Virgin or Non-Virgin

[Vigilante]

Well, I know that a lot of Armenian guys out there want to marry a Virgin wife.

Me, personally, I want a virgin wife also. But I am still undecided if I will be ok with her if i knew that she has engaged in sexual acts with other men. It might not necessarily be coitus, but it might involve fellatio and other sexual acts.

I used to be chill and not care as much about those, if she experienced it before knowing me, but lately, I am just undecided because of this one incident.

Anyway, again, since I know that Armenian Guys want the girl to be a Virgin. Ladies, how do you feel about your guy?

Do you want your husband to be a virgin or not?

Or do you not mind if he has been with a few girls, but still marry him?

What are your thoughts on this?

Do you want him dirty or clean?

[yerazhishda]

Re: Dirty or Clean?

I forever be ridin' dirty.

[Fedayeen]

Re: Dirty or Clean?

Do you know why the divorce rate is so high in this country?

[yerazhishda]

Re: Dirty or Clean?

Do you know why the divorce rate is so high in this country?

1. Money issues
2. Boredom with partner
3. General defeatist attitude towards marriage
4. Acceptability in society

That should cover some of the basics.

[D3ADSY]

Re: Virgin or Non-Virgin

How many of these guys that want a virgin wife are virgins themselves?

[Crimson Glow]

Re: Dirty or Clean?

Do you know why the divorce rate is so high in this country?

Marriage: It's the new dating!

They fail because people are taking marriage about as serious as dating these days. Previously, people chose to get into a miserable relationship with someone they're not compatible with, but con themselves into believing they're in love with based on an occasional "tender moment" or two they share. Then, after dragging the relationship out too long, they'd finally break up. Instead, today people get MARRIED for a while to see how the relationship will work out, and then when they see they're not compatible, and it's just not going to work out, they get divorced.


As to the virginity question, I presume then that you expect the wife to be to have no premarital sex? If so, then are you saying if you don't get married till you're 25 or 30, you expect the 25 or 30 year old girl you're going to marry to have never had sex? Or do you plan on marrying a 20 year old since the chances of finding a virgin older than that are not good?

[Anonymouse]

Re: Virgin or Non-Virgin

I had to change the thread title because the original thread starter had an offensive title.

The title was "Clean or Dirty" or some such thing, implying that someone who has had sex is "dirty" while someone who has not is "clean."

I would presume we have moved beyond such simplistic categorization of people based on their sexual relations. If you still think that way, you might want to move to Iran.

[Sip]

Re: Dirty or Clean?

Do you know why the divorce rate is so high in this country?

One reason is because of the power women have over their own lives. They can make it on their own and don't need to be slave to any man. The divorce rates in more "traditional" settings is artificially much lower because simply the women do not have that choice to say hey, I want out. They are forced to "make it work".

It's a lot like Ahmadinejad standing up and saying there are no homosexuals in Iran. Of course in reality, it's just hidden behind some facade. They can also very easily claim that the divorce rate is very very low in Iran (and fail to mention how little a woman can do on her own in a society like that).

[Anonymouse]

Re: Dirty or Clean?

One reason is because of the power women have over their own lives. They can make it on their own and don't need to be slave to any man. The divorce rates in more "traditional" settings is artificially much lower because simply the women do not have that choice to say hey, I want out. They are forced to "make it work".

It's a lot like Ahmadinejad standing up and saying there are no homosexuals in Iran. Of course in reality, it's just hidden behind some facade. They can also very easily claim that the divorce rate is very very low in Iran (and fail to mention how little a woman can do on her own in a society like that).

Indeed.

And in some Islamic countries such as Saudi Arabia and even Egypt they still practice female circumcision.

If these countries aren't backward, I don't know what is. I can already hear the cultural anthropologist crowd rearing their heads with the relativist nonsense about how, "Oh, different cultures value different things."

Baloney.

[Dice]

Re: Virgin or Non-Virgin

what was this 'incident' cmon spill the beans man!