If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

[One-Way]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

But I'd have to search anyways, b/c there's not that many Armenian girls around my age group here in Dallas, and the next nearest group of Armenians are in Houston, and lets just say they're just to Houstony. And by "searching for one in Armenia" I mean searching in general. Why does it matter how far I go, whether it be Houston, L.A., Dearborn, or Yerevan? Why should I have to go search for an Armenian bride when there are there are a million suitable odar's right outside my doorstep? I'm not saying that I'm not going to try and find an Armenian necessarily, but if I happen to meet an odar and we hit it off, I'm not going to shed any tears over the fact that she isn't Armenian

I understand, I just don't understand people who go to Armenia specifically to find a girl. From the very few I've spoke to, they claim the girls in Armenia are much "better" in the sense that they're more Armenian, whatever that means, and they're cleaner.

I'm only 21, but I grew up knowing I was going to end up with an Armenian. Even in high school, I didn't avoid hanging out with other races, and I didn't try to hang out with just Armenians. I always found myself with Armenian people and now I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years.

I guess I agree with Armenian when he said:

The point is, you try your best to marry an Armenian without thinking about - what nationality would I chose if I can't find a compatible Armenian to marry.... Once you begin going your route, you are more than half way there in marrying a non-Armenian.

Whatever you people do, it's your choice, and I won't call it right or wrong. I just hate it when I see people who don't acknowledge the fact that they're Armenian. They marry outside their race and their children aren't raised Armenian. I disagree with that much.

[ara87]

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Do you live in Armenia?

If not, why do you have to "search for a bride in Armenia?" What's wrong with finding an Armenian girl where you live?

That was in reference to Aramanen's comment about there being "plenty of Armenian women in the homeland" and just people saying it in general as joke(or seriously) "We're going to go find you a nice girl from Armenia"

But I'd have to search anyways, b/c there's not that many Armenian girls around my age group here in Dallas, and the next nearest group of Armenians are in Houston, and lets just say they're just to Houstony. And by "searching for one in Armenia" I mean searching in general. Why does it matter how far I go, whether it be Houston, L.A., Dearborn, or Yerevan? Why should I have to go search for an Armenian bride when there are there are a million suitable odar's right outside my doorstep? I'm not saying that I'm not going to try and find an Armenian necessarily, but if I happen to meet an odar and we hit it off, I'm not going to shed any tears over the fact that she isn't Armenian

[One-Way]

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but I'm not gonna go out of my way to search for a bride in Armenia

Do you live in Armenia?

If not, why do you have to "search for a bride in Armenia?" What's wrong with finding an Armenian girl where you live?

[MrHyeSev]

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Ahh Ok I see thanks for clerfiying that.

[ara87]

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So Ara your saying if you marry an odar you wont have kids?

No, i'm just saying that if I decide I don't want kids to be in my future, then there's no real need for me to go out of my way to find a nice Armenian girl to marry, b/c there's no worry about raising the kids Armenian. If the woman I want to marry one day so happens to be Armenian, then I'll marry her, but I'm not gonna go out of my way to search for a bride in Armenia, or put an end to good relationships b/c the lady's an odar, and an odar is "not who i envision being the mother to my children. "

[Anoush]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

Indeed Anoush jan! I agree 100%

Thank you dear!

[meline]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

There's an old but thruthful Armenian saying that goes... "Odar axchige Hay deghamartoun hars chellar".

Indeed Anoush jan! I agree 100%

[Anoush]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

Be that as it may, I still thought it would be interesting to hear what everyone had to say.

I get why you wouldn't say any race is compatible, i.e. african, but an Armenian could still marry an Indian, Hispanic, or even an Asian, and still have Armenian looking children. We maybe "white" but we're not that "white."

If for instance you would marry an african, there's a good chance that if not your own child or grandchild; but six generations after you, at least one child is possible to be black. If you marry an Asian, a great many generations after you the Asian features will be predominent as it is not likely to be rid of the Asian features easily.

Anyways, if I decide I want to bless the world with little versions of myself one day, I'll probably marry an Armenian.

I hope you'll find someday that dreamy Armenian girl.

[MrHyeSev]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

So Ara your saying if you marry an odar you wont have kids?

[ara87]

Re: If you couldn't marry an Armenian.....

If you are going to start this debate with this defeatist proposition, you are simply readying yourself psychologically to marry an non-Armenian.

Be that as it may, I still thought it would be interesting to hear what everyone had to say.

...then there is nothing wrong with marrying a German - or any other compatible (white/European/Christian) nationality. To be on the safe side, however, marry an Armenian - that's the best bet anyone can have in creating a new generation of Armenians.

I get why you wouldn't say any race is compatible, i.e. african, but an Armenian could still marry an Indian, Hispanic, or even an Asian, and still have Armenian looking children. We maybe "white" but we're not that "white."

Anyways, if I decide I want to bless the world with little versions of myself one day, I'll probably marry an Armenian, however should I decide the world is not deserving of my mini me's, I'll probably marry an odar.