as that is very important to me. I am in the process of getting on my own two feet financially, so only once I have a good solid income would it be the right time to get married
oh and i wouldn't live in armenia, the goverment is too corrupt(not allowing people to leave and all this compulsory military service) and the employment situation is abismal: its one of the reasons people are unhappy because they have to do these random crap jobs due to the job shortage and work crazy hours/hardly see their families.....ofcourse i dont want to live like that, i dont want to live in the uk or usa either; im still thinking of the ideal place to settle down.
For the first time in more than 600 years, Armenia is free and independent, and we are therefore obligated
to place our national interests ahead of our personal gains or aspirations.
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