Virgin or Non-Virgin

[Pazooki]

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Lol kiss n tell bs :P

[Vigilante]

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^I'm right there with ya sero. sorta.

Atleast 3 times a week, but I know that the first 6 months-a year of marriage, there is going to be a lot more then that. but then when we settle down n xxxx, it'll be alot less, and finding the time for it will be harder. Unless you do a quickie in the morning or before goin to bed.

But with the whole oral thing. I donno. The way i see it. Whatever happens with me n my wife in the bedroom is between me n her. No kiss n tell bullxxxx, you know?

[Pazooki]

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I rather have my wife a virgin

It's not like ima be having sex everyday, probably once in a while like 3 times a week or something. I want to raise a family instead and probably too busy but still have time for sex.

And I dont know what most of you guys are thinking when you make a girl give you oral, and your wife at that. For Gods sake she kisses the kids goodnight!!!! LOl Robert Deniro

[ara87]

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Cases for a couple to lose their virginity before marriage

1) one or either partner is just horrible at sex
2) one or either partner could have an unrealized impotence issue
3) one or either partner realizes they're gay
4) since your partner is a virgin, that most likely means you haven't seen them naked, and when you do you could discover they look all sorts of nasty naked
5)various other reasons

[muffin]

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Anyway, again, since I know that Armenian Guys want the girl to be a Virgin. Ladies, how do you feel about your guy?

Do you want your husband to be a virgin or not?


The answer to your question is...HELL NO. He better not be a virgin and he better know how to do me well otherwise he's out the door. Now what guys don't get is that good sex ( which includes oral sex and lots of passion) is very important to a woman in a relationship. I can be inlove with somebody, but if sex is just xxxxx for 5 minutes, trust me that's going to get boring in about 2 months ( in my case less than that). The love's going to die out instantly. As a matter of fact it'll be an instant turn off. I have ended quite a few relationships for this reason only.

Now the question of virginity, I will never marry a guy without having sex with them. As a matter of fact I won't get into a serious relationship unless I know I'll be getting a good sex ( definition of good sex is in the previous paragraph). To me marrying somebody without ever having sex with them is like a watermelon. You don't know what you bought unless you split it open. In other words, it's the worse thing to do. WARNING: DON"T DO IT. So in order not to end up in an unwanted marriage, i need to experiment with guys until I find what I am looking for which throws the notion of virginity right out the window.

As it goes to men. Guys, speeping around with prostitutes or just any girl who says YES is DISGUISTING. I always ask my dates questions about their past and what's funny is that they instantly start bragging about the people they have been with cause in their narrow mind that's cool and "manly". Well let me break this for all the guys who do this, guys such as the one mentioned are so disguisting that I wouldn't even have sex with them with a condom knowing that it has been in any imaginable hole, blah. So don't be virgins just have meaningful relationships get experienced and most importantly practice safe sex. We live in a world of AIDS.

[ara87]

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^My post was deleted too.

I asked if Ara87 is a man or woman, but I think he's a guy, but why would a guy want a girl with some experience?

I thought Armenian Guys want virgins? I know I do. Or atleast as clean as possible, you know?

b/c like anything you do it gets better with experience(or should anyways), plus i don't really want to have to deal with the whole awkwardness of it being someone’s fist time, etc.

[jgk3]

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its not just about the physical impurities, its about the spiritual impurities as well, not to mention damaging your relationship with God.

Perhaps adhering strictly to the rules in the bible to construct your world view was something of the times way back when. Obviously, since the 4th century, we've gained access to a lot more literature (both in content and variety) and have been through kinds of events in history that had never occurred before that point.

It's important to adhere to the underlying traditions that lead our ancestors do great things, but one mustn't isolate themselves from the current times either and so don't be too hard on yourself about why your beliefs and what you had naturally used to construct your world view are contradicted by the bible.

I take note of the good things in the bible that I think could lead people to success in finding happiness but I certainly do not restrict myself to one book help me understand this God.

I think you can agree that the day to day cycle itself, whether we read the Bible, or any scripture, or just anything that tries to explain the nature of things, provokes us to see what we think we know in new ways of perspective and of scale, each time. This is just human nature, we evolve with every experience, however small or large and they affect how we think about the laws we live by. Certainly, our understanding of our relationship with God can evolve. It is probably one tried and tested example that all theists go through.

[Vrtanes]

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im not attacking anybody, i just think its funny that at one point in our history we were all ready to fight and die for our christian beliefs. 1700 years later we are still devoted christians until recently it seems.

for whatever reasons weve adapted western views on sex, and completely thrown our christian heritage and beliefs away. there was a time when sex was not just a moral issue but a spiritual one as well.

i used to think i was a good christian too at one point...that was until i actually bothered to read the bible. i then realized much (most) of my behaviour was in direct contradiction to my 'beliefs', ive since tried to apply christianity much more to my life. so now ive taken an oath of celibacy until marriage.

its not just about the physical impurities, its about the spiritual impurities as well, not to mention damaging your relationship with God.

[yerazhishda]

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virgin for marriage...dont care what they are for casual stuff

Don't get it. You require your future wife to be a virgin, but you don't have to be?

[jgk3]

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I think we'd all like to find that in our significant other, but the most important is to uphold strong values and be of good heart in our daily lives, regardless of whether we find this ideal match or not, and regardless of the let downs. In the end, at least we have found ourselves and thus, are not lost and miserable.