Originally posted by Fedayeen
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They fail because people are taking marriage about as serious as dating these days. Previously, people chose to get into a miserable relationship with someone they're not compatible with, but con themselves into believing they're in love with based on an occasional "tender moment" or two they share. Then, after dragging the relationship out too long, they'd finally break up. Instead, today people get MARRIED for a while to see how the relationship will work out, and then when they see they're not compatible, and it's just not going to work out, they get divorced.
As to the virginity question, I presume then that you expect the wife to be to have no premarital sex? If so, then are you saying if you don't get married till you're 25 or 30, you expect the 25 or 30 year old girl you're going to marry to have never had sex? Or do you plan on marrying a 20 year old since the chances of finding a virgin older than that are not good?
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